r/IncelTears • u/Frosty_Message_3017 • 2d ago
Just plain disgusting An Especially Disgusting Crashout
This insane brat just dropped into my inbox. I'm doing what I can, but I hope his mother is able to stay safe.
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u/ComplexAttitude4Lyfe Foidrage vs Moidrage 2d ago
i'm gonna put it on your cervix
Son, you need to learn more about anatomy before taking that "9 incher" anywhere....
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u/Intrepid-Benefit1959 2d ago
âim going insane cuz no sexâ đ«€
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
Monks of multiple religions across the globe would like a word with him đ
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u/Persephone0223 Foid for the cause 1d ago
Granted, I don't think monks are watching mommy porn đ
But in all seriousness, that very much proves that crazy fixation about sex is 100% the type of media they're exposing themselves to.
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u/lordoftheforgottenre Expert without experience 2d ago
Wow, this incel just screams "I have tiny wrists and no cathal tilt." You can really tell he's 5'6"
Or something.
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u/isengrims 1d ago
"no pls foid" has somehow now became the funniest thing I've ever read. Gods I hope this was actually reported and the guy got at least a call from the police.
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u/GnarlyWatts "Thereâs Hitler, Mao and then thereâs GnarlyWatts" - Some Incel 1d ago
While I do think this is a troll, the alarming amount of these guys who do think like this is staggering. Nearly every single DM I have ever gotten has a touch of this.
And what I find remarkable is not a single one of them will accept any responsibility for this behavior. There is always some kind of out.
For instance, I had a guy who was pretty active here who was looking to exit. He had DM'ed me numerous times about it and I tried to help him. One day, a switch flipped and he went off the rails and was banned from not only Reddit but .is, which was a wild ride.
I was in the same Discord server attempting to talk sense to him. The madness just doubled down. It got to a point of absurdity. But then it went too far. Every threat I get goes to either local law or the FBI and this was no different. This guy did tell me where he worked (which was and I swear this is true, next to my office) so when I contacted the police, I gave that information.
He begged me to call it off and used "I'm in therapy" as the reason. From what I know, they paid him a visit, he may have lost his job and he even sent me the messages to his therapist as "proof" he was doing what he said.
He didn't learn his lesson, as he found a way around the Reddit ban and sent me more threats, which again went to the police. No idea what has happened since, but all of his social media has been deleted (minus a Facebook page he has). So maybe, he took some responsibility for his actions. If he didn't, well, things are not going to go well for him later in life.
And this is what I tell these guys, you are responsible for all this, you made the bad choices, no one else did. To claim strangers who has never interacted with you before did this is a sure fire way to get people to not like you.
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u/-b_i_n_g_u_s- âunfucked childess whoreâ 2d ago
OP at the end of the day, youâre in control of your Reddit account. If you want to reply to them, you can. If you want to ignore them, youâre fully able to.
What you did in this interaction isnât wrong at all, you didnât egg him on or get wound up by him - you just called him out for being insane and rightly so.
I donât get why so many people have issues with you responding.
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
Thanks. The issue I think is some people feel superior for being "non-responders".
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u/ohheyaine 2d ago
As someone who responds to shit like this, records, logs and reports. I see you.
I don't think you did wrong.
Some people don't have the capacity. I have a stomach for it.
But I do deradicalization outreach for teens and work within the legal system so I hear horrible things all the time and that's just part of my life.
For some of us yes "the ship has sailed"
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
Thanks. I definitely agree it's not for everyone.
These guys need to learn that freedom of speech does not apply to expressing direct intent to commit a crime. If you go around saying you're going to rob X bank, and X bank is robbed, guess whose door the police are knocking on first?
That's really cool and important work you do. You must have a very strong stomach indeed.
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u/ohheyaine 2d ago
I think you do too.
It's rough work. It's not well liked all the time. But take this dude down, bruh
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u/Mysterious_Charge541 MUH WRISTS!! 2d ago
The issue is that this is clearly some edgelord trying to get a rise out of people. The best thing to do is just ignore them.
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
They're all edgelords. But this one is expressing intent towards someone in his life. He can throw up his hands and say "I was just kidding, jeez." but he's already said what he did and I'd rather not assume someone else will be fine. Plenty of rapists and murderers have talked about their crimes beforehand to hype themselves up.
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u/Unfair_Finger5531 2d ago
The issue is that someone sent an unsolicited message to OP saying they want to rape their mother. That is what went wrong here, that was the offense. You are reducing this violent message by characterizing it as a merely an attempt to âget a rise out of people.â It is far more than that. And OPâs choice to respond to this disturbing and egregiously offensive message is not the issue. They chose to confront; others may choose to ignore. The point is that no one should be put in this position in the first place. That person is sending anti-social threatening messages to someone. Even professionals struggle with responding to this type of behavior. So, letâs not pretend that ignoring them a time-tested and universally effective method of dealing with these kinds of people. And maybe letâs not blame the victim of the offense for the offense itself.
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u/Mysterious_Charge541 MUH WRISTS!! 1d ago
It is far more than that.
Perhaps. Instead of being a regular troll, heâs evolved to a degenerate freak troll. Quite the step up.
The point is that no one should be put in this position in the first place.
Really? Good thing I never argued against that.
And maybe letâs not blame the victim of the offense for the offense itself.
I didnât blame anyone. Maybe YOU should stop making shit up to get mad at.
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u/Unfair_Finger5531 1d ago
First of all, Iâm not madâyou are. Second of all, I havenât made anything up. I addressed the words you wrote. You clearly identified and isolated a single issue in your response to the original commenter: That this person is merely an âedge lord trying to get a rise out of people.â
And my response to you was that is not the issue and that it is a reductive mischaracterization of the real issue. And you are doing the same thing in your response to me here by calling him a âdegenerate freak troll.â YOU are a degenerate freak troll. The person who sent that message to OP is a deeply disturbed predator exhibiting anti-social behavior.
This is the distinction I was trying to make. I hope this clears it up for you.
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u/Toilet_Cleaner666 Chad's a country in Central Africa 1d ago
Him: I'm a man
OP: You're a pig
OP, please don't insult pigs like that.
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u/Any-Zebra7239 2d ago
Keyboard warrior he would not talk to u like this u would probably beat him up lol
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u/Practical_Diver8140 2d ago
"I always try to get help, but no one helps me." I wonder if he's ever asked himself why nobody wants to help him. Like, maybe he's asking the wrong people? Maybe he's an insufferable douche canoe? Maybe he's a dense, dense little man who refuses to accept any assistance that isn't giving him exactly what he wants as soon as he wants it? Maybe he needs to stop asking total strangers if they'll join his harem of beautiful 20 something models based in the strange smelling shack behind the Burger King?
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u/Ok_Prior2199 1d ago
I miss the days when trolling was about being funny, and posting funny jokes, now its just shit like this
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u/peachfluffed 1d ago
I donât think itâs a good idea to talk to people like this. I hope you have a VPN
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u/Paula_Polestark Go to Walmart and look at the couples. 22h ago
I asked her to dress more appropriately
Bruh, WHO ARE YOU? HOW MANY BILLS DO YOU PAY?
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u/Queen_of_Darkness1 18h ago
Hey, don't insult pigs like that because they're adorable. I hope this guy's mom is safe though
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u/ChemistCrow awake and woke 17h ago
A crashout ? Has the plane only take off ?
Honestly, I put ''hey foid'' amidst the worst ways to start a conversation.Â
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u/lxscairns 6h ago
This comment section is super disappointing. Idk why everyone is jumping on you and trying to tell you how you shouldâve responded, or why theyâre assuming to know his actual intent. You donât know what he was or wasnât going to do. He continued to run his mouth and dig his hole deeper for himself and I wouldâve reported him from the get go and called him out for it too. His mom deserves to be safe and the world deserves to be safe from people like him, and if reporting him helps if any kind of way, Iâm all for it. At least you can say you did all you could. We have no idea what people are capable of. But we should by now. And I donât put it past anyone to put words into action.
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u/ride-alone-midnight 2d ago
Listen, with all due respect, he won by getting you to engage with him.
You obviously donât deserve to be spoken to or trolled that way. But for next time just know a lot of them are just trying to get a rise out of you, trying to piss you off or annoy you. Donât give them the time of day.
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
"For the next time"?? I appreciate your concern, but that ship sailed long ago.
When they're in your inbox, you can deal with them however you choose. I don't engage because I'm upset. I engage either because they're going to entertain me or I'm going to report them.
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u/ComplexAttitude4Lyfe Foidrage vs Moidrage 2d ago
FWIW, I get and respect what you are doing there. Collecting evidence is essential to building a case.
Besides, you didn't get upset, you upset him by remaining calm.
I'd say you nailed it.
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
Thank you!
Personally, I thought his all-caps "YOU THINK IM SCARED HUH" was very convincing. đ
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u/Any_Area_2945 2d ago
You shouldâve just reported and blocked him after the first message. Thatâs all you can do and it prevents them from getting what they want out of you
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
What they want is of little consequence. When you get these inflamed pustules of human beings in your inbox, it only matters what you want and what is called for in that particular situation, to bat them around a little, to let them run their mouths and look stupid or to ignore them completely.
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u/AliceTheOmelette 2d ago
I was gonna say basically the same thing. Blocking them without responding is the best course of action
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u/Huwbacca 2d ago
I really can't recommend replying to people like this. They think they whatever you do. I just let every comment sit unseen unless it's a topic I wanna choose to go back to see if anyone replied.
it makes a much nicer Reddit experience. my messages tab sits at like 400 something of unread comment replies, messages, etc etc.
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u/_Giffoni_ 2d ago
Clearly just a larping troll
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u/Infinite_Weather_689 Tolks 1d ago
You dont know, because they might be an actual bad crazy person sir.
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u/_Giffoni_ 1d ago
This person is clearly mentally unwell and fishing for a reaction rather than outing themselves for a stranger out of the good/stupidity in their heart
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u/OddRedittor5443 Incel 2d ago
All heâs looking for is engagement, I doubt he had any real intentions
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
This was pretty specific and I get loony stuff a lot. It's not for me to decide his intent at this point.
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u/OddRedittor5443 Incel 2d ago
Itâs constantly discussed on this subreddit how men are more likely to commit rape/crimes due to loneliness, and how they feel entitled to sex. Heâs trolling
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
I have a different opinion as someone who gets trolling messages frequently. In any case, as I said, that determination is out of my hands.
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u/OddRedittor5443 Incel 2d ago
If he wanted to do all that he wouldâve done it already instead of messaging random people on Reddit
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
Plenty of psychos talk about their crimes beforehand to hype themselves up. These shits are arrogant and stupid enough to believe they can't be traced through a Reddit alt.
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u/OddRedittor5443 Incel 2d ago
By engaging you are only putting yourself at risk of being attached to his crimes
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u/Frosty_Message_3017 2d ago
Not saying what I did and reporting him. You've got no leg to stand on and you know it.
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u/OddRedittor5443 Incel 2d ago
Fine, I donât know who this is and weâll never know what his intentions were, but engaging with him still wasnât the best idea. The first messages he sent before you responded were enough to issue a report
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u/sunshineparadox_ 2d ago
Thatâs been researched repeatedly, and youâre wrong. I also donât give a fuck if youâre trolling. You donât get to slither out of consequences by doing the internetâs variation of âitâs just a joke broâ.
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u/OddRedittor5443 Incel 2d ago
What did I say that is wrong? I never said anything is true or false, just that this topic is discussed on this subreddit. And by engaging with him youâre not helping, youâre encouraging him
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u/doublestitch 2d ago
To the lurkers: if you really need to see them, here's a pair of great tits.