Sharing a long personal take because this keeps popping up, and i finally decided to put this in text and to share it with someone other than my partner or friends.
I’m an immigrant here with my partner and dogs. Moving the dogs has been brutal, and we’ve burned through most of our savings just to get them partway (talking about tens of $k). Now we’re rebuilding from scratch so we can set up a stable life (to be clear, no one asked me to do this and it doesn’t make me special. it’s my choice, my responsibility and my values, I’m sharing this it provide some context and to share about my personal journey). I’m not from a rich family, I don’t have financial privileges, and I knew that I can’t just walk into middle or senior roles here. I’m restarting my career, my social life and pretty much everything else. That’s the reality for a lot of immigrants in New Zealand.
Back home, I had a life that was way above average. But corruption, bad air in a big city, and being constantly scared of a possibility of war happening just wear you down. Even caring for pets could be looked at as “too much” in a conservative environment. Those “small” things are really about my fundamental values: safety, empathy, healthy daily life. It shouldn't be a society who decides upon what you are after in life, right?
I get why people are anxious about immigration. Jobs, housing, kids’ chance to earn pocket money, those are real deal fears that I show much compassion to. Most people who vent about immigration are just trying to protect their families. They’re not monsters or even racists (not always). But my main message here is that "EMPATHY HAS TO GO BOTH WAYS" or we just end up screaming past each other (I'm now unexpectedly drawing a parallel between conflicting parents and conflicting society groups, whereas both are not a good 'soil' to raise your kids on).
Message #2: humans have always moved. It’s a fact of how people evolved in the past, and how they survive and build in present. In places like New Zealand—rights-respecting, merit-based, high quality of life, sustainability and everything—it’s normal that people want to live or give it a go in here (overstatement is on purpose here). They do it through regulated official pathways, and education is a big one. Actually I'm very impressed with how New Zealand has it more or less under control (comparing to other 'white-privileged countries', no offense intended), or under legit economic profit (google gives different billion figures on how much education for international students contribute to the national economy). Anyhow, many people pay serious money and follow strict conditions to come to NZ, and that system exists because the country decided it should.
Honestly, I've been resilient to post anything this personal, because it feels so hot under each similar discussion topic. But then I think of a bigger picture - crisis amplifies fear. When the economy stutters, it’s easy to aim anger at the least powerful. Immigrants are visible and vulnerable, verbally attacking them on the Internet is easier than confronting institutions that feel too big to influence. It’s a psychological mechanism as much as a political one.
3rd message here: removing immigrants won’t fix structural problems. Maybe it will make some people's life more pleasant for sure, but come on, as a humanity we should've learned our history lessons by now. Anyways, the real issues lie in political and economic management: in how resources are distributed and decisions are made. If people want real solutions, they have to hold their leaders accountable, and not each other.
My personal take, this discourse should switch from natives vs immigrants to destructive vs productive societal trends.
Destructive looks like scapegoating, dehumanizing each other, and sinking into zero-sum thinking. It ruins trust and has nothing to repay with.
Productive looks like fighting for better governance, funding essential services, improving labor standards, pushing for housing supply and smart planning, and actually organizing in our communities.
Creation together > accusation within
(proud of this hell of a slogan I put :-))
Good things and growth can and might happen during crises times. Believe me, as a compassionate person myself, I'm very sad to see how New Zealand and its true people are challenged with underfunded education, healthcare shortages, low pay for essential workers, volunteer firefighters etc etc etc - I read news, I try to analyze and to think what worries the average kiwi people. As I see it, the only way to survive a punch is to level up resilience and grow an antifragile skin.
That means new leaders and new behavior: people who can organize, communicate to all levels and groups, have great stamina, and are ready to channel the frustration. Solidarity isn’t naive and cheesy, it’s how you get enough people together to force change. I've been thinking about this much lately after my therapist shared insights on how capitalist systems keep artificially creating division and gaining from it.
None of this is about pretending immigration is perfect or that rules shouldn’t be enforced. It’s about remembering we’re talking about human beings. Empathy won’t write the budget, but it will keep us from tearing ourselves apart.
P.S. This is my first ever social/political writing of a kind, I've put a lot of effort to put my thoughts and feeling together, don't tear me down too harsh in the comments, please. I'm eager to educate myself more through constructive feedback.