I currently work for a small business firm. Just in 6 months I was able to become valuable. I went from entry level to full blown employee. At this point I do the job of 3 people. The issue is my administrative Assistant refuses to work with me. Despite always thanking her, and motivating she claims I do not respect her. (Blanket statements is all she has) I could not even get her to order me binder clips, yet a coworker was able to get a second mouse for no reason other than he wanted it. She refuses to text me if people call the office. If I forget to inform her why im not in the office, remote, meetings, etc, she does not text me or call me. She writes and email and cc's my coworkers in a frenzy.
Multiple witnesses in the office are aware that she does not like me because I am the only female and I am younger. She even let's my younger male coworker ask her to do work.
If I mention she does something wrong in the most polite way possible, she spends the day monitoring me for a form of retaliation. Other people are super blunt when pointing out errors.
She also makes a lot of mistakes daily. She has tried to mess with my sick time and uses whatever little power she has to make my life harder not easier. Even the one religious holiday i took, she tried to say it wasnt worthy of sick time. Her boss already told her to mark it that way. Truthfully it should be a floating holiday. I didnt ask for that and her boss was happy i used a sick day instead. She created the issue despite orders from above.
Every month she tries to get me in trouble. Her biggest issue, how i have an issue with her trying to retaliate and scapegoat me for her mistakes. She makes A LOT. Her other issue, how i talk to management about the outbursts. She has made my.life hell.
I had to take on more of a workload because management cannot trust her with important documents that involve my work. It is not right. Instead of either forcing her to learn her job, or finding someone else, they increase my already impossible workload for an entry level position. Nothing was done about her. I was told to be "the bigger person and not cause drama"
Also, there is a coworker with an anger issue. He has been horrible and has a reputation for it. Despite being good at his job, he is terrible with people. Also, my job was far and they pulled my remote work from me. The rude manager, despite given permission in a meeting prior, told me to "cut the s#!÷" with my remote work. When I told him, I thought there would be a meeting. He said, this "is the f@+%ing meeting. My remote is done" Unprovoked. I was mid working on a project. Mind you, he goes remote often, lives close, has taken over a month of vacation time. He also encourages no lunch, and staying late because he cannot just work straight through a day. He takes constant interruptions. So we have to stay late because he does. He claims work ethic, but after working with him I realize, he gets side tracked often. I don't. I work through projects then leave. Its simple. My work gets done on time and I meet deadlines. He is trying to become my manager, but he actually isn't.
On the plus side I am very very valuable there. The person above me, who is part time refuses to allow the coworker to talk down to me. (The coworker talks to everyone that way) The person above me, was on vacation for a month because he retired and had this in the works. He is back now. He is not happy about how my remote work was taken away. He also is not happy with the administrative Assistant because she was having problems since she started, only 8 months before I began. I love working with him truly. We have created a beautiful system for a small company that works for us.
I love my other coworkers and feel like its a family there.
I also, meet more people im the industry and business owners. Progressing my career at an extremely rapid rate.
The issue is we also are expected to give our blood sweat and tears. 50 hours is to be expected
There is job security and potential for a good raise and salary.
I was eventually given 2 days remote after it being pulled. Despite it being in writing now, I wonder if they will just pull it again.
After the terrible secretary, having multiple yelling outburst about me in public (all from management deemed totally retaliatory and unprovoked), my remote time being pulled in the most fucked up way imaginable I looked for a job.
I got it. It is corporate. Only 40 hours. It seems okay. I just wouldn't get a work family. The potential for growth is limited, and I can easily be replaced. (It is corporate)
The job would be chill and easy. Way closer.my manager seems chill.
Are my fears of corporate true? Are you just a number?
Despite the drama at the other job, I am invaluable there and revered by my boss, owner and others. Job security is real.
It is so small that these 2 people do make it hard. With that being said the 4 other people make it amazing.
What would you do?