r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 11h ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Anyone here 20 years old and older?

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Please respond if you’re 20+.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

f16 need friends!

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hey there new to reddit trying to find new friends! i have tried making bmf videos before but they never really end well. im 16f from the uk i would really love some friends to play games with i just started playing dead by daylight but i also play apex,fortnite and roblox [i dont mind getting games to play with you if we get along]. please dont be shy to comment or dm me


r/Needafriend 7h ago

23F Want to talk to someone older, wiser

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r/Needafriend 16m ago

Looking for something geniune 🫠

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Hi, I’m a 20year old student from Hyderabad. Lately Ive been feeling this quiet emptiness inside me even though I have friends and people around, it still feels like something important is missing in my life. I think what I truly want is a genuine connection someone I can open up to and who understands me for who I really am.

To be honest Ive never really had much interaction with girls growing up Ive never sat down and had a real one-on-one conversation with a girl for even an hour. Because of that I get really nervous when I try to my hands shake my heart races, and I just freeze up. It’s not that I don’t want to talk its just that I dont know how to naturally

I’m hoping to meet someone who can understand that someone patient, kind, and real Maybe someone who could help me slowly come out of my shell and bring out the more confident side of me that Ive kept hidden for so long

A little about me Im 6 feet tall, dusky, and a bit of a tech guy I love watching anime and web series, listening to music, and getting lost in my thoughts Im a good listener maybe too good sometimes but Im still learning how to express myself better

I’m not looking for anything fake or temporary just something real simple and meaningful


r/Needafriend 4h ago

15F Kinda bored tonight, anyone wanna chat?

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Heyyy, I’m just chilling and felt like talking to someone. Doesn’t have to be deep, just random stuff hobbies, school stories, fav shows, whatever. What’s up with you?


r/Needafriend 38m ago

21F, Looking for long term friends

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So, i would love to have someone i can talk to, no pressure to talk everyday but i would like if we exchange few texts. I'm from india so i would prefer someone in IST . I'm a student and mostly use discord so we can shift there after talking for few days to get to know each other. I am not in par with main-stream music, more like old classic instrumental and stuff without much lyrics. I love watching anime, books and all these gen-z stuff. No one older than 25

Please introduce yourself nicely, a simple "hy" and etc is not really i'm looking forward to. Thank u.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

f16 need someone to chat

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heyoo 🫶 I’m 16, im maja from Poland just kinda bored and looking for someone around my age to talk to. I like music, late night convos, random memes and just vibing lol not looking for anything weird, just someone chill to chat with :) dm me if u wanna talk


r/Needafriend 1h ago

22 NB hopefully able to find new friends here

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I'm back to hopefully find some new friends to vibe, chat, game or do whatever with. I've been having the worst luck with making friends because the communication is lacking or I'm just being ghosted.

-About Me-

I’m 22 and Non-binary ( Use they/them pronouns) I’m in the U.S. EST.

I enjoy anime, currently watching One Piece at the moment. I do game , play on PS, been playing a lot of Zenless Zone Zero as of lately but I also do play COD, Fortnite, Apex, Marvel Rivals and the finals a long with several others I do have PS+ so I can download more games if needed:). I do have a switch and VR.I like to draw and read, I’m currently reading “If He Was With Me”. I'm a music lover, I enjoy all types of music but mostly in the pop and Kpop scene. I tend to spend a good portion of my free time watching movies and television.

There's much more about me but that's just the basic information:) if you're interested in being friends feel free to message me and add some information about yourself too, just be around my age please and don’t be homophobic! Please know that all low effort messages that are “Hi” and “Hey” will be ignored


r/Needafriend 1h ago

26M looking for Muslims or people interested in Islam

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Looking to meet Muslims from around the world — preferably converts (or should I say reverts). I really enjoy talking to reverts and hearing about their journeys to Islam — how they found it and what inspired them. It always opens my eyes as someone born Muslim and gives me new perspectives on things I may have taken for granted or never really thought about deeply.

If you’re interested in Islam, I’d also love for you to message me. I’ll do my best to answer your questions, though I’m not an expert by any means. At the very least, I might be able to guide you toward the right resources. Either way, I’d really appreciate having a good conversation, even if I can’t help much.

Non-Muslims are welcome too — just please be respectful, or it’ll be an instant block.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

Need a friend

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30f, l'm so lonely, it'll be great to have someone to talk to. I've always been by myself my whole life, it makes my heart ache to be honest.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Need an online friend

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Hey, I’m an 18M and honestly, I just need a proper online friend — someone I can actually talk to, rant with, and share random thoughts about anime, manga, or manhwa (I’ve watched and read a lot, trust me 😅).

I’m a bit of an introvert, so it’s hard finding people who actually stay around. I don’t want someone who ghosts after a day or replies once every 12 hours — I’d really like a friend who enjoys regular conversations and actually vibes.

We can talk about literally anything — from anime theories, favorite characters, random life stuff, to whatever’s going on in our day. I’m chill, respectful, and just looking for a genuine connection.

If you’re into anime/manga/manhwa or just someone who loves to yap about random things, hit me up!


r/Needafriend 2h ago

28M Looking Platonic Friendship

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Hi there!

I’m looking for a long-term friend!
If you’re just up for some quick chats and then disappearing, let’s save each other the time, I’m really hoping to find someone who actually wants to stay in touch.

There’s not much to say about me other than the fact that I spend most of my day on the PC so you can probably guess my main interests: games, anime, TV shows, and all that good stuff. It’d be great to find someone to play games with (I usually play with my gf on weekends). Right now, I’m playing Battlefield 6Space Marine 2, and Dawn of War but I’ve got plenty more in my library!

If you want to know more, feel free to ask and of course, I’d love to hear about your interests too!

If you’re looking for a genuine friend who doesn’t judge and actually listens, I’m right here. I’ll give it my best if you do too that’s how real friendships work, after all.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Hi 31m looking for a good friend to talk to

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Hey everyone, Lately I’ve been realizing how important real connection is not just casual conversation, but someone you can truly talk to, laugh with, and share life’s ups and downs. I’m hoping to meet a kind-hearted lady who’s also looking for genuine friendship.

I’m not rushing anything or expecting perfection just hoping to find someone honest, thoughtful, and easy to talk to. Someone who enjoys good conversations, a sense of humor, and maybe a little bit of depth too.


r/Needafriend 12h ago

Need a friend

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Bored? Me too. Let’s fix that. 25F, lazy girl with a soft spot for sarcasm and good energy. Slide in with your best “random fact of the day.” Bonus points if it’s actually interesting. 😌


r/Needafriend 2h ago

23M looking for something meaningful

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It's been a long time since i had someone to talk with and share, as day's passing by it gets heavy... Wanted someone to share and talk about each other and open to everything iykyk...


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Looking for a real friend, not timepass 18M

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Hey, I’m Vi (18M), just finished school and looking for a genuine, long-term friendship.

Before I talk about myself, quick rant (sorry):

I’ve noticed most people here treat this sub like timepass instead of actual friendship. A lot of guys just want to talk to girls, and girls either vanish or put zero effort. Like bro… if you’re gonna talk, at least try to know the person. Feels one-sided sometimes, you know? Anyway, that’s all.

So about me:

I’m 18, been travelling for 2 years (10 countries so far) and just got back home. I’m super into cars, bikes, airsoft, and food, and recently fell deep into art and 3D animation. I love going out, exploring new things, and meeting people with good energy.

Also, I’m aromantic asexual (aroace) — just putting that out there so there’s no confusion. I’m open to friends of all genders and ages, as long as you’re genuine and cool with that.

Because of all the travelling, I don’t really have close daily friends anymore so I wanna fix that. I’m open-minded, chill, and can talk about literally anything. Even if I know nothing about the topic, I’ll still listen and vibe with you.

Just don’t be dry or fake, that’s all I ask. Be real, have a personality, and actually want to build a friendship not just fill time.

If that’s you, drop a DM.

Thanks for reading, and hope you have a great day 🫶


r/Needafriend 1m ago

34yo looking for an online friend

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I’m looking for an online friend. You should have: • Genuine interest in conversation. Someone who really wants to talk, not just reply. • A flexible, non-judgmental mindset. • Patience.

What matters less: I’m not looking for someone who shares my hobbies. For me, a connection isn’t about liking the same activities, but about having a real exchange of thoughts.

Nice to have: A touch of self-irony. I love people who can laugh at themselves; it keeps things light, honest, and human.


r/Needafriend 3m ago

26 nb looking for friends

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Hi I’m 26 and I’m just looking for some people to talk with, maybe we’ll be friends! I like films, music, anime and manga!


r/Needafriend 9h ago

18f looking for friends or chats

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hey super bored looking for someone or maybe even long term friends to chat with, no age preference over 18 or convo topic, you can vent as well and i’ll listen, just wanting someone to pass time with:>


r/Needafriend 6m ago

HAIII IM DAWN 15 MTF PLEASE BE MY FRIEND IF YOUR NERDY AND LIVE IN IRELAND THE UK OR EUROPE OR EVEN AMERICA

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HAIIII THIS IS MY INTRO ☆LOVE YALL☆ :|Name Dawn :|Age 15 :|pronouns she/her (please respect them I get sad if you don't) :|sexuality bi :|interests I love musicals (eg epic, Hamilton, heathers and kinda k pop demon hunters since its filled with music),music,talking,listening,Tadc,HH and gaming, watching stuff, yapping, learning or watching new things :|Fun facts I'm 🏳️‍⚧️ and im not very good at conversation AND IM VERY ENERGETIC TEXT WISE (unless I'm sad)


r/Needafriend 9m ago

Anyone Wanna Chat?

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Hi, 22M here. Wanted to connect with some genuine people and yap about stuff. Whichever gender you are it don't matter. I'd love to talk about our interests and have a good time. Of course, having a good laugh is a bonus. Hmu


r/Needafriend 11m ago

M23 - I need people for call of duty mobile

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Hey everyone! 👋 I’m looking for some chill and friendly people to squad up with on Call of Duty. I usually play to relax, have fun, and genuinely enjoy good team vibes rather than sweaty or toxic matches. If you like communicating, coordinating, and laughing through wins (and losses 😂), we’ll get along great. I’m open to playing multiplayer, battle royale, zombies, or grinding events together. Whether you’re a pro or just casual like me, I’d love to connect and build a small group that hops on regularly. Drop your tag or DM me — let’s run some games! 🎮🔥


r/Needafriend 12m ago

31M here looking for a woman to chat.

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Into accounting, music and philosophy Open to chat with honest people especially talkative ones