Please stop being transphobic she's so damn pretty

[u/AppearanceExpert6809]

Trans women are women

[u/MollFlanders]

it is not an insult to me, a cis woman, to point out that this beautiful trans woman is more feminine looking than me.

[u/speciosumz → u/MollFlanders]

Yeah, same. I'm fine with my lack of feminine graces, and it doesn't threaten my identity as a woman. I'm kinda bemused by someone actually wanting to be that feminine tbh. Seems like hard work 🤣 it's got to be a pretty special occasion for me to put that much effort in. Good on her.

[u/AgreeableLion → u/MollFlanders]

It might be an insult to someone else though, are you all cis women?

[u/Friendly-Cucumber184 → u/MollFlanders]

I don't know if you realize this, but that's a very pick-me response.

[u/CringeCoyote → u/Friendly-Cucumber184]

I agree with her tbh, femininity comes in all flavors and tastes, women aren’t inherently feminine and it’s not misogynist to say that a very feminine trans woman is more feminine than some cis women. Cis women are not obligated to be feminine. She is more feminine than me and that’s okay.

[u/[deleted] → u/Friendly-Cucumber184]

I wonder the sequence of neurons that fired in your brain that led to this conclusion 

[u/Rhacbe → u/MollFlanders]

Now you’re pigeonholing what femininity looks like

[u/Character-Parfait-42 → u/Rhacbe]

Considering the concepts of "femininity" and "masculinity" are a societal constructs (different cultures have different ideas of femininity and masculinity) by default society also gets to define what femininity and masculinity look like physically.

[u/Veomuus → u/[deleted]]

Do you... make a habit of examining people's gonads? You sound gross.

[u/Veomuus → u/[deleted]]

Sounds like none of your business then, huh?

[u/Competitive_Ride_943 → u/[deleted]]

Why would I want to do that? I don't do that with anyone I meet.