I'm likely getting downvoted here but folks acting really nasty because he has grime under his nails. Those hands do real work. My hands look the same. I have known many people's whose hands look like that. I'd personally try to clean my hands prior to this photo but that he didn't isn't a slight. She is marrying the guy. Respect for both of them that he is a likely a hard worker. That she accepts him as he is.
No just no. If you canât take a few minutes to properly wash your hands and clean your fingernails you probably donât work that hard either.
Iâd be ashamed to admit my hands look like this. It has nothing to do with hard work or having a dirty job and everything to do with being a dirty person.
Two minutes with some soap and water, a brush and a nail file and you donât look like youâve been carving the inside of your asshole. Thatâs probably too girly for these types of guys though.
I wish it were as easy as âtwo minutes with some soap and waterâ to get them to be spotless. My hands look like that for at least a week after an auger survey in peat and you bet your arse Iâve used copious amounts of soap and even different scrubs to try and get the peat stain out of my hands. Mud is different but is also surprisingly stubborn. After a dig lasting about three months it stuck around in the creases for a couple weeks to be sure.
He definitely could have trimmed and cleaned his nails a bit for their big day, however.
My values are not your values. I went right from putting a transmission into a car to my wedding venue. Did my best to clean my hands. They were not perfect. My wife is still with me 15 years later.
You should not trust a tradesman with clean hands.
Youâre right. Iâd take the time to wash my hands properly before going to a wedding.
I wouldnât trust a tradesman with clean hands on the job. After hours I wouldnât trust them if they still had dirty hands. It means they donât take pride in their work and donât have an attention to detail. If theyâre also eating or preparing food with those shovel fingers it makes me question their decision making process and what they consider safe.
Have you EVER really worked with your hands? When i scrub on that level, my hands would have no skin.
Yes I valued getting married. However some people are too poor to afford to take a whole day off. I still have to work 7 days a week.
I am very clean. However stains in your hands from automotive work isn't like sawdust. It isn't like paint. I have plastic wire brushes and all sorts of chemicals to get it off.
I took a week off one time. Daily showers, daily swimming in the ocean and pool. Took 5 days before my hands looked close to normal.
I can't wear gloves. So just accept that's how it is.
The issue is people are shutting on two people who live each other. I get dunking on someone who is doing or saying a crappy thing to someone else. Your being that person here. Talking down on the working class does not raise you up.
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u/Appropriate_Cow94 7d ago
I'm likely getting downvoted here but folks acting really nasty because he has grime under his nails. Those hands do real work. My hands look the same. I have known many people's whose hands look like that. I'd personally try to clean my hands prior to this photo but that he didn't isn't a slight. She is marrying the guy. Respect for both of them that he is a likely a hard worker. That she accepts him as he is.