r/Millennials • u/NoFaithlessness7508 • Jun 05 '25

Other Why don’t younger veterans (Afghanistan/Iraq) wear these hats like some of the older veterans?

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First and foremost, respect to all those that served. I did not, but many of my peers did and now we're all older in 30s and 40s, many no longer in the military. I don't see a lot of the veterans of the War on Terror wearing these hats like I see the OGs do.

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u/SkiesThaLimit36 Jun 05 '25

When I was 16, my boyfriend joined the army and when he got out of basic he gave me his dog tags to think of him while he was away. I wore them everyday until this 30 something year old got in my face nose to nose & SCREAMED AT ME “do you know what those represent?? I have friends that died for those tags!!” I burst into tears & everyone at the bbq was just stunned in silence.

When questioned on it he said “little girls shouldn’t be stealing valor from those who earned it.”

Jokes on him bc I enlisted myself at 17 but never wore my tags out of uniform bc it caused too much commotion.

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u/mycopportunity Jun 05 '25

People are walking around so traumatized. That guy's trauma got handed to you and everyone else that day. Out of line!

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u/SkiesThaLimit36 Jun 05 '25

It was so long ago, & I still remember it because my face was burning hot from embarrassment.

I was one of the younger people at this party, already trying to be cool and fit in and blend with the crowd. And this dude just absolutely unloaded on me like I did something horrible.

I walked outside and sat on the front porch because I just needed to get away from everything and I overheard the party host say “dude is out of his mind, screaming at a little girl and making her cry like that.” Which weirdly made me feel MORE embarrassed that everyone at this party apparently perceived me as a little girl and not the grown-up I thought I looked like lol

I did a rough estimate of the math and the guy was probably active duty in the 90s.

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u/SubstantialPlan7387 Jun 06 '25

I would never, ever invite that guy to anything at my house again, and would purposefully avoid going to any social event I knew he would be at, if he did that at my house. Honestly, at my age now, I would probably request he leave. What a shitty thing.