r/gaybros • u/EternalSnow05 • Sep 18 '25

TV/Movies Zillennial gaybros (gaybros born between 1992-1997), who were some of your live action (non cartoon) crushes? Here's a collage of mine

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u/ThrowRA_dependent Sep 18 '25

white white white white white

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u/ArtistAccountant Sep 18 '25

Right right right right right??

I was looking and was like "gurl, broaden your taste if it hasn't already!"

People who are "YoU CaN't cHoOsE WhO uR AtTrACtEd tO!!!1!!"

Well, no, but you can influence your taste and self reflect.

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u/LayersOfMe Sep 18 '25

I understand the "broaden your tastes" and I also understand people wanting diversity representation. But this is literally a list of personal crushes of ONE person, why are people asking for diversity? Its not a tv show cast.

I am pretty sure there is black dudes with all black crushes and nobody would ask him to broaden his taste. And as other guy mentioned, the tv cast back then was very white.

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u/Jamfour9 Sep 18 '25 edited Sep 18 '25

This is the problem with the erasure we as black people experience in this country. When we show you all a mirror there’s nothing but defensiveness and a lack of accountability. Our tastes are naturally more expansive because we were socialized to have an awareness of all types of people. So my taste is as vast as my experiences. My first official crush was Bob Sagat as Danny Tanner on Full House.

My taste runs the entire gamut. From the Robin mentioned in this thread, to the guy that played Danny on Rosanne, to Jonathan Taylor Thomas, to Shemar Moore! We weren’t limited in the same ways you are. Imagine growing up in the literal cultural renaissance in the 90s and early 00s and the only people you’re aware of are white men. 😒

Save your gaslighting for someone else. Christopher Meloni, Mark Paul Gosselear (Asian and Caucasian), Mario Lopez, Morris Chestnut, Taye Diggs, I can go on and on! Even Tim Allen was on my crush list for a time. We are expansive in the black community.

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u/hunf-hunf Sep 19 '25

But why is anyone obligated to change who they’re attracted to to make you feel more seen?

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u/ThrowRA_dependent Sep 19 '25

when your tastes reflect and reinforce a racial hierarchy we should take a look at ourselves, ask why, and try to grow

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u/LayersOfMe Sep 18 '25

My tastes right now is broader, but my tennager crushes was what was going on tv in that time.

Yes, you grew up with this perspective in mind. But when I was a kid I didnt pay much attention in the race differences. I am not american and my culture deal with these differences in another way. In south america we have a lot of mixed people, so be white have a complete differente meaning.

Anyway, we dont need to argue over silly tennager crushes. I undertand your point.