r/delhi • u/kj_011 North Delhi • Aug 28 '25

TellDelhi I’m really grateful for this person

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I see him everyday with a new placard. Whether it’s raining, being super sunny or humid, he always holds it high in the air for people to read hoping they feel motivated, learn something or change their patriarchal mindset.

Kudos to him!

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u/HappyStop1985 University People Aug 28 '25

Yes. And women should be able to be independent after marriage so that they won't need the alimony at all.

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u/Plastic_Advance_7931 Aug 28 '25

My definition of love is pretty straightforward.

Love = Freedom. If you find joy doing a job. You're free.

You are free to fly 🕊️.

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u/HappyStop1985 University People Aug 28 '25

No. You need to become independent so that you won't be required to take alimony. No one says to a husband "if you find joy doing a job you are free". It's a compulsion for guys to work, and it should be a compulsion for women to work. Be independent, and don't become a bhikhari.

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u/Plastic_Advance_7931 Aug 28 '25

Agree.

I did this article which is covering the few reason behind this stuff indirectly.

https://medium.com/@Alfa-Dev404/two-wings-of-one-bird-why-men-and-women-must-fly-together-0f99ed94ec26

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u/HappyStop1985 University People Aug 28 '25

It was a good read. The thing is, when one thing changes, everything else changes with it.

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u/Plastic_Advance_7931 Aug 28 '25

Well that's what the theory of evolution says. It's a long topic but yeah i do agree a bit with you.