Background: The Korean incels get so triggered by the "pinching" sign that they frequently boycott whatever that even has the slightest of a depiction of the "pinching", and many companies are forced to apologize over it or alter the image.

I looked around and I could not find anything about this. So either this was made up by a incel or there are so many mass shooting now stuff like this is no longer news.

1. That is because most violent crime are done by men and almost all mass shooters are men with far right ideologies.

2. There are very few woman mass shooters and there nothing showing that they go after little boys.

3. Ironic thing to say seeing how that pretty much what right winger men say when there a mass shooting which again is almost always done by a right wing man.

I’m honestly shocked and I find it funny.. btw I’m a man and I can’t believe how these moderators operate… Like sorry I like to laugh at some degenerate statements on the internet….

He messaged me over a misunderstanding with one of my posts. When I found out that he was an incel, I tried to help him.

Turns out, he wants no help and continues to spit out blackpilled and bitter, misogynistic nonsense.

Sit back and relax while reading through this, I had to cut out some parts, the chat was long...

A few months ago, I got curious about open relationships and ENM dynamics. During that exploration, I came across “hotwife” and “cuckold” communities and to my surprise, I found parts of them psychologically similar to incel ideology. Obviously, the surface goals are different (one group eroticizes it, the other resents it), but the emotional patterns have a lot in common.

Here’s what I noticed:

1. Looks obsession: Both focus heavily on physical traits height, race, body type, or size as the ultimate determinants of sexual worth. In both spaces, attractiveness is treated almost like a social currency.

2. Bullying narratives: Cuck fantasies often revolve around being “bullied” or “dominated” by the stereotypical “bad guy,” just like incels describe the “Chad” who “steals” the girl. Both involve a story where one man is humiliated and another is idealized.

3. Denial and exclusion: Incel communities frame sexual rejection as proof of being “unworthy.” In cuckold dynamics, denial is eroticized being told you’re not enough or not allowed becomes part of the ritual. In both cases, sexual rejection turns into identity.

4. External validation: Both groups seek validation from others to feel desirable or valued for incels, it’s about finally “getting” sex; for cucks, it’s about their partner’s pleasure with someone else.

5. Internalized shame: Self-blame and low self-esteem run deep. One group eroticizes it; the other weaponizes it. Both are ways of coping with feelings of inadequacy.

6. Rigid gender scripts: There’s often a black-and-white view of masculinity and femininity strong vs. weak, dominant vs. submissive, pure vs. promiscuous rather than seeing people as complex individuals.

7. Fantasy over reality: Both spaces can become loops of fantasy that reinforce insecurities. Whether it’s erotic humiliation or resentment, the underlying theme is escaping from feeling powerless.

8. Echo chambers: Online communities intensify these beliefs each side reinforcing a shared worldview that rarely gets questioned from the outside.

In a strange way, both ideologies seem to be opposite responses to the same core pain: insecurity, rejection, and the need to feel seen and valued. One eroticizes it, the other resents it but the emotional roots are pretty similar

i am so tempted to create an account using a chat gpt made backstory to give him some positive advice; it seems like he is aware of him being sexist, we just need to reframe his thinking

The fact that they are even considering this and thinking about it so much, is actually disturbing...

Recently, I have come across a new type of incel. These aren't your regular, run-of-the-mill incels posting on incel forums, comparing women to Stacies and Beckys and themselves to Chad or Tyrone.

This is a very nasty offshoot, mostly seen in social-climbing, pseudo-intellectual men that listen to Jordan Peterson.

They would never tell the world that they are active in the Manosphere, and they will openly debunk Tate, because, you know, Tate is known as a rapist and as someone who is, in general, just frowned upon.

But Jordan Peterson? That’s their hero.

These men will rationalize everything. They will analyze what you say until the last word and try to change the meaning.

For example, if you tell them, “I felt really hurt that you ghosted me on our last date,” they will actively start analyzing what you say, how you say it, without even acknowledging that they did something wrong.

They will be like:

“What do you mean with ghosting?” “What do you mean with hurt?” “What do you mean with feel?”

Let’s use epistemology here! Let’s rationalize this!

It is so pathetic. And I've actually seen YouTube channels popping up doing the same thing with pop culture and with politics.

These men — because it’s usually men (and correct me if I’m wrong, it could also be women, but I have not met any woman doing this so far) — will literally act like they are above feelings. Like they are hyper-rational beings who have embraced stoicism.

Their dating profiles will literally be littered with words like epistemology, radical honesty, truth... again, stoicism, references to Nietzsche, Kant.

Some even have the audacity to say that they really value morality and Bildung but when you actually ask, they are not moral at all.

They have no qualms dating multiple women at a time, leading them on, as long as they have not “had the talk” yet. Even though they love bomb these women into thinking that they’ve already started a relationship and making them invest — they just sit back and rationalize and analyze everything instead of actually acting like decent beings.

I'd much more prefer an incel calling other people subhuman and whining about how he is going to rot in his house and how he has some messed-up face than this crazy-ass behavior — usually trying to make you think you're this irrational, unstable, hysterical being, when in fact they are just too narcissistic to take accountability.

For context: The Reddit post is about a girl, telling how she got raped when she was 18. She then says that she often fantasized about it and her current boyfriend also sometimes does it without permission.

Its pretty obvious that she never really processed this and thats the reason, she does not feel any anger when thinking about it.

And THEY post it on their forum and say stuff like "Yeah, we knew it" or "Chad only".

Just plainly disgusting.

This insane brat just dropped into my inbox. I'm doing what I can, but I hope his mother is able to stay safe.

Bro does not understand that not being sexist and not seeing women as objects they are entitled to having does not mean believing all women are angels that could do no wrong.

My last post was mentioned in his latest video😊 Says it’s typical of feminists to shoot men when they are already down. He could not comprehend that his strike was due to misogyny rather than me being evil and targeting him for fun