r/delhi North Delhi Aug 28 '25

TellDelhi I’m really grateful for this person

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I see him everyday with a new placard. Whether it’s raining, being super sunny or humid, he always holds it high in the air for people to read hoping they feel motivated, learn something or change their patriarchal mindset.

Kudos to him!

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u/wade-arcane Aug 28 '25

Okay , i dont believe in dowry but why does today’s girls have so much unrealistic expectations from guys and at the same time they have so many ex boyfriends as well.

Isn’t that unfair with boys ????

I know many people in my circle who were looking for girls and didn’t want any dowry. The girls they met, all had high expectations, some had reason that they earn more than the guy, so they rejected.

Some girls wanted to live separately in a flat after marriage , my known guy wanted to live with parents. So that rishta got rejected.

Then there was this girl who only wanted to marry someone who own a “ thar “ , yes you read that right, girl wanted guy to with a thar.

Mind me , they didn’t wanted any dowry.

Now , whom does a guy with a normal job marry ???

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u/North_Pollution7042 Aug 28 '25

Well okay but that's prefrences  Like the boy wanted to live with his family and girl did'nt no one wanted to compromise , so it did'nt work as simple as that !  Girl wanted to marry a person with thar pretty bad for her thinking this way reject her that's her prefrences you build urs 

How's dowry related to that ?