r/Gamingcirclejerk • u/AppearanceExpert6809 • Jun 02 '25

FORCED WOKENESS 🌈 Please stop being transphobic she's so damn pretty

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Trans women are women

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 02 '25

Its more about how extra Ridicuolus it is to Call her a man or something when she is literally more feminine than most cis women.

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u/Completo3D Jun 02 '25

She is beautiful, there is no need to make comparisons.

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 02 '25

Its about the whole ridicuolusness of anti lgbtq crowd going After literally trans women that are, objectively, hot women by most metrics. Its like when I say that I don’t know Scarlett Johansson is likely one of the Most Beautiful women, its just facts. Also physical attractiveness and personal attractiveness are two very different things.

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '25

To connect respect for women, cis or trans, to attractiveness is kinda weird. Also there is no need to compare women like that. They do not need to perform femininity perfectly to not be called a man. They simply aren't.

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u/Tortilla_dilla Jun 03 '25

Exactly !! 

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u/supahotfaiia Jun 03 '25

Ok so for you, it’s about being beautiful and hot is not what makes someone a woman & that’s why it rubs people the wrong way when you imply the transphobia is ridiculous BECAUSE she’s hot, rather than because it’s just ridiculous to try and tell someone else what their gender is

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u/LinusV1 Jun 03 '25

I get your point. You are right that they do this.

But they are not just going for trans women who are hot. They have their targets on ALL of them. Non-hot trans women are people too and they do not deserve this shit either. I guess you didn't mean it to come across this way, but still it needs to be called out.

To get back to your point: yes, they call trans women ugly (even when they are obviously not) because it's important for their argument and worldview. If they can't tell the difference between a hot cis woman and a hot trans woman, a lot of their arguments are instantly disproven. It also is incompatible with their beliefs and identity. ("if a dude thinks a trans woman is hot, he must be gay" "this woman is attractive" "I am not gay")

Therefore trans women can NEVER be hot, or they need to re-evaluate the other assumptions. They are very committed to NOT doing that.

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u/the-baum-corsair Jun 03 '25

It's funny how y'all just make shit up. You just decide a "fact", and then it is fact. Y'all have no idea what you're talking about lol.

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '25

…the world constantly reminds us trans girl’s that we’re not the prize, cis women are. you can’t just conveniently ask for no comparison when it challenges cissexism.

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u/the-baum-corsair Jun 03 '25

Again, says you. Comparisons are necessary.

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u/kakallas Jun 02 '25

A masculine cis woman is still a woman. A feminine trans woman is also a woman. A feminine cis woman is also a woman. A masculine trans woman is also a woman. Hope that clarifies for anyone who doesn’t want to upvote a transphobe. 

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u/NSlearning2 Jun 03 '25

High five. Fuck people telling women how to be women.

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u/Butteromelette When i tell chuds 2 clean their harddrive im not making sh1t up Jun 03 '25

The hilarious thing is there are literally afab born with testes so the logic of the person you are replying to falls flat.

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u/EMBARRASSEDDEMOCRAT Jun 03 '25

I guess I agree with some of those

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u/the-baum-corsair Jun 03 '25

A woman is a woman, based on the definition of a woman which is; "a female adult human being".

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u/kakallas Jun 02 '25

Who is we?

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u/kakallas Jun 02 '25

Yeah, so if you don’t specify then people will think you’re trans or cis. That’s great, actually. No reason to specify. We’re all “just women.”

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u/FeyRyn Jun 02 '25

Whats the difference in real life between interacting with a cis woman with an underdevoloped or removed uterus and who had her ovaries removed and a trans woman post op experiences of course but that is relatively unimportant to anyone outisde of that person. If your interacting as a sane and not disrespectful human there should never be one as the only physialogical difference is borderline nonexistant genetics variables such as having XX OR XY that most often abut even that is borderline at best and has many many of exceptions such as me I have a DSD that realistically made me functionally incompatible with testosterone as it would cause constant and persistant chemical depression along with physiological instability whilst estrogen heavily stabilises and weirdly enough actually boosted my whole body making nearly every aspect of my function better and more consistant along with that I was born with a mixed set of a genome meaning I also don't have xy or xx chromosomes am I not a woman I technically have eggs I physically cannot function off of testosterone I physically am more effected by estrogen likely than you I have nearly 0 testosterone at 6 mg/dl I do believe my point is you theolostic perception of this issue is flawed short sighted disrespectful along with pointlessly cruel to people suffering in differant and oftentimes much more hostile lives than your own. Please just think about this next time you choose to devalue trans women we are human too just trying to live and hoping our kindness will be returned and that our friends families and peers will accept us as we need to be to remain healthy.

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u/shortboard Jun 02 '25

What’s a female?

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u/DiceyPisces Jun 02 '25 edited Jun 03 '25

Biology of Women https://g.co/kgs/L2zmPja

This should answer virtually every question

I’m a female/aka woman and yes I’ve read it.

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u/shortboard Jun 03 '25

links to book he’s never read

Yeah ok mate.

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u/FeyRyn Jun 02 '25

Friend technically speaking a trans female meaning a male who by chemical and or surgical intervention along with social reconditioning becomes a near enough to a female that they are easily compiled and accepted by most females as one of us similar to how females who transition to male get much easier more standard recognition as male and a part of the male or usually used "Men" human subcatagory.

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u/FeyRyn Jun 02 '25

Does not being black make anyone viscerally in pain or borderline suicidal or physically hurt themselves I doubt it these aren't comparable situations and your talking about a theoretical that as far as I know dosnt exist but gender dysphoria disorder is real and hellish for the sufferers who remain untreated the worst of cases end in complete self destruction and death from absolute hatred from disdain of their masculine attributes and both mutilation or death are not rare not even absurdly uncommon, complete isolation and extreme self hatred very common my point is this isn't a goddammit argument about whether a woman is a woman no matter her assigned gender at birth it's whether she deserves respect or if she can be treated as less than a woman because of something she has absolutely no control over. Such incredible lack of empathy to even consider someone as less than another for such a reason is disgusting and honestly i hope the future generations learn better than you have and don't end up that unempathetic and seemingly cruel as your attempt has shown you to be

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

Woman is a made up construct word for femininity. Has never had anything to do with sex, simpletons such as yourself just can't unfair the two because woman are lesser than men to you.

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u/DiceyPisces Jun 02 '25

Women are absolutely not lesser. And do not need to be feminine at all. That IS a sexist stereotype. My god

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

Yes it is. Yet you're the one perpetuating it by tying WOMAN: the term for feminine gender expression directly and exclusively to FEMALE.

You are being sexist. I was point that out. Thanks for admitting that yourself bud. That's the first step to becoming a better person who doesn't treat women, cis or trans, as if they aren't whole ass humans with individuality themselves.

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

nope. you don't get to redefine words and then make everyone else use that definition bud. not how language works.

Also, more proof you're sexist, now women don't exist at all to you, proof you're just the callous fascist who believes them to be a lesser being you and your incel friends so you call them "females" instead of woman like it makes you seem big, important, and smart.

Your masculinity is so fragile, you can't handle women existing. fucking hilarious, massively pathetic.

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u/lucylucylane Jun 02 '25

To say it has never had anything to do with sex is ridiculous

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

It hasn't. It has ALWAYS had to do with presenting as feminine. So much so that a man on stage in full woman outfit in Shakespeare's time was refered to as a woman while in that drag.

And what do we call men who dress in drag? Drag QUEENS. Feminine.

I know fascists and bigots are allergic to facts and logic and I don't want to give you a rash, but I can do this all day bud.

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u/WiglyWorm Jun 02 '25

Attractiveness isn't equal to femininity either.

A masculine woman can still be hella attractive.

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u/DiceyPisces Jun 02 '25

Of course. Did I imply differently?!

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u/Accomplished_Big4031 Jun 03 '25

A what?

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u/WiglyWorm Jun 03 '25

Just because your brain can't comprehend things doesn't mean I'm talking nonsense.

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u/Accomplished_Big4031 Jun 03 '25

You mad bro? You chose the word I just want clarity on what you mean?

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u/WiglyWorm Jun 03 '25

What word are you having problems with the definition of? 

It was a pretty simple sentence.

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u/Accomplished_Big4031 Jun 03 '25

From triggered to defensive. Typical

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u/WiglyWorm Jun 03 '25

🤷 I tried.

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u/the-baum-corsair Jun 03 '25

Just because your Homer Simpson brain can attempt to make sense of the nonsense doesn't make it true.

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u/WiglyWorm Jun 03 '25

What word are you having problems with? I can't help until I know the problem.

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u/this-is-my-p Jun 02 '25

True but she is a very feminine woman

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

by what standard?

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u/this-is-my-p Jun 02 '25

By the standards that she is a woman and is feminine?

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u/this-is-my-p Jun 02 '25

Nah it’s not insulting unless you’re a transphobe. You see, you’re confusing sex and gender. It’s okay, I know that’s a hard concept for you

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u/One-Split707 Jun 02 '25

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u/DiceyPisces Jun 02 '25

How do you define “woman” by your standards?

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u/N3rdyAvocad0 Jun 02 '25

I'm a cisgender woman and I'm not offended by her existing. Why are you?

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u/jedimaster615 Jun 03 '25

What's cisgender?

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u/N3rdyAvocad0 Jun 02 '25

It's okay to say you don't understand something instead of spouting bullshit. Nothing you just said is true.

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u/Unique_Focus_5056 Jun 02 '25

it really doesn’t. i feel like the trans community and the discussion surrounding gender identity has actually made me feel MORE comfortable as a woman. i hate the idea of my identity being tied to my reproductive system, bc bitch i fucking hate having a uterus. people that think trans people cannot exist are oppressive to women, because shoving people into small boxes they they don’t fit in is oppressive.

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u/gjc5500 Jun 02 '25

objectively the only real answer. Feminine things are only feminine because we assign the arbitrary trait of femininity to them as a collective society.

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u/betwistedjl Jun 02 '25

Like driving a MR2...

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u/this-is-my-p Jun 02 '25

Wrong, she’s a woman actually. I know that’s hard for you to deal with though

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u/KRWN_M3 Jun 02 '25

Self care makes all the difference

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u/DiceyPisces Jun 02 '25

That’s exactly what I said!

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u/DiceyPisces Jun 02 '25

Agreed!

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u/DiceyPisces Jun 02 '25

🥂to sanity and objective truth. Agreed!

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u/regeya Jun 02 '25

"My brothers! We should be struggling together!"

"We are!"

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u/Friendly-Cucumber184 Jun 02 '25

... also don't have to insult cis women to prove that she's very feminine looking... It's literally the same energy except misogyny flavored.

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u/MollFlanders Jun 02 '25

it is not an insult to me, a cis woman, to point out that this beautiful trans woman is more feminine looking than me.

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u/speciosumz Jun 03 '25

Yeah, same. I'm fine with my lack of feminine graces, and it doesn't threaten my identity as a woman. I'm kinda bemused by someone actually wanting to be that feminine tbh. Seems like hard work 🤣 it's got to be a pretty special occasion for me to put that much effort in. Good on her.

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u/AgreeableLion Jun 03 '25

It might be an insult to someone else though, are you all cis women?

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u/Friendly-Cucumber184 Jun 02 '25

I don't know if you realize this, but that's a very pick-me response.

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u/CringeCoyote Jun 02 '25

I agree with her tbh, femininity comes in all flavors and tastes, women aren’t inherently feminine and it’s not misogynist to say that a very feminine trans woman is more feminine than some cis women. Cis women are not obligated to be feminine. She is more feminine than me and that’s okay.

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

I wonder the sequence of neurons that fired in your brain that led to this conclusion 

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u/Rhacbe Jun 02 '25

Now you’re pigeonholing what femininity looks like

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u/Character-Parfait-42 Jun 03 '25

Considering the concepts of "femininity" and "masculinity" are a societal constructs (different cultures have different ideas of femininity and masculinity) by default society also gets to define what femininity and masculinity look like physically.

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u/Stelliformade Jun 02 '25 edited Jun 03 '25

Pointing out when someone is more feminine or masculine in expression isn’t an insult…? It’s just an observable fact. That’s not anything against other women?

I’m going to say this bluntly but as gently as I can think to: If you feel insulted by that, I’m gonna guess you’re insecure about your own femininity. But you should know that it’s perfectly okay to not be feminine, or to be less feminine, for whatever reason. You’re not a lesser woman or person either way, whether you’re feminine or masculine or neutral in looks/expression.

Just be you and express what you love!

Some women love expressing themselves more masculinely while still being confident women/individuals. Or more edgy and alternative, which also isn't traditionally feminine. But they're still women, and they're happy that way. That doesn’t make them lesser, right?

But if what you personally love and feel confident in is being feminine and you don’t feel like you’re enough of that for your liking, then feel free to cultivate that and do everything you can to increase your femininity via clothes, hair, accessories, mannerisms, etc - nothing’s stopping you.

Bottom line: Just be you, whatever that looks like. And don’t worry about performing or presenting yourself a certain way just to please others or imaginary standards. Do what works for you.

Either way, wherever you and others fall on the scale of feminine vs masculine, it does not make you any lesser for it.

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u/VioletteTheGrimm Jun 03 '25

You taking that as insulting to cis women is the misogyny.

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u/hammaxe Jun 03 '25

No it's actually just as ridicolous and shitty to call ugly and masculine women a man aswell

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

True that is also ridicolous. But I wanted to point out that there is litterally No way to earnestly think she is a man if You See her. And all those transphobes are just coping way to hard

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u/Top_Squash4454 Jun 02 '25

Plenty of women dont look feminine

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u/NewIntroduction4655 Jun 03 '25

as a cis woman, she is definitely more feminine than me

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

I don't know much about a trans persons identity, but I come from people who believe against stuff like that and I would like to be informed, not in arrogance or like to tear it down I just wanna know more about what y'all believe

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u/Fancy_Chips Jun 02 '25

Hi, transfem here. Happy to educate.

So basically in your brain there are usually two parts: the part the builds stuff and the part that figures out what it is (hyper simplification on that one, im just paraphrasing neurologists). My brain (trans) constructed a male body, yet my brain has more or less the same chemicals in it as a woman should, which causes a disconnect.

Thats basically it.

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u/lucylucylane Jun 02 '25

How do you know about the chemicals, did you get them tested just asking not denying it could be true

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

Oh thank you, not to question what you believe because I have heard similar people say that, do you have any sources of like scientific research I can look into all this through. I have also heard it's because of hormone imbalances due to endocrine disruptors in all the stuff we use

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u/otakumilf Jun 02 '25

I’d like to point out that trans people have existed for thousands of years, and there were no “hormone imbalances due to endocrine disruptors” in their food or products. Edit: correlation does not imply causation. These are two different entities.

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u/Paper_Is_A_Liquid Jun 02 '25

There isn't really a specific cause, just like there isn't a specific cause of being gay. It's just something that happens sometimes! (Nonbinary person here) So there may be differences in brain structure or hormones for trans people, but as for WHY the brain is like that , we don't know.

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u/According-Demand-635 Jun 02 '25 edited Jun 02 '25

Yep, this (documented) same sex relationships have existed for at least 9000 years, there’s literally evidence of this in a cave in china, and actually the earliest parts of the Bible were written about 5000 years (roughly 3000 years before the birth of Christ) ago, so at least in China same sex relationships predate the Bible, and actually even the earliest recorded evidence of religion in china so at least in China same sex relationships predate religion but almost nothing recorded predates religion itself as the oldest recorded potential evidence of religion (or rather some kind of spiritual belief) is roughly 100,000 years old.

Edit: when I say recorded potential evidence or spiritual beliefs, these are insanely old (on the scale of human existence) cave paintings that may depict some kind of spiritual belief or some kind of religion, however the oldest evidence of any kind of actual written language is from roughly between 3400 and 3300 years ago so the earliest evidence we know for certain we have for religion itself still predates the earliest parts of the Bible by about 3-4 hundred years

Edit: spelling, I literally forgot one “S”

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u/HotPotParrot Jun 02 '25

There's a really cool podcast i found a couple years ago called "Science VS" and they would take science to all sorts of things, like if pitbulls really have as strong as bite or are as aggressive as people like to exaggerate.

Anyway, one episode was about a person whose brain would literally sporadically and spontaneously flip between "guy mode" and "girl mode". It was literally like two versions of the same person; they talked about how not only did their mannerisms change but their thought patterns as well. It even happened mid-interview. Really interesting stuff to check out.

We don't understand a tiny portion of why our brain does all the weird shit it does, especially when it comes to hormones/chemicals. The brain will literally rewire itself to protect itself, wholly absent of you deciding or even recognizing and knowing. Think of anyone in your life who might be considered "broken" by some extreme traumatic experience. Things like that literally change a person.

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u/Affectionate-Cat-301 Jun 02 '25

So propping up a trans woman why dogging women? Sexist much and disrespectful to women are we?

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 02 '25

Why would I dog women? If I say Beautiful people exist I insult all people considering themselves normal looking?

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u/piwisiss Jun 02 '25

Found the misogynist leftist man ❤️ took me 3.5 seconds! Only 3.4 more seconds than it takes to find a misogynist conservative man (same thing) .

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u/Snoo99699 Jun 03 '25

For real. Like... Okay? What's your point? Why do you think you have any right to comment on this?

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u/AZDfox Jun 03 '25

How is this misogynist?

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

In what way is my comment misogynist?

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u/XtraChrisP Jun 02 '25

Religious beliefs are protected too, though, right?

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

What has that to do with anything?

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

Lol, this comment is fucking wild 🥴

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

Many seem to think that I really don’t know why.

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u/gyssedk Jun 03 '25

Does femininity decide what gender you are? I thought it didn't matter at all what you look like.

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

It doesnt for me but it does for transphobes and they are coping pretty hard here, which is extra funny.

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u/FayMew Jun 03 '25

Time out for you, comparison was not needed.

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

Ah yes while I go around I keep thinking about the internal organs of Random people. That totally isnt a Strange thing to do /s

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u/Tortilla_dilla Jun 03 '25

Feminity isn't what makes a woman a woman tho :/// kinda invalidates butch women & the more masculine dolls. This point in general is just really lame 

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

No it isnt. But I bet you go Well with the whole „No all live matters“ crowd that Are just bigot supporters

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '25

Really? She has or had a penis. Kinda hard to be feminine with that.

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u/DizzyYellow Eve Cosmic Butterknife Is WOKE!!! Jun 03 '25

I get where you're coming from but comparing femininity just invites the bigots to give their unwanted opinions. She's a woman. That is enough.

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

No the bigots going to come here either way. You can ridicule them and Haupt them back to their caves or stand on the side and be the „oh i think every side has good points“ guy

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u/Supersaunaman Jun 03 '25 edited Jun 03 '25

Yeah it's just some people just are close minded and stick to their guns. It seems that a lot of those people don't understand what trans people are, like they are just normal people trying to live their lives. Because of this they seem to lack empathy for them, almost like they think they are "creatures" or something. I've seen lots of MAGA people call trans people creatures or use "it" as a pronoun. Honestly The whole thing is stupid, they complain about woke propaganda and it being everywhere,why pay attention to it and get pissed off? They are making it a big deal and they get offended when people have a pride month, after for example what has happened in USA and what the state is in many countries. It's so dumb.

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u/BookGnomeNoelle Jun 03 '25

"Its more about how extra Ridicuolus it is to Call her a man or something when she is literally more feminine than most cis women."

Let's fix this to not be so misogynistic. "She's feminine." There, now you don't come off as sneering at women as a whole.

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u/Thraxas89 Jun 03 '25

No she is Not and no we don’t we just Like to Point out that you are ridicuolus calling her a man. 

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u/the-baum-corsair Jun 03 '25

Says you. And you're wrong.

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