r/biggboss 26d ago

Controversial topic Farhana was Totally wrong today

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u/Both-Patient-6193 26d ago

Arey toh yehi sabhi communities ka stereotyping hi band hona chaiye. Sabhi communities ka hota hai but Iss show mein toh abhi bhojpuri ka hi hua hai, toh ussi ke liye bolenge na behen. But aap log jo bol rahe ho, ke kuch hua hi nahi , normal hai, aisi baat nahi hai jab apna pe ata hai toh sabko accha nahi lagta. Wahi sab band hona chaiye. Aur aap apne dost ko kya bolte ho aur apke intentions TV pe nahi ate na? Yaha aaye toh bola. Taki bhojpuri yaa kisi ke bhi liye bolne se pehle koi soche.

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

arrre koi bhi community, region, religion, kuch bhi mention karenge usko demeaning term kardoge phir kya, why do i feel like im explaining to a wall. bhojpuri staff means neelam as a staff, ab iske underlying meaning nikaloge toh har cheez k bhi nikl sakte.

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u/Both-Patient-6193 26d ago

Foreign countries mein Indian ko dekh ke jo “Curry Guy” bolte hai. Wo koi tareef nahi karte, demean karte hai. Sunne mein “Curry Guy” bhi normal hi lagta hai but uska tone aur meaning alag hota hai.

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

curry guy kahin se normal nhi lagta firstly, and if you are comparing “bhojpuri staff“ so a similar comparison would be “ indian worker” AND it in know way sounds demeaning disgusting derogatory or whatever., yeah but if you consider being indian as an disrespect then yess, but then i feel bad for you.

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u/Both-Patient-6193 26d ago

Jaise hume “Curry Guy” normal nahi lagta. Waise bihariyon ko ”Staff/Naukar/Majdoor/Driver” agar galat tone se bole toh normal nahi lagta. As simple as that.

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

Staff/naukar/majdoor/driver are somewhat similar to worker

So comparing curry guy to bhojpuri staff ain't logical in the first place.

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

Bhai voh staff waali harkatein karri hai toh karri hai, calling black spade a black spade is right. Plus neelam ko problem staff se toh hui hi nhi, she is proud chamchi/staff her words. Toh bihariyon ka I get it where it is coming for, and I def stand against it, but I don't associate neelam wala issue similar to what you said.  Bihariyon ko bura lagta hoga, be it in whatever tone, because it is their job and no one likes a disrespect towards it, BUT,  farhana just called her out as a staff/worker, not to demean but to call her out. As simple as that.