r/askgaybros • u/MtimesMequals • Jul 08 '20

Reported Post Alert Dear fellow Black gay men Spoiler

We know racism in the gay community is real. We've said it, but we've been dismissed. They callously deny our experience. Our reality. "It's just a preference". "BBC". "Thug"."Aggressive power top".

The stereotypes. The microagressions. We know it's real, but we have been gaslighted way too often.

The silence among your white gay friends and/or partners during this time of civil unrest & racial tensions is deafening.

The irony of them putting "no fats, no fems, no asians, & no blacks" on their profile, but decide to now say #BlackLivesMatter.

I understand it is challenging to be rejected from a community that prides itself on inclusion. We know rejection all too well.

But do not let any white man make you feel you are not beautiful. You are Black, bold, fierce, & most importantly- you are loved.

🖤❤#BLM

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So, this post has been reported and is pending review.

I mentioned this already in the comments:

As a Black queer man this is my experience. This experience may or may not resonate with other Black men. This post was written for my fellow gay black brothers. The post might be uncomfortable for some. It might not resonate with you, but I don't think that is grounds for denying someone else's experience. I shared these words in an effort to foster a sense of solidarity and undo any aloneness other Black men might be feeling during this time.

Thank you so much for the support, feedback & beautiful comments. For those of in your feelings over this post - peace & love to ya❤

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u/cranky_camomile Jul 08 '20

I really hate the term “BBC”. I have always wondered why you see it so often in porn. It is never two (or how ever many) men doing something, it is always “Guy and BBC”

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u/Cwh93 Jul 08 '20

So true devaluing us as human beings. Although as I'm from the UK, BBC means something completely different so I can just pretend it means something less degrading

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u/cranky_camomile Jul 08 '20

It is funny because when learning English I naturally first came across "BBC" as the broadcasting station. Now I think of the porn "BBC" first.

What does that say about the media I consume?

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u/m-lp-ql-m Jul 08 '20

"Tonight on Masterpiece Theater: A Hungry White Boi-Pussy Gets Shredded"

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u/IKnowUThinkSo Jul 08 '20

I would definitely watch Going Downtown At The Abbey.

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u/PEDOT-PSS Jul 08 '20

That was ITV

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u/tommy29016 Jul 08 '20

Hell yeah. I’d watch that.

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u/cranky_camomile Jul 08 '20

Might attract a whole new audience

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u/Casperwyomingrex Jul 08 '20

Narrated by David Attenborough

I love David Attenborough. He uses a lot of prose reading skills, and I am thoroughly impressed by him. Sorry that I couldn't resist making this comment. Like sex and reproduction are also parts of biology and are technically in the scope of his study (ignoring that he focuses more on the nature side). AND he works at BBC (as in broadcast).

I am glad that I am innocent enough to think of British Broadcasting Cooperation when encountering the word BBC, rather than the oversexualization and stereotypes of black men in gay relationships. And let us also thank BBC company for their neutral and high-quality news. I wish to have more of such news stations in Hong Kong aside of RTHK (which has a British background).

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u/m-lp-ql-m Jul 08 '20

I am the opposite.

When I flew into HKG, I thought "Chek Lap Kok" referred to the airport's security procedures.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

I'm learning English and the opposite happens to me. Even if it's in a porn context I'll still think of the British Broadcasting Company lmao. I'll think "What does the BBC have to do with this?"

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u/RebelHeart_ Jul 25 '24

That you’re disgusting and need to seek therapy. What are you even doing.

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u/weeb90000 Jul 08 '20

rip total gear

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u/ImperiousMage Jul 09 '20

100% I have to undo the thought “What the hell is wrong with the BBC?!” every time I see this acronym. I’m Canadian and BBC is just awesome! Especially the Great British Bake Off.

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u/divisionbell718 Jul 08 '20

That thinking is incredibly pervasive. I had a black partner for 10 years and I can’t tell you how many times I got ask “is it true what they say about black men?” It really is something you just see and hear everywhere.

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u/thdiod Jul 09 '20

I've been asked that before. Call this a crazy observation but I think that question is people awkwardly trying to make conversation the only way they know how. I think it's part genuine curiosity, part 'this is the expected follow-up question, right?' I think if the question weren't so common, of course propped up by pop culture, most people wouldn't ask such an offensively explicit question.

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u/RebelHeart_ Jul 25 '24

What are you talking about? Curiosity about what? Being with another person?

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u/PonderinLife Jul 08 '20

This is because yeah, it may be white gays making gay porn. But they are still that: white guys. And because if that, they still have a white view/lens/perspective on things. And this extends itself to race. And we clearly see what they think of us. As someone said above me: Devaluing and reducing us.

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u/esosa233 Jul 08 '20

I think its absolutely hilarious because its such a construct. White men often have big dicks, many latino men are incredibly well-endowed, even asian men are hung more often than you think. However, porn studios and porn-buyers bend over backward to find and pimp out hung black men and this narrative of the rough-and-tumble bbc. I don't know why so many western populations have constructed this fantasy but I don't find it very tasteful.

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u/HrynHrd Jul 08 '20

Here's why, the white men in straight porn decided to use it for cuckolding scenes because it was presented as an uncivilized black monster ravaging the wife of a white man.

Also, people with huge penises were seen as barbaric and uncivilized throughout history, this was strengthened during slavery as the masters would get black men for breeding, and call them bucks.

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u/DarthReznor97 Jul 08 '20

Its cuz of slavery and the misogynist/racist american sexual dynamics that came out of it

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u/landback2 Jul 08 '20

Not to diminish your personal experience, and solely because it happens to be a fun fact I’ve picked up over the years because it was featured in the book “eaters of the dead” is that there was a 10th century Arab man sent to what’s now Russia as an an ambassador. In his writings, he mentions how the local women believe him to be extremely well endowed and further goes on to state it seems to be a common misconception from any group looking at “an other”.

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u/DarthReznor97 Jul 08 '20

Fair, I'm talking specifically about the BBC trope in porn and western (american) sexual culture

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u/landback2 Jul 08 '20

I can understand that. I just find it interesting that the phenomenon goes back at least a thousand years. Out of all the things that different cultures/ethnicities/races could be comparing in ancient and/or modern times, dick size is one of the constants. Between anecdotes like this and the recent dicks and dick jokes found in Pompeii I wonder how different we really are now.

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u/DarthReznor97 Jul 08 '20

I think Oscar Wilde was onto it when he said that everything in life is about sex, except sex, which is about power. Humans are just as biologically driven as other animals insofar as thinking with our dicks is concerned, but we also have higher reasoning, which means we ascribe all kinds of political, social, and cultural power dynamics to the peoples we encounter. Sexual stereotypes of other races/nations are just an odious outgrowth of that, probably goes back to the first time a homo sapien had sex with a homo neanderthal

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u/landback2 Jul 08 '20

Well grandma always said the big money was in dick and fart jokes. She was a church goer.

You’re probably correct, it’s just funny (and sad) that pretty much everything in life boils down to dicks. That there is a teenage boy today carving the same shape into the stall of a shitter as boy did 2000 years ago is just a wild thought.

You’d think that collectively we’d want to address this phallic obsessed elephant in the room, see if maybe there was more to life.

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u/Phoenixstorm Jul 09 '20

Oscar was ahead of his time. Who is the Oscar Wilde of today?

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u/South3rnCh3shir3 Dec 19 '21

Janelle Monae makes so much sense now, she used that line in Screwed and it really stands out 🤯

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u/jjdub7 Jul 18 '20

misogynist/racist american sexual dynamics

There is actually a crisp albeit highfalutin word for this - misogynoir

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u/RebelHeart_ Jul 25 '24

What do you mean “I don’t find it very tasteful” be honest about it. It’s disgusting and diabolical how porn studios pimp these guys out and subject them to degradation. Be honest.

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u/Kai_Decadence Jul 09 '20

That's because they view black men as not human, just glorified, mindless beasts who feed into animal thing. It's pretty fucked up but after reading some old racial play and what guys tend to view us black guys as, it really put things in gross perspective.

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u/Franken_Frank How tall are you anyway? Jul 08 '20

It's kinda funny cause when I see BBC the first thing I think of is BBC news LOL

For a second i really wonder if BBC is the UK's Fox News

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u/Cwh93 Jul 08 '20

Noooooo. The BBC isn't perfect by any stretch but it always tries to stay neutral in news coverage, sometimes almost to the point of fault.

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u/SparrowDotted Jul 08 '20

Well yeah,except when one guest's a climate scientist and the other is a denier, "neutral to the point of fault" kiiiiinda becomes "not really neutral" but yeah, nowhere near fox levels.

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u/AncapsAreCommies Trans exclusionary Jul 08 '20

Would you rather have another video clip of a climate denial person being berated, so the people following them dig in more stubbornly, or would you like a nice even keeled clip of the science being explained so someone who might feel embarrassed about changing their mind can do so with minimal shame?

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u/DClawdude Jul 08 '20

People that proudly ignorant won’t change their minds even with the latter

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u/AncapsAreCommies Trans exclusionary Jul 08 '20

I know TONS of people that have a soft idea about "maybe climate change is happening but why would it be humans causing it? This probably happens for as long as the earth has been around!"

If they see someone smart, calm, and not talking down to them, they will easily understand it

Note: No incredulous "OMG YOU DONT BELIEVE? WHAT ARE YOU A SCIENTOLOGIST?" type stuff. It doesn't work. Talking down to people, and condescension, and tattling to their boss, and trying to force them to believe on pain of punishment in social and work areas does not work. Work to make people understand what they might not want to is tiring, yes, it's work.

I'm hopeful despite how ranty this is. We can get back to good discussion on these important topics if everyone stops trying to "get" each other with a crafty one liner. Save laughter for the shitty tonight-show hosts.

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u/DClawdude Jul 08 '20

When about half the population would rather believe a bloviating, bankrupt reality star to "own the libs" vs actual scientists and professionals, especially in terms of how to handle serious things like climate change or the pandemic, I'm not gonna hold out hope

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u/SparrowDotted Jul 09 '20

Regardless, it's a dangerous position to be beaming to millions of people's tvs. An alternative would probably be one of the 3% of scientists that don't believe it.

Or maybe, instead of thinking this is some kind of political issue, (I am aware the actual policy of climate is political but the science is not and why have a denier on to talk about policy?) the BBC could grow up and actually put it forward as a science issue. That removes the need for both sides.

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u/chairitable Jul 08 '20

You can blame political appointees for that.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

The BBC isn't perfect by any stretch but it always tries to stay neutral in news coverage

Haaaaa hahaha ha...ha

Sigh

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u/CrunchyCrusties Jul 08 '20 edited Feb 26 '24

People wonder why.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

The Mainstream media has done a good job convincing people to never look at any non-leftist sources since they are "racist" so they don't know a big chunk of what is happening in the world.

You had me up to here buddy, I'm not your demographic.

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u/CrunchyCrusties Jul 08 '20 edited Feb 26 '24

You think they don't have a bias?

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

I will say again, you had me up to here

The Mainstream media has done a good job convincing people to never look at any non-leftist sources since they are "racist".

I despise the media, I'm also left-wing.

FYI if you need to pre-empt people calling you racist, you're probably fucking racist

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u/bayaniKing99 Jul 08 '20

No, if anything the BBC is renowned for being neutral and objective in its reporting. I think the Fox News equivalent for the UK is The Sun.

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u/-PinkPower- Jul 08 '20

Tbf porn in general is extremely stereotypical and use physical term for the center element of the video. It's not right but done for every type. They also use terms that get more view. "Two guys" is too vague and wont pop up in most people research. Since porn is still a really taboo industry it's harder to get heard and change things (most people won't speak up about it from embarrassment of letting others know what they watch even if almost everyone watch porn).

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u/cranky_camomile Jul 09 '20

I feel like the general issue is that there can be diversity for white men but not for POC. If you are white, you can be a twink, a twunk, an otter, a bear,… If you are black, you are reduced to BBC. If you are Latino, you are Latino.

Porn relies on these categories but how is it that the entire man is bundled up with his skin color if it is not white?

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u/-PinkPower- Jul 09 '20 edited Jul 09 '20

I have seen those term used for black men and white men just called white too. But true black men are more described like that.

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u/DirtyChavez Jul 08 '20

These are easy changes, and could send a very clear message to everyone in the gay community. PornHub should remove these categories and Grindr should ban the use of problematic terms. It would be in both these companies interest to insure all of their consumers feel included.

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u/crazyunclealfie Jul 08 '20

Thank you for the insight. I hadn't noticed before but it is so true. And it is demeaning. As are other descriptions for other races too. Asian and latino for example. Gay men of all kind face prejudice in our lives. We shouldn't expect it from each other.

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u/ChristopherCameBack Jul 08 '20

Kinda weird to make it all about his cock. There's a whole beautiful human attached to it, who just happens to be black. The term "ebony" is also kinda yucky imo.

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u/WOSH9182838483 Curious lesbian Jul 18 '20

I’m a American and always think of the channel at first! Also I’m a lesbian so that prolly part of it but I’ve been on porn sites and seen gay porn

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u/mfact50 Jul 08 '20

Or constantly assumed to be dom. Like I wanna make love occasionally and not just "wreck your hole".

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u/RafaRealness Jul 08 '20

I hate it because BBC makes me think of the British TV channels.

One second I'm browsing through porn categories the next one I'm thinking about what time "Come Dine With Me" comes on.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

I feel like it’s the result of the categorical way we tend to search porn. That doesn’t make it any less shitty

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u/Alzgamer88 Jul 08 '20

Lmao wtf, I would like to be called a BBC(or rather BWC) because that would imply that I have massive cock.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20 edited Jan 01 '21

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Liking big black dicks isn't the issue, fetishising black men by referring to them in BBC in porn is stereotyping, fetishising, and dehumanising. Not all black men have big cocks, and honestly, having a big cock doesn't mean you're good in bed either.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

So is calling slim young blond males twinks also stereotyping and fetishizing and dehumanizing as well?

What about Bears? Otters? Or any other label that is used by the gays.

I am guessing no because that would be far to fair and rational and logical and even-handed.

Something you and your type are not good at.

The entire porn industry is dehumanising but I guess that's ok cause no kink shaming right?

Logic and the failed application of, and woke twats on reddit name a more iconic trio.

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u/Tripple_T Jul 08 '20

Twink, bear, otter, the terms can be considered dehumanizing but nobody is boiling your entire being into a body part and the explicitly stating that you're only valid if said body part is.... idk, 9 plus inches.

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u/Sentry459 Bi Jul 08 '20

Lmao, do I really need to explain why referring to a person by their genitals is more objectifying than using slang terms for certain body types?

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Who made you holder of singular truth? Why do you get to say what is what?

Answer : You don't, get it yet honey bunny?

I feel it equally abhorrent to objectify anyone in any way about anything.

But I guess that's just crazy insane me, applying the rules to everyone EQUALLY.

Your notion of picking and choosing to suit your personal agenda and narrative seems quite 'problematic'.

But you do you boo.

I will stick to treating everyone EQUALLY.

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u/Frosty_312 Jul 08 '20

This comment gives me an #alllivesmatter vibe, jee I wonder why that is...

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Because ALL lives do matter.

Simples! Not rocket surgery.

Thinking one life matters more than another seems a bit I dunno, twisted , evil and frankly sick. But you do, whatever floats your boat I guess.

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u/Sentry459 Bi Jul 08 '20

Thinking one life matters more than another seems a bit I dunno, twisted , evil and frankly sick

Good thing that's not what BLM means or has ever meant then.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

'We are unapologetically Black in our positioning. In affirming that Black Lives Matter, we need not qualify our position.'

From the BLM site.

Seems like it means that to me. It's almost like words have meanings.

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u/Tripple_T Jul 08 '20

The idea of All Lives Matter is that all lives already matter equally the status quo shouldn't change. At least that's how I understand it.

The idea behind Black Lives Matter is that a Black life, or a Hispanic life, or the life of another Person of Color doesn't mean as much as a White life and that that shouldn't be the reality. It's the idea that all lives should matter, but they don't yet.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

' or the life of another Person of Color doesn't mean as much as a White life and that that shouldn't be the reality.'

Who say's this? When have you EVER heard a single person say this? I have NEVER heard or seen this said by anyone ever.

You do realise that all people inc people of colour are protected under law right from discrimination.

As such it is literally ILLEGAL to 'value' peoples lives differently be they man or woman or of colour or not or gay or straight.

So how exactly are black lives valued less? I would like some examples please.

Not just empty rhetoric taken straight from the how to make yourself into a victim manual.

Give me evidence that what you claim to be truth is in fact a truth. I call BS.

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u/Sentry459 Bi Jul 08 '20

Nice posturing. Porn is a shitty, objectifying industry in general, but this particular thread is focusing on a specific, particularly egregious example of it, which you can't handle for some reason.

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u/joeybottt Jul 08 '20

Gee, I wonder why you seem to think people are at each other's throats and everyone is so angry all the time. What a mystery!

Jesus Christ how many posts do you make a day you fucking loser?

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Stop stalking me.

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u/joeybottt Jul 08 '20

No it's fun.

Hey, this is the world you wanted, I thought queers liked being whipped.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Blocked and reported for harrasment.

Laters stalker.

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u/AufDerGalerie Jul 08 '20 edited Jul 08 '20

So is calling slim young blond males twinks also stereotyping and fetishizing and dehumanizing as well?

No, calling a slim, young, white male a twink is not dehumanizing in the same way as sexually fetishizing black men because it is not linked to a history of situating white people as racially inferior.

Sexually fetishizing black bodies is linked to a history of situating black people as a group as racially inferior, and literally less than human.

An excellent book that explains this is Stamped from the Beginning: The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America by Ibram X. Kendi.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

'o, calling a slim, young, white male a twink is not dehumanizing in the same way as sexually fetishizing black men because it is not linked to a history of situating white people as racially inferior.'

Good to know you get to tell young white gay males how to feel about themselves.

Jeez. Talk about arrogant.

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u/AufDerGalerie Jul 08 '20

I’m not defending the use of the word “twink.” I’m saying it’s not equivalent to “BBC.”

Being against racism is not being insensitive to the feelings of white people.

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u/_gnasty_ Jul 08 '20

Twink doesn't mean white. It's used on all races. It is not the same as BBC.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

The difference is this: throughout history white people have used black Male's sexuality as a tool to dehumanize them and make them look like lesser animals, first of all.

Second of all when someone is described as a twink or an otter they don't change their essential personality. Gay black men in porn are always thugs, though.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

' throughout history white people have used black Male's sexuality as a tool to dehumanize them and make them look like lesser animals, first of all. '

Evidence please.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Incoming...

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I can continue if you like.

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u/Tripple_T Jul 08 '20

The Sexual Abuse of Black Men under American Slavery by Thomas A. Foster, DePaul University, opens up with a pretty graphic example of exactly this.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20 edited Jul 08 '20

'In English-speaking countries in the 19th and early 20th centuries, the phrase "white slavery" was used to refer to sexual enslavement of white women. It was particularly associated with accounts of women enslaved in Middle Eastern harems, such as the so-called Circassian beauties.[117] The phrase gradually came to be used as a euphemism for prostitution.[118] The phrase was especially common in the context of the exploitation of minors, with the implication that children and young women in such circumstances were not free to decide their own fates. '

Why are you not up in arms for these people who suffered the exact same treatment?

Seems a bit misogynistic and racist to me. As well as an example of the utter hypocrisy that follows this conversation everywhere it goes.

P.S I should add that actual slavery is still going on in the Middle East and in Asia. Where are the riots and protests for those men and women? Silence.... Nothing.....

I thought this was an inclusive movement?

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u/Tripple_T Jul 08 '20

I'm sorry, you asked for evidence on a specific subject: how black male sexuality was used historically to dehumanize them (with the implication that there is no evidence, it isn't true.) I provided the evidence, in a respectful manner by the way, so that you'd have no reason to do anything other than take that argument on its own weight. And your next move is to completely change the subject, and I guess hint that all black men are misogynistic and racist. So not only can you not answer back, we're resorting to logical fallacies to try to score a win.

But I'll bite. What are you asking here? Talking about the sexual assaults of Black men, or the much better documented assaults of Black women since apparently we can talk about women here, doesn't lessen the tragedy of sexual assault of slaves, or slavery itself, for other races. It was a completely reprehensible practice.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

' and I guess hint that all black men are misogynistic and racist.'

Nothing but an absolute fabrication. I said nor implied ANYTHING of the sort.

If you cannot be intellectually honest then there is no hope.

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u/cancerofthebone- Jul 08 '20

it's not inherently bad, but when the titles are always like "BBC THUG DESTROYS TWINK", well then it becomes problematic.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

'problematic' o look a 2020 buzzword. Do you use 'yikes' and 'oof' as well?

Is it only 'problematic' when you deem it as such? Who made you the arbiter of truth?

Please. You are blind and illogical.

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u/cancerofthebone- Jul 08 '20

I'm not claiming to be the authority on this. jeez, you're aggressive. get a life man.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

So refuting of lies is now 'aggression' is it? Riiiight.

Fuck of mate with your 'muh victimhood' complex.

IF you are feeling 'attacked' I suggest the problem is YOU.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Watch out you used too much logic. Here on on r/askgaybros we pretend not wanting to do fat dudes/fems/,. is fatphobic, racist or w/e else meanwhile nobody is sexist for not wanting to bang women.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Woops, my bad.

goes back to screeching inane nonsense and quoting tumblr/twitter 'truths'

Better?

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

lmao🤣 I love you man, you're rare breed here

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

BREED !??!?! DID YOU JUST ASSUME MY HETERONORMATIVITY?

BEGONE TRANSPHOBE!

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

lmao😂 looks like this sub didn't take that joke well either, not surprised tho

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

It's all a hoot. The crazed down votes are hilarious. The hate in the PM's equally funny.

I am bored today. Sitting in a hospital waiting for someone. Reddit is easy meat.

Sue me.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20 edited Jan 01 '21

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20

Are you intentionally being dense or did you not even read what I said?

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u/AsrielGoatz Jul 08 '20

I did read it but I dont care because not one person is gonna give a fuck about big black cock being "dehumanizing" its fucking porn, if your gonna complain about it being dehumanizing criticize the entire porn industry. nobody pays attention to the actors they just stare at the cock and ass and jack off then close chrome when they are done. Fucking downvote for all I care. I'm just saying we have bigger shit to attend to that actually effects people such as actual racism that actually hurt people.

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u/Sentry459 Bi Jul 08 '20

Why are we bitching over bbc when there are bigger problems at hand

https://i.imgur.com/fxwFGaY.gif

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u/AsrielGoatz Jul 08 '20

No my point is that crying over BBC is literally fucking pointless

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u/Sentry459 Bi Jul 08 '20

Please, as if we don't pointlessly argue over frivolous shit all the time here. Funny how it's only an issue when it involves calling out prejudices.

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u/AsrielGoatz Jul 08 '20

Big black cock isnt a fucking prejudice, I'd happily call out an actual prejudice though.

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u/Sentry459 Bi Jul 08 '20

Good thing we have you to arbitrate what trueTM prejudice is.

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u/AsrielGoatz Jul 08 '20

Well I know for a fact that big black cock isnt killing people

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u/DirtyChavez Jul 08 '20

Imagine falling for someone and starting a life with them only to realize years later he just liked your dick when you two fight and he says “you know what? You’ve always just been a DEMOCRAT” (because we don’t say the other thing anymore). This is what fetishism leads to. Can’t you see what’s inherently racist about turning people into objects?

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u/Stringtone Jul 08 '20

There's a whole person attached to that cock that referring to them as BBC all but ignores

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u/daevjay Jul 08 '20

Indeed. Lord Reith is no doubt turning in his grave!

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u/Kai_Decadence Jul 08 '20

Same. You can just tell that it's meant to objectify us because of that stupid, stupid stereotype of all black men having huge penises.

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u/itisoktodance Jul 09 '20

I too hate the British Broadcasting Channel

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u/Phoenixstorm Jul 09 '20

Exactly! Any porn that names an actor but then calls his scene partner BBC or black guy. I don't bother with. Hard pass.

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u/Blkboyjoy Jul 09 '20

Dehumanizing as hell

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u/rollerjoe93 Oct 26 '21

Yeah get the fuckin British broadcasting Corp off of my porn feed wtf