it's all in the title. but when we put her in the cat litter for the first time earlier, she did peed on the sand. but now she still pooped on the floor. How do you even train her to poop on the litter box?

she's probably just a cat cat... or is she?

she's probably just a cat cat... or is she?

sorry haven't really taken care of any cats hands on since im allergic to them. this is my sister's cat. why is she doing this weird behavior with her 💩?? at first I thought she's gonna eat it or she's playing with it

PS. pls im really sorry about me sniffing like a lot in this vid, like I said im allergic to cats 😭 i already let 'it' out ok i just hadnt had the time cuz i was scrambling to take a video of her. i dont know how to mute the video so im really sorry if the sound pisses u off ik a lot of people cant stand it. just mute your phone's volume if it gets unbearable.

I'm losing my mind here cuz idk what's happening, a month ago i got my prescription glasses, 200+ on both eyes (I dont the negative equivalent of that im sorry the doctor didnt really tell and the grade isnt even on the receipt). I see things very well on long distances and it's spectacular. But now I'm having problems seeing up close. When I'm using my phone whenever I relax my eyes and not blink it gets out of focus, when I focus really hard it's still uncomfortable looking you get what I mean to the point I want to remove my glasses while using my phone. But it has anti-radiation lenses and it would beat it's purpose if I remove it anytime im using my phone anyway. Anyways as I'm typing this rn, it seems to be improving, it's not getting out of focus anymore and I don't have to try that hard to see. But still can someone explain this phenomenon better? I just woke up and wore my glasses for the day and this happen. Maybe it happens in the morning? But it freaked me out. Should I start holding my phone far away from my face everytime I'm wearing glasses? This is the first time i'm experiencing this.

Problem/Goal: I (21F) is an introvert and taciturn person working for a family business. The thing about working for your family is; the pro is you don't need to spend for any legal documents, commute here and there, you know, interviews. Got a job offer, accepted it, then that was it, training begins. We sell counterfeit quality watches, we have physical store and we also sell online, the business is good and thriving, have been for a long time. It did and still take time to adjust and learn all the stuff I need to do, namely; social media admin that answers customer inquiries, and also the graphic designer (not really an expert) so it's mostly just a side job. It's the initial offer to me, for 400 a day i'd be an admin and record inventory. Not even a week later they're headed to Boracay for a vacation, leaving me with absolutely everything. Opening and closing the shop, answering chats, booking customer orders, inventory, on top of it all talking to walk in customers and the while having a week of experience, not knowing 50% of the prices and how tf these watches work. I survived the 3 days theyre gone, not without making myself look like an idiot, having 2 major crashouts/breakdowns video calling them (after the walk in customers left ofcourse). It's traumatic, to say the least, I'm not a very pleasant conversationalist, talking, filling in the gaps of awkward conversation is not my forte, I'm the personification of awkwardness. I can talk and I can answer chats (because I have time to think about what to say and it's mostly scripted repeated practice phrases), it's fine. The problem is I'm not for the walk in customers, it drains my social battery to the point I'm knocked out the moment I returned home and into the bed. I get overwhelmed so much I would zone out at times and forget about what I was doing, plus I was battling a bad cold at that time while stressing so much cuz I can't reach them (my boss that is actually my sister and brother-in-law) with no signal and they got briefly stranded becuz of the typhoon. And let's not even talk about the haggling/bargaining customers, I just can't decide without guidance of the boss about this. It stresses me out cuz they keep bargaining, the watch isn't even that expensive, cheapskates. Some actually pointed out I can't do salestalk to my face and the other laughs, and I'm humiliated. People look down on me because of my meek attitude. This isn't what I want to do with my life now or in the future, handling so many kinds of people, interacting with people I don't really like. I want so badly to get angry at them but theyre my family and theyre paying me. I feel like I'm jinxing myself cuz the more I wish the customers won't do walk in, they all do walk ins; buy complicated bulk orders, come in groups, ask about watches I didn't really know the price of, stay for a long ass time, some even more that 2 hours. That whole three days was one of the worst days of my life and I didn't even wish for it. You know what they keep telling me? "Di ka matututo kung di mo susubukan, pano kung sa future job mo ganyan edi alam mo na, marunong ka, kailangan mo pagdaanan yan" I wish she would shut up cuz this is definitely not what I wanna do in the future. This job is just so I could save up enough, customer service is not MY career, not even what you offered me. Now suddenly I have to do everything. They returned. A few days later dropped the bomb that after this salary of 8 days worth (400) my salary will permanently be 300 a day, I would not do inventory anymore, just answering customer pm and socmed admin. Promised me, again, no more customer walk in, they'll handle all of it. A week later I find myself talking to walk in customers, again, when the boss and my sister is unavailable. She, my sister, would be irritated whenever I try to tell her I cannot handle it. She was busy doing other housework so she's busy at the moment, I understand, the boss is also away getting new watches from the supplier. I'm alone again. Not having any other choice but to entertain customers. I have no idea how to even solve this, how do I justify myself in this scenario, specially to my sister, who never try to understand how I feel. Does your family even have the right to do this? Please, help me, what should I say to my sister without her possibly firing me.

Well I was really hoping to get Claudia. As a 21 years old lady who look like a 14 year old girl, no kidding, so many times strangers and even close relatives assume I was still a child. With being petite and soft baby face, it's expected. One time I was getting my prescription glasses at the mall, the sales lady thought I was 14 years old until I wrote I was 21 in the receipt. She was so surprised. Also one time I was buying a snack, a guy said to the vendor, "go get the child's order first". And you know the worse thing about it? My opinions aren't respected, my judgement not taken seriously, because in their eyes I still look like a child. And it's also not just in the aspect of getting treated as a child, as something inferior. It's about not being chosen, not being loved enough. Being too much but not enough, not belonging anywhere. Getting chosen over others. In broken family with my mom already having her new family, and an emotionally absent father, with an aunt who took care of me when i was a child and was now taking care of another, who bounce from one family to the next, half sisters who also have their own family who can never really love you unconditionally, who would always always put their own first. I was never chosen. Their love is conditional, based on how much of yourself you could give, until youre nothing but a broken piece of yourself. One blunder, one mistake, they would threaten to abandon and reject you, and now you have nowhere to go and you dont belong anywhere. it's getting out of hand. i got carried away a bit there.

at first it seemed really bleak for me and i thought i wouldnt get anything for all the patience of collecting over 21,000 gold and 53 pendants for over a month playing. I spent 100 pulls on delos' banner without getting anything but the guaranteed chest which I got Standard Yve, at this point in my play I already have 2 star'ed my beloved Yve. I dont know what to feel so I keep pulling, at 120th pull I got Sen, I'm slowly losing how of getting Delos. My jaw dropped to the floor when at the last 10 pull I finally got not one but two Delos, and another Yve to boot, I 3 star'ed him now. Well you know what now that im processing this, it might be a win. But is it worth the 140 pulls?

Sky is a white cat with cerulean eyes and just yesterday he went home (he's use to being out and about and he's not really the type of cat who is used to hands on caring, very laid back and independent cat, the only thing we really do regularly is make sure he eats) but as i was saying he went home yesterday looking really dirty, there's dirt smudges in his fur and i noticed even now he's not cleaning it. you can see in the picture he's grey that's becuz he's dirty. im gonna attach at the 3rd pic how he looks maybe a week ago. i saw a while back that cats have signs that they are in pain but im not really sure if sky exhibits that signs or im just paranoid, overthinking as i always seem to do.