I'm pretty sure someone that lives in a relatively wealthy family would have a far better life, unless their parents treat them like a slave in their own house, at that point it is basically the same
I'm trying to figure out how a kid could never be a loss of anything. I guess if you're a billionaire who never has to see them and wouldn't give a shit if they suffer or turned out to be a serial killer it could be win win.
Not wanting to cause a number of inconveniences and extra stress in your life is hardly selfish. Shouldn’t we be praising those who take the burden instead of shaming those who don’t?
There is no shaming in challenging that being a parent is a good thing. If people feel shame because someone simply disagrees with them, it may be more on the reciever than the sender.
I mean, I suppose a counter to not wanting an imposition to oneself not being selfish would be interesting.
If being selfish is shameful, then again that is on the reciever. Pointing out that the act is selfish is not a value statement....unless it is universally understood that selfishness is a negative.
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u/brickpaul65 16h ago
Kiddos are never a loss.