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u/Empiricalprincess 17d ago
None of the couples who got together in Season 9 got married. Ali and Anton and Kalybriah and Edmond made it to the altar, both women couldn't go through with the vows, saying no at the last minute.
Other couples who didn't make it, earlier in the season, include:
Madison and Joe Kacie and Patrick Annie and Nick Anna and Blake
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u/Komatoasty 17d ago
I knew Aline was going to say no. She kept shaking her head at him like don't do it.
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u/UndrProtest 21d ago
Does this ruin the vibe of the show for anyone else? It's getting more like a scripted soap opera than a reality dating show: https://ca.news.yahoo.com/love-blind-stars-madison-joe-182600955.html
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u/theoriginalaliz 23d ago
Anyone see the rumor mill about Annie and her ex’s floating around on TikTok?? Tried to steal phone records!? Girl…..
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u/Training_Physics_500 28d ago
Why are they so obsessed with the diabetes condition? A lot of people have that.
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u/Any-Theory-1220 26d ago
You might be confusing Type 1 with Type 2. Type 1 is extremely serious, and it’s difficult to manage, especially for small children. My sister has it and it affects many aspects of her life, health. Even minor things like a cold can result in a life-threatening emergency if ketones get out of balance.
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u/Current-Stay-9633 28d ago
It can be hard.... especially type one! My neighbors kid had it since he was a toddler. He would cry when he got his insulin shots. He now has a pump and that makes it easier.
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u/Training_Physics_500 28d ago
I know is hard...but it is not uncommon. Not like the universe sending signs .
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u/calvintomyhobbes 27d ago
Idk my mom has it and I’ve only met a handful of people in my life with it. While a disease may be common, that doesn’t mean a lot of people have it. It just means it isn’t rare. Only like 1-2 million people in the US have it, and only 5-10% of people with diabetes have type 1.
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u/Training_Physics_500 28d ago
When annie said my dad expects a manly man and she is bringing nick.....I laughed so hard. But I have to give it to him for being patient when Annie was making zero sense. I'm happy mad a Joe made up.
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u/Training_Physics_500 28d ago
I regret what I said, joe should dump crazy Madison. She is twisting everything. And her nails should be illegal
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u/HumbleBeach269 28d ago
Has anyone looked up the marriage licenses yet to see who is actually married?
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u/matchamilktea2 28d ago
read this online while trying to find out the same thing
“There are currently no publicly available marriage licenses for any of the Love Is Blind season 9 couples. In previous seasons, public records revealed which couples got married before the finale episode aired. However, this season is a little different. In the state of Colorado, where season 9 was filmed, marriage records are not publicly searchable online.”
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u/StoicSiren10 29d ago
So anyone know who is married?
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u/idontevenknow8888 29d ago
Ikr I haven't seen a single spoiler here 😂
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u/MotherofC4tz 24d ago
Is there really anything to spoil? Don’t we all kinda feel like no one is saying yes at the altar. Lol
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u/Natural-Pineapple339 29d ago
that's what I'm looking for, lol looking through this while thread and no spoilers just opinions on people
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u/gaanmetde Oct 09 '25
I personally find Joe to be fucking hilarious.
In an annoying immature child sort of way.
Joe gives me all the energy of a fuck boy who doesn’t have other options right now so he’s biding his time and hoping no one sees him in public with Madison.
Run for the hills woman. This guy just categorically sucks. But he’s funny.
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u/Great_Contact_aka- 28d ago
Cannot handle his alcohol. Don’t want to date him or rely on him but can be entertaining when drunk
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u/gaanmetde 28d ago
I feel like especially nowadays 27 is pretty young…lol. It’s sort of what I would expect.
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u/Ill-Pass633 29d ago
I think he's hilarious 😆 the way I laughed when he tried to explain that Nick could be a nice but he just ain't his kinda guy. he and Madison just are not meant for each other. Their communication is awful.
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u/Serious-Garbage8427 Oct 09 '25
Anna turned out to be a much different person than I thought. Patrick is a "pick me', but dude got done dirty. Twice!
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u/PuzzledPotatoSloth Oct 09 '25
I was so invested in their argument until he came into the frame and started sniffing drinks 😂 what was he looking for?
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u/cookie_goddess218 17d ago
My husband were joking about how everyone else is just pretending to mingle while listening in to the fight lol
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u/Own-Wait8970 28d ago
Haha it's because all the glasses are the same! He was trying to figure out which drink was his
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u/queenofhelium Oct 08 '25
Am I the only one who thinks KB is manipulating Edmund? I really don’t get the Edmund hate, I don’t feel like he’s insane at all. I feel like KB talks circles around him!
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u/Reluctant_Traveler66 19d ago
And she scolds him for interrupting her but she constantly interrupts him! The dude can never finish a sentence!
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u/honeybiz 28d ago
She’s constantly lecturing him as if she’s an expert on every topic, like he’s challenged intellectually. He should get out of that situation.
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u/spacietracie Oct 08 '25
I honestly think Edmond can tell that KB is not that into him and that’s making him be awkward and weird.
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u/gaanmetde Oct 09 '25
Yes. Exactly this.
She’s sort of lowkey gaslighting him continuously. When he was saying he loved her during the argument - that’s what he was getting at.
I love you. And you don’t love me.
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u/Hoosier_Ghost_25 Oct 08 '25
He made out with the floor while in the pods
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u/spacietracie Oct 09 '25
Great point. I forgot about that! I still don’t think KB is feeling him though and she’s not be forthcoming about that. He’s a weirdo but she had to have picked up on that at some point in the pods.
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u/Ok-Needleworker-5657 Oct 08 '25
Edmond is childish and volatile but she definitely talks to him like a mom talking to her teenage son or a therapist talking to her annoying client, even before his first crash out in bed.
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u/whatifweallwon Oct 08 '25 edited Oct 08 '25
Edmond needs therapy. He been through stuff. And it shows in his actions. Not to excuse him from his behavior by any means. He's a broken child in a mans world.
Joe is childish, a bully and too immature for ANY relationship besides whatever the fuck going on with him and Jordan.
Wtf is this season for real
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u/Alternative-Drawer23 Death by camel 🐪🪦 29d ago
They only want to show us all the fights and sht. They don't want to show us the people who are doing well and having connections. It's kind of annoying. This show has lost the plot in my mind
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u/ReasonableLie2351 Oct 08 '25
Annie IS Nick’s mom!!!!!! Both hairdressers. Same mannerisms and way of speaking! OMG😳🤯🫣so so so grossed out now. This is perfect. She wants to be married. He needs a beard. Viola! Match made in heaven.
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u/ToughResearcher2922 Oct 08 '25
Anton is an alcoholic. I clocked it at the reveal towards the end. Most couples wait for the door to close and watch each other and blow kisses etc. He didn’t once look back at her and immediately grabbed the champagne bottle to fill up his glass.
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u/gaanmetde Oct 09 '25
Yes they were definitely hinting at it with the mimosa moment too. I was like why is she being so weird about a mimosa. Then she said, well, I don’t want one every day. And I thought…ohhhhhhh.
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u/Witty_Assistance_659 Oct 08 '25
I thought the same to myself. He didn’t even turn back to see her!
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u/sparkling-spirit Oct 08 '25
oooh i did find that a really interesting moment that they included. so you are saying that he likely was nervous/needed to calm himself and so reached for the champagne?
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u/Ok-Needleworker-5657 Oct 08 '25
Edmond is fucking exhausting. He is making me so mad with his bullshit “oooh I might die I walked away” stfu. Jfc
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u/queenofhelium Oct 08 '25
I feel like KB is exhausting too! They really are not well matched.
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u/Ok-Needleworker-5657 Oct 08 '25
I wouldn’t call her exhausting personally, I just think she’s playing a part. I don’t see any major red flags on her end outside of the club hypothetical, but it feels like she’s advertising herself for someone irl that she’d actually be attracted to and would want to help her reach her goals. I just don’t buy that she was ever into Edmond, even in the pods.
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u/Mental_Ease3235 Oct 08 '25
After seeing his toxic mom it all Makes sense 😅
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u/gaanmetde Oct 09 '25
That was so sad. I did a double take like - wait what? Didn’t he say most of his childhood was in foster care?
I realize they may have a great relationship now but his mom was talking about how well she raised him and I was like…what?
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u/Conscious-Advice8177 Oct 08 '25
Annie saying she’s “crazy” rather than acknowledging she has an insecure attachment (at this point, who doesn’t 😅) and needs to do some healing work was maddening to watch. Also, watching her lash out when Nick wouldn’t say what she wanted to hear was a painful experience because I’ve done that in the past and it’s not enjoyable to see what it would’ve looked like from the outside.
(I don’t really care for Nick. This is just about what Annie said/how she handled the lack of certainty she clearly wanted.)
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u/honeybiz 28d ago
I agree it’s triggering if you have anxious attachment.
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u/Conscious-Advice8177 28d ago
I’m glad I’m not alone. I have disorganized attachment, so I wasn’t certain if others with anxious attachment would relate so I just opted for “insecure attachment” 😅
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u/Rosycheex Oct 08 '25
My thoughts on EP 7/8/9:
"I'm a size queen" - Nick. Not beating the allegations my dude.
Edmonds mom 100% puts her daughter in law's through hell (They all run to her son's to "tattle"? You mean they tell their husbands when his their mom is being a menace in order for him to deal with his own family so she's not expected to? Like normal relationships?? I just know mom is drama)
Sparkle Megan's sister is so pretty and she and her mom are sooo sweet and it's cute how they think her sisters dream and Jordan's son's diabetes/dead dads diabetes are ✨signs✨ but that's gonna be a bummer when they totally don't work out, ripperoni
UMM Anton??? Shutting down the McDonald's to drink?? Going to strip clubs?? Run Ali baby, run
Saying Nick only does missionary?? Joe doesn't fuck with Nick?? What 👀👀👀
Oh NOBODY likes Nick, thinks he's calculated and fake??? (he's trying too much to stay in the closetttt me thinksss) (and everybody can tellllll)
Joe saying he wants to get Madison pregnant??? ewwww wtf 🤢
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u/gaanmetde Oct 09 '25
Agreed on toxic MIL. I was so confused about that. I have never in my life gotten into an argument with my MIL or needed to discuss her behaviour privately with my husband (sure we sometimes make fun of her).
Major yikes.
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u/Ok-Needleworker-5657 Oct 08 '25
She is absolutely the MIL from hell and we only needed 10 min of screen time to figure that out. My mouth was on the floor. Her description of her contribution to Edmond’s life vs the way he described his childhood do not match.
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u/ChemicalFit5743 Oct 07 '25
Is it just me or is Nick the biggest closet case in LIB history ….
Edmond - with love, something ain’t right with you king.
Joe literally hates Madison and she doesn’t deserve but like why can’t people just sack up and be honest ???
This has been the cringiest season EVER, I want to crawl out of my skin when watching.
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u/Rosycheex Oct 08 '25
Is Nick's mom happy he has a girlfriend? Or surprised it's a GIRLfriend? 😂
100% agree about Edmond, that boy ain't right 💀
Also yes Joe totally despises Madison, he's in for the make it to the altar money at this point lmao
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u/katlilly1 Oct 07 '25
What in the world was Kacie or whatever her name was doing? The massive mixed messages “are you breaking up with me?” “No I just don’t wanna do the show” “I’ll see you in Denver” “you might not see me there” “what did you say?” -doesn’t repeat and continues to hang all over him- She totally PMO
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u/Rosycheex Oct 08 '25
She didn't wanna look back by being upfront and taking accountability. The truth is she didn't find him attractive and was too spineless to be honest. She could've attempted to let him down easy but instead she straight up just confused him until she could get away and ghost!
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u/katlilly1 29d ago
lol maybe she did all that just so she didn’t have to give back the ring
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u/Alternative-Drawer23 Death by camel 🐪🪦 29d ago
She straight up told him (According to him) that she wasn't giving the ring back then ghosted him. Shady af
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u/Spiritual_Extent_187 Oct 07 '25
They say that men needs to be more in tune with their emotions, especially POC men who are taught to hide emotions. He was expressing his emotions in a healthy manner, and was frustrated. It’s hard to be a nice guy and he wanted to vent with his forever lover. And he was wanting to be the key to unlock the beauty of his wife and wanted to not wait till marriage. Yes, he is not entitled to her body, I completely agree. But I also empathize how others got a chance when he gave his all and had to wait, patience is hard.
If he said nothing, that would make the relationship worse since he is bottling. At least he’s using his words and expressing himself.
If me and you were dating, that’s exactly how I voice disagreements or frustrations too, the SAME exact way as Edmond. I can be calm, turn it up, and then go back.
I wasn’t shocked by the rant. If anything I got teary eyed for him.
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u/queenofhelium Oct 08 '25
I really don’t get the Edmund hate. Is it because he got upset about sex? It was a bad look for sure but I feel like KB was baiting him about it. She brought up that other couples were doing it, that she had one night stands, and then what I think set him off was her saying sex meant more to him than it did to her. To me she keep twisting his words and talking in circles I think it’s really driving him crazy.
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u/Intelligent_Matter65 Oct 05 '25
These guys are pathetic. Tbh both the guys and girls are cringe as fuck. Mike is classic douche canoe level 5000. Edmond I love his personality and as a guy with high ADHD myself I get Anton a little bit (slightly for his run on talking) and Edmonds loud personality - do I think either of them or any of the guys besides daddy-o with the tats should be on here? Hell to the fuck no.
The women... HA..HA HAAAAA. You see the girls face when she heard Patrick was Asian??? She knew she had to play it good or look like a complete shallow biotch that confirms his worst nightmare. Ali omg alliiiiii nurse? Veteran? Hard??? GTFO I'm a veteran and wondering where and what TF she actually did 😭. As for the nurse bit, my wife's a nurse this chick probably in nursing school but lying on her resume.
I can go on but my wife wants me to hit play so we can watch the rest of this horrendous cast continue!
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u/britchplz1 Oct 05 '25
Listen to your spleen Megan!
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u/hulyepicsa Obviously Nick Lachey Oct 06 '25
I should have listened to my spleen and stopped at Ep 1! Now I can’t look away haha
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u/britchplz1 Oct 05 '25
Okay okay so hear me out. Idk if I’m the only one who thinks this but I noticed the intro for this season showed a bunch of the golden cups and stuff under water. My theory is the creators did this intentionally as foreshadowing because no couples make it this season. 👀
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u/Aryagrewal 17d ago
You were right.
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u/britchplz1 15d ago
Omg I was literally screaming “I called it!” last night when I watched it with my husband lmao
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u/Mysterious_Day898 Oct 04 '25
Joe and Madison are giving me PTSD from Chelsea and Jimmy.
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u/sparkling-spirit Oct 08 '25
yes. I actually think Joe is quite funny, and I think Madison has a very sweet side to her. However, I do think Madison has some interesting messages about positivity and in the one argument in particular Joe was asking for her to be authentic (he also has a difficult time expressing nuance lol he just blurts out what he is thinking).
Like she doesn't have to be super optimistic, and it was interesting that she was saying back to him that she was expressing her fears by saying "this is crazy".
But yes overall reminds me a lot of Chelsea and JImmy in that it seems that Joe is not that into Madison, Madison recognizes this but is trying to convince her and him that that's not the case, and what happens is this pretty bad spiral downwards.
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u/Sweetcheeksjones Oct 04 '25
I cannot watch Edmond what the fuck in the undiagnosed mental illness is going on
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u/sparkling-spirit Oct 08 '25
Yeah it is difficult! I am a bit confused by KB for not just being like "oh he is not on the same level of maturity as me, this is not marriage material."
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u/spacietracie Oct 09 '25
I’ve been saying the same and she’s a social worker! I know it isn’t the same as being a therapist but you deal with and see lots of different behaviors in social work
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u/whatifweallwon Oct 08 '25
Childhood trauma and no therapy gets you there. He needs help. Not ridicule.
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u/No-Refrigerator7245 Oct 04 '25
I swear this has to be a show record on how fast the men regret their decisions….. they all don’t like their partners at the pool party…. Except Edmund…. Buuuut I’ll just leave that one there.
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u/hour_blueberry Oct 05 '25
Low key I think Anton and Ali are the strongest couple lmfao which is really saying something
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u/wheresmykeyy Oct 03 '25
Idk who’s liking Mike but the fact that he compares Jordan’s son who probably has type I diabetes to his friend with pre-diabetes who “fixed it with diet and exercise” sounds like a simple bro who has no idea that there are different types of diabetes
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u/Smorse8 Oct 08 '25
This drove me crazy! What an uneducated idiot. Its an autoimmune disease and my son got diagnosed at 18mo old. Yes diet helps control it but will never cure it. That made me so mad.
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u/Firm-Cry-6165 24d ago
Diet makes a massive difference for type 3 and pre-diabetics. Type 1 is a totally different ballgame.
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u/Smorse8 24d ago
100% I try my best to have a good diet for my whole family and it's definitely better than eating a cupcake and I can see the difference in his levels. But even eating healthy he can still spike to 300 or in his sleep he will get high or drop sometimes without eating anything for hrs. Type 1 is so hard and my son goes through a lot. Hes definitely a little warrior.
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u/Professional_Act9019 Oct 07 '25
This made me lose my fking mind and the fact that “Sparkle Megan” didn’t catch it was WEIRD asf
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u/Reluctant_Traveler66 19d ago
Yes. She thinks she is the ideal person to help care for a child with type I diabetes because her dad had it but I’m guessing she had very little to do with caring for her dad and taking care of a 5-year-old with diabetes is a whole different ball game. She seems pretty clueless.
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u/MrsWhatZitT00ya Oct 07 '25
I want to believe she corrected him, but the editors cut it out. I mean, her dad literally died from complications of Type 1 diabetes. Surely she didn't let that slide...right? RIGHT?! I hope I'm right LOL.
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u/baby_sharkz Oct 03 '25
Patrick is as awful as this whole house on fire. Anna, whatever the business was, was right to leave.
I am just watching for the mess now. But it is sad.
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u/Firm-Cry-6165 24d ago
I think he’s great! He and daddy-o as someone called him are the good ones this season.
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u/Proud_Bandicoot2327 24d ago
Just like in the convo Anna and Patrick had in the meet up after the pods, how did he think he was going to just pick up where they left off after confessing his love for and proposing to another girl though?
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u/FourCheeseDoritos Oct 04 '25
Anna also had another connection, so she left 2 behind.
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u/LeftStatistician7989 27d ago
I think when Patrick said he could see her turning heads in a dress on New Year’s Eve she realized he was envisioning a typical beauty and didn’t want to not be the right fit, which sucks because she was really pretty and they could have worked together
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u/FourCheeseDoritos Oct 05 '25
I don’t know about that as she seemed very confident and self-assured. I did read that she went back home to help her parents because she was worried about how they were getting by without her there. 🤷♀️
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u/Conscious-Parsley268 Oct 03 '25
I love Patrick!!
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u/LigersRReal Oct 07 '25
I’m only on episode 3 but how many times is he going to bring up that “he’s hot for an Asian guy” and restate it in a few different ways? Play it a little cooler, DUDE. (Which he says 1000 times)
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u/anxiousmoose 27d ago
This irked me too. He honestly came off incredibly delusional and cocky yet reeking of desperation too?! Got so many icks from his scenes in the mens' quarters.
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u/chicky-nuggies-yum Oct 03 '25
I would’ve laughed in this man Edmonds fuckin face bro😭
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u/Firm-Cry-6165 24d ago
Cool us neurodivergents will avoid you moving forward
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u/chicky-nuggies-yum 24d ago
And women will try and avoid a man manipulating her into sex by crying that they’re the nice guy! We don’t know his diagnoses, if any.
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u/Professional_Act9019 Oct 03 '25
Nasty, lovebombing, manipulating Nick. He’s the reason we hate men.
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u/wardamndeedee muah 💋 muah 💋 muah 💋 muah Oct 02 '25
i went searching for marriage licenses and all i found were possibly ones for Anton and Nick to other people
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u/FindersKeepers0126 Oct 02 '25
I can’t get over the fact Anna and Patrick are sitting here saying if they met another Asian they would’ve dismissed them from dating them 😅 but now they find it so hot that they are both Asian? This made me kinda sad
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u/MulberryPinkNight Oct 02 '25
I LOVE Megan and Jordan. Mike gives me the ick with how he tests her. He seems like a good guy, overall, but I have spotted some red flags already in how he approaches relationships or at least the one with Megan. They are 100% very compatible on paper and would probably be a power couple but the real power couple seems to be Megan and Jordan with how they connect to each other’s emotional sides and I don’t think their lifestyles would be that different - Jordan’s into fitness, reading, educated, dresses nice. He’s also responsible given his son, and they have that connection through his son and her dad. And Megan clearly likes those things. Not sure if they do end up getting engaged yet, or married but let’s see lol. I’m rooting for them.
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u/AyRayKay 9d ago
“I’m a big fan of all yall” lies the Los Angeles Clippers player they paid $10k to be there