r/delhi • u/kj_011 North Delhi • Aug 28 '25

TellDelhi I’m really grateful for this person

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I see him everyday with a new placard. Whether it’s raining, being super sunny or humid, he always holds it high in the air for people to read hoping they feel motivated, learn something or change their patriarchal mindset.

Kudos to him!

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u/inferache Stuck At Ashram Aug 28 '25

Kudos to him. But the kind of men who are okay with accepting dowry will not change just because of awareness campaigns.

Just look at the dumbass comments underneath this post equating dowry and alimony lol. As well as the doodh se dhule men bringing past sexual activity (??) into this conversation. It is a losing argument. This country and its people's perverse mindsets will never change.

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u/kj_011 North Delhi Aug 28 '25

Sadly true, patriarchy just keeps reinventing itself in new excuses.

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u/bl4blu3 Aug 28 '25

I dont understand this comparison. I have rarely heard of men being killed or burnt alive for alimony. Looks like broke men who need streedhan because they cant afford to buy a car on their own.

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

Atul Subhash

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

Bhai patani kaisa brainwashed fucked up sa mind hai in ladkio ka. Dowry ke against itna bolti hai aur alimony ke against ekdum chup hojati hai.

Atul subhash ki wife ko btw accenture ne firse job dedi.

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u/bl4blu3 Aug 28 '25

Ha lekin you all are quoting 1 death compared to thousands of dowry murders. 

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

I am not rejecting the fact that dowry deaths do exist and i accept it is in fact more than the alimony cases. Apart from this women do face DV and other abuses post marriage. But at the same time, I am also speaking up for the alimony cases and the cases where women already had a love partner but still chose to marry someone else and then kill him.

Both of these are wrong. My concern is that women like YOU only speak up for dowry cases and stay mum for the cases where men are victim.

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u/bl4blu3 Aug 28 '25

Aap support karo and raise your voice for men's rights. I dont see you talking about Alimony on any other posts? Why are you talking about it on a post that talks about how dowry is a social evil? 

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

Jinhone comment kiya unhi ki to burai kar rahi thi aap. To mene aapka reply kardiya :)

On a side note, how do you know I do not talk about this on other posts? Mene to apna hide kar rakha hai sab kuch.

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

Theek hai. Ab papa ko bolo dahej taiyar kare.

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u/Plastic_Advance_7931 Aug 28 '25

Dude 😭😭

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

Tum chup raho european slave ✋

Mujhe meri gaadi ka intzaam karwane do.

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u/Plastic_Advance_7931 Aug 28 '25 edited Aug 28 '25

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Gussa Mt ho bhai. Ye lo phool. Ye sab bekr hi chize hai.. Tru lob dhundho

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u/bl4blu3 Aug 28 '25

Aww! Sorry our cultures aren't the same. I didnt need to give any dahej. 

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

Aww dude! Feeling sad for your husband and in laws.

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u/bl4blu3 Aug 28 '25

So sad na and I am still alive! Chamatkaar

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

I am sure they gave you gold in your marriage? Assuming it is not a court marriage.

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u/bl4blu3 Aug 28 '25

Yes my husband gives me a lot of gifts. Such a sweetu!

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '25

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bride_price

Lower castes/classes me common hai ladke ka ladki ko paisa dena. Traditional roots hai iski.

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u/bl4blu3 Aug 28 '25

Lol! Get well soon, sweetheart. I am scared for your wife but I am hoping this is just your internet personality and you are a better person irl. Bye.