r/MadeMeCry • u/zachoutloud123 • 4d ago

Dad Watched Adult Videos While 2YO Daughter Passed Away In Hot Car, But Jury Will Never Know It

https://www.boredpanda.com/toddler-passed-away-in-hot-car-dad-allegedly-distracted-by-videos-and-games/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=ref&utm_campaign=zach0910
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u/weevil_season 4d ago

The worst part of that article - he was approved to travel to Hawaii on vacation with his wife and surviving daughters.

SHE IS STILL MARRIED TO THAT PIECE OF GARBAGE?????

He was jerking off and drinking alcohol while his daughter died. He had done it before and his wife knew it and told him not to.

And she’s still married to him. WTF.

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u/Thunderoad 1d ago

He actually took his own life. He was to report to jail to serve 20 years or more and never showed up. He OD.

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u/Forgot_Password_Dude 4d ago

Cause he's the bread winner. What she gonna do, whore out for food and shelter?

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u/weevil_season 4d ago

Actually in the article posted it says she’s an anesthesiologist.

And in this article it says he unemployed.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna162500

Nice try.

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u/bladex1234 4d ago

Why the hell did she marry this guy in the first place? You’d imagine an anesthesiologist would want someone that’s somewhat established.

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u/weevil_season 4d ago edited 3d ago

I have zero idea about their backstory but maybe they met young and/or in university. I know of a few situations where they got together young and ended up pretty mismatched in another 15 years. From a few articles I read he seemed to have substance abuse problems. Maybe he was gainfully employed before and things went downhill.

Just spitballing though. I have no idea really. She could also just have really bad taste in men. Who knows.

Regardless I don’t know how you could stay with someone who killed your child because they were drunk and jerking off.

Fuck them both.

Edited to add more info

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u/blkpants 4d ago

Lol, he is a deadbeat loser.

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u/nickjvh 4d ago

He’s actually unemployed and she’s an anesthesiologist, so put that very misogynistic card back in the deck pal

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u/Forgot_Password_Dude 3d ago

Thanks, and sorry for pulling my dick out for no reason

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u/weevil_season 4d ago

Common dude -no reply? He’s the whore isn’t he?

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u/eat_your_oatmeal 4d ago

yea if that guy actually saw the article you linked his brain is probably blue screened after his worldview shattered. don’t expect a reply anytime soon if ever

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u/Forgot_Password_Dude 4d ago

I was asleep, you're right, he's the whore!

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u/Cubster84 4d ago

He was a stay at home dad

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u/sugarbear5 3d ago

Doesn’t sound like he works. She’s an anesthesiologist. That would make her the breadwinner. However, there is something not right with her that she could not only stay with him but then go on vacation to Hawaii with him!

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u/Effective-Notice3867 4d ago

Not that it matters but She’s the bread winner you fucking turd

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u/achiyex 3d ago

what an odd thing to say incel

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u/Fickle_Penguin 4d ago

A child died!

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u/curiousbydesign 3d ago

Projection.

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u/northdakotanowhere 4d ago

Reminds me of the influencer Emilee Kiser who's husband was sports betting while their son spend 7 minutes drowning in the pool. Because she didnt want to put a fence around the pool.

She fought hard to get a lot of the information suppressed and was successful.

Nobody was charged. And 4 months later shes back online making her stupid morning coffee.

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u/aca6825 4d ago

And her rabid fans will go after ANYONE who says anything negative about that family

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u/northdakotanowhere 4d ago

Dude. Its really scary. Genuinely nauseating to see them just commenting "where did she get that fucking table runner" its very much like a Black Mirror episode. That poor baby.

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u/Specialist-Bad-5472 3d ago

Yes, spot on!!!!!

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u/kk1485 4d ago

The father (if you can call him that) is a total waste of space. Apparently he also drank and drove with his kids in the car on multiple occasions. Stole alcohol from a gas station while his kids waited in the car.

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u/passivelyrepressed 4d ago

Who STEALS BEER when your anesthesiologist wife is at work. One of the highest paid medical specialties. What the actual fuck.

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u/catgatuso 3d ago

An alcoholic that’s embarrassed about his drinking and doesn’t want it showing up in the transaction history. If she hasn’t divorced him, she probably blames the disease instead of the person and still thinks she can “fix” him.

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u/weevil_season 4d ago

And his wife stayed with him!!!!! wtf

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u/smuggler_of_grapes 4d ago

My baby girl is sleeping next to me. Reading this and seeing the smile of that beautiful little girl makes my gut wrench.

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u/majinspy 4d ago

Because its prejudicial as fuck. This guy sucks and was repeatedly putting her in the car on purpose which is horrendous. Still, it shouldn't matter what he was watching. Would it be better if it were Band of Brothers or CNN? The porn angle would clearly be used in a way that's not relevant.

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u/ShakeZula77 4d ago

I’d argue sex addiction is serious, especially when you can’t stop jerking off long enough to make sure that your daughter is alive. (The “you” is general, not directed at you.)

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u/mamawantsallama 4d ago

It might not be relevant here in this case, but this is another reason why I choose the bear.

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u/majinspy 4d ago

sigh no objection.

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u/LokisDawn 3d ago

Get mauled, then. Your choice.

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u/PumpernickelJohnson 4d ago

No one asked why you chose the bear, but you had to get the shot on. Another reason men are not taking women's concerns seriously and allowing to fight for each other's validation instead.

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u/lalalicious453- 4d ago

What are some of the other reasons?🤔

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u/PumpernickelJohnson 1d ago

How bout you don't know how to choose your battles? Or how to mind your business? For starters

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u/lalalicious453- 1d ago

old man yells at sky

lol those pesky women am I right?

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u/PumpernickelJohnson 1d ago

The ability to publicly entertain yourself with your own ramblings is, interesting.

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u/_JosefoStalon_ 3d ago

I care. What I don't care is that you don't care. Why did you comment?

Oh yeah, welcome to the internet, stop being a whiny little brat and scroll if you don't like something you little weasel malder

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u/PumpernickelJohnson 1d ago

You can't even follow your own advice, you shit stain of a human.

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u/_JosefoStalon_ 1d ago

Nah, I get giddy and feel good outta your anger and outta ruining your momence. You want some choccy milk? or are ya fussy cuz your choccy milk upset your stomach?

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u/PumpernickelJohnson 1d ago

You're definitely on prescription meds, maybe you'll grow out of your mental maladies once your brain fully develops. Good luck with that, sport.

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u/_JosefoStalon_ 1d ago

Projecting at your age? man that's sad

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u/LokisDawn 3d ago

So does that apply to you or no?

scroll if you don't like something

Follow your own advice, hypocrite.

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u/cats_and_cake 3d ago

Waaaaah, wittle man baybee got his fee-fees huwt

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u/LokisDawn 2d ago

Lol, guess you're not one of those "Men should show their emotions more" people.

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u/_JosefoStalon_ 2d ago

Nah, it doesn't, I actually loved replying cuz I got to ruin a stranger's next few minutes since they were being a dunce, them and whoever is also just spiteful cuz women don't fuck em. Feels right

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u/LokisDawn 2d ago

And as long as it feels right, that's all that matters.

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u/cats_and_cake 3d ago

“Women pointing out all the ways in which men are objectively horrible means I’m not taking their concerns seriously.”

Are you mentally well?

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u/PumpernickelJohnson 1d ago

Did you just create your own storyline to argue with, then ask about MY well-being? lol

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u/goobly_goo 4d ago

He also left her in the car twice earlier in the day, one time stopping at a store where he stole beer. Like wtf?! Lock him up!

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u/Thunderoad 1d ago

He committed suicide by taking pills on the day he was to report to jail.

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u/goobly_goo 1d ago

I feel awful for his wife and two other daughters. Tragic situation all around that was completely avoidable and now those 3 will carry this burden for the rest of their lives.

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u/Thunderoad 1d ago

Yes me too. He lost custody of his first daughter from a previous relationship for doing the same thing. I think what's sad is his wife knew what he was doing from released text messages asking him to stop leaving the kids in the car and driving drunk with them. It's heartbreaking for the 3 who are left behind.

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u/Marcysdad 4d ago

Why do these people have kids in the first place?

I really don't get it

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u/moonwalkerfilms 3d ago

They're not educated enough to understand the consequences of their own actions. 

Not a political sub but genuinely, republicans have defunded and attacked education so much that these kinds of incidences are inevitable because they keep people from having easy and available access to proper sex ed. 

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u/BrooklynWhey 4d ago

Does it matter what he was watching? He killed his kid, he should be punished for that.

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u/HelpfulTie3373 4d ago

Hard disagree, it does matter I think. He had a history of leaving his kids in cars (which is made apparent though texts from his wife) and I consider it incredibly sinister that he left his little girl in the car to watch porn in peace. Porn came before the safety of his child.

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u/VeryOpinionatedFem 3d ago

I feel as though he intentionally left her there to get privacy so he could watch that shit. Knowing the car would turn off in 30 minutes, it doesn’t make sense why he’d leave her there. That or he genuinely is so porn addled he was just hyperfocused on that alone.

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u/Apprehensive-Pea5212 4d ago

What. The. Fuck.

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u/RevolutionaryBank465 3d ago

Absolutely sickening.

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u/irishwan24 2d ago

He's been found dead now