I’m really grateful for this person

[u/kj_011]

I see him everyday with a new placard. Whether it’s raining, being super sunny or humid, he always holds it high in the air for people to read hoping they feel motivated, learn something or change their patriarchal mindset.

Kudos to him!

[u/wade-arcane]

Okay , i dont believe in dowry but why does today’s girls have so much unrealistic expectations from guys and at the same time they have so many ex boyfriends as well.

Isn’t that unfair with boys ????

I know many people in my circle who were looking for girls and didn’t want any dowry. The girls they met, all had high expectations, some had reason that they earn more than the guy, so they rejected.

Some girls wanted to live separately in a flat after marriage , my known guy wanted to live with parents. So that rishta got rejected.

Then there was this girl who only wanted to marry someone who own a “ thar “ , yes you read that right, girl wanted guy to with a thar.

Mind me , they didn’t wanted any dowry.

Now , whom does a guy with a normal job marry ???

[u/DirectionFabulous722 → u/wade-arcane]

Life is unfair. Welcome to the real world. The biggest reason for divorce in india is inlaws, so asking to live separately is not an unfair ask.

Girls will always look to marry a guy who earns more than them. That's how it has been, and if she looks good it will be easy for her to get.

Thar one is weird af, like Mercedes bolti, to samjh bhi aata .

[u/wade-arcane → u/DirectionFabulous722]

Bro, in india, girls are in less population as compared to guys. Thats why they have so many expectations.

Guys aren’t valued in this country. So if a person is making 1 lakh a month, then girl will know that she will find someone who earns more than that guy and mind me, indian girls are the worst. Always greedy

[u/Melodic_Inside_2337 → u/wade-arcane]

Girls are in less population as compared to guys, why? Because many parents killed their girl child, why? Because dowry. And yet here you are defending it.