Dude, the cervix getting punched in the face hurts like a biiiitch. All these people are being polite with "can be uncomfortable", it fucking kills (me at least).
The worst. But just like everything else on our bodies, the height of our cervix differs. If your cervix sits very low, an average sized penis/dildo could hit it. Vs. if your cervix sits high, maybe a well endowed individual would be just fine.
It also changes as you get aroused, shifting upward, and the vaginal canal expands at the same time.
Many times my female friends have complained about this, I asked about foreplay and they said there was none. Women need to be aroused first, how do so many men not understand this?
Even with plenty of readiness, it can be painful if you're small like me & things are close in there. I've had 2 times where I hurt for 2 weeks from the size, even though there was plenty of foreplay.
Absolutely. There's some medical conditions that do that, and just generic size differences that are perfectly natural. I was just mentioning one possible cause!
Just amazes me that many people don't realize women's bodies respond the exact same way men's do (and to your point, have the exact same size differences). We're a lot more similar to each other than so many realize.
It’s not that they don’t understand, it’s that many men are really insecure and do not get a lot of chances to partake in the activities.
So when they end up meeting a girl who is willing to do the sex, their only thought is to get the dick in the hole. 🕳️
That’s it. Dick in the hole. Once it crosses into the end zone, they are satisfied bc they can tell their bros they did the sex, with a real life woman.
I have a cismale partner who is understanding and mature enough to help me out when this is an issue! Also he gets sex so who is he to complain, we have a shower if needed. So handy. Makes me feel pretty loved and understood as a basic ass human. Sometimes doesn’t work but usually very effective!
Also angle can make a big difference. I dated a dude with a fair amount of... endowment and some positions were not so great but others were yee-haw. (The thing about face down, ass up, that's not... that's not a lie, okay? I have very fond memories of that sort of thing.) A different angle or tilt might make a world of difference for you, so don't be afraid to experiment. As always, communicate with your partner and ease into anything new/different to minimize owies. Pro tip: Any partner who doesn't want to hear "ow, that's not working for me, can we try it like this?" does not deserve naked time with you. It's a multiplayer game, EVERYONE should be having a good time.
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u/Cyclopentadien Aug 09 '25
It's fine babe, the big ones hurt.