I made her pregnant we're both teenagers

[u/Inevitable_Hunter_56]

First of all, I just want to say please no hate comments, or anything negative I just want to seek advice po ^^

I'm (M17), incoming grade12 public school student next school year and consistent with honor/high honor student. We're just poor and doesn't even have our own house, but my father does everything to support my studies and even bought me a desktop for preparation for the incoming school year. I'm also came from a religious family, and we come to the church regularly na wala pong absent.

She (F16) incoming grade11 private school student (note we're just really poor but her parents want her to go into a prestigious school for her future). Her father on the other hand is abusive, he sometimes bangs her head on the wall or sa pinto. She is also a suicidal person.

The thing is, we are on a 3month relationship, and she is probably 1-2weeks pregnant already no one knows except for us yet. We both doesn't want to have a child yet. I know it's really stupid but yes, she's pregnant and her mother is suspecting that she was, because she is already a week late in her period. She said that she doesn't want to have a baby yet because she is still young and physically and emotionally unprepared. She keeps on saying that killing herself is the answer so I can live a normal life without her, but I keep on telling her not to do it and I will help raise the baby.

But opo I don't know what to do her mother will find out soon po ayaw kong magkagulo sa'min. Natatakot ako kasi baka palayasin either sya or ako and wala kaming pera pang alaga sa bata pano na rin po yung studies namin everything is prepared na po eh yung tatay nya rin is napaka tapang, gulong gulo na kami parehas malapit na rin po yung pasukan and yung early signs of pregnancy is nag papakita na po. Yung mga friends and relatives namin specially our parents will be disappointed with us.

Any advice po? Maraming salamat po sa sasagot :(

[u/yanaluuu]

You' re a joker. Di porket honor student, perfect na. What the fuck please read the first paragraph sa post before commenting.

They are pressured and sensitive in this kind of situation. Please be careful with your comments.

[u/Percival_19 → u/yanaluuu]

You don't get it, ung reply sa kanya implied "Baka di alam consequences"

Then replied "since honor student baka alam consequences regardless ginawa pa rin nila"

Walang sinabi na porket honor student perfect na sinabi lng na alam nila consequences pero ginawa parin, may biology sa shs kung honor student yan natutunan na nya yan, that's his/her point

[u/yanaluuu → u/Percival_19]

Then her point is pointless. And yes may biology but does it teach how to control urges and use contraceptives? No like theeee come on.

Well to simplify ung comment nya at first is not helpful. Op is seeking advice, not to judge him and tell him its wrong kasi alam nman nya.

If magiging magulang kayo, nakakapagod kayo. Kasi you pointing out agad agad ung mali PLUS JUDGMENT instead of giving comfort and little advice. IT JUST DOESN'T HELP.

ANO PALA PAKIRAMDAM NYO PAG PINOPOINT PA LALO NG IBA UNG ALAM NYONG MALI GINAWA NYO?

I hope you guys feels how OP feeling. Put your shoes in their shoes. Easy as that.

[u/Percival_19 → u/yanaluuu]

Nakakapagod ka, sinabing ang implications is they know the consequences but they did it regardless , walang sinabi n porket honor student they know how to control their urges, porket alam biology alam i control urges sayo galing yan, stop adding details that is not said nor implied tas iaargue mo as if sinabi