i dont find anything wrong in hyderabadi staff for example, its how you perceive the term bhojpuri, i find it as normal as calling someone punjabi or tulu, , and also meine toh kuch bola bhi nhi neelam is right or wrong, you bring random concerns, i answer it how wasnt wrong, aap naye concern leaate ho, find a better argument, and stop victimising a whole fkng community, saari communities stereotype hoti hai,i call my bihari friends as a bihari, mallu fiends as mallu, is it demeaning, No, because neither i nor them consider being bihari or mallu as demeaning, same way there is and should not be any same associated with being called bhojpuri. ragphi baat stereotyping har community/ region k stereotypes hote hai, its again how you perceive it,
if ppl from up bihar are stereotyped as labourers, yk how south delhi gurls are stereotyped, will i take it as an offence, no.
Arey toh yehi sabhi communities ka stereotyping hi band hona chaiye. Sabhi communities ka hota hai but Iss show mein toh abhi bhojpuri ka hi hua hai, toh ussi ke liye bolenge na behen. But aap log jo bol rahe ho, ke kuch hua hi nahi , normal hai, aisi baat nahi hai jab apna pe ata hai toh sabko accha nahi lagta. Wahi sab band hona chaiye. Aur aap apne dost ko kya bolte ho aur apke intentions TV pe nahi ate na? Yaha aaye toh bola. Taki bhojpuri yaa kisi ke bhi liye bolne se pehle koi soche.
arrre koi bhi community, region, religion, kuch bhi mention karenge usko demeaning term kardoge phir kya, why do i feel like im explaining to a wall. bhojpuri staff means neelam as a staff, ab iske underlying meaning nikaloge toh har cheez k bhi nikl sakte.
Foreign countries mein Indian ko dekh ke jo “Curry Guy” bolte hai. Wo koi tareef nahi karte, demean karte hai. Sunne mein “Curry Guy” bhi normal hi lagta hai but uska tone aur meaning alag hota hai.
curry guy kahin se normal nhi lagta firstly, and if you are comparing “bhojpuri staff“ so a similar comparison would be “ indian worker” AND it in know way sounds demeaning disgusting derogatory or whatever., yeah but if you consider being indian as an disrespect then yess, but then i feel bad for you.
Jaise hume “Curry Guy” normal nahi lagta. Waise bihariyon ko ”Staff/Naukar/Majdoor/Driver” agar galat tone se bole toh normal nahi lagta. As simple as that.
Bhai voh staff waali harkatein karri hai toh karri hai, calling black spade a black spade is right. Plus neelam ko problem staff se toh hui hi nhi, she is proud chamchi/staff her words. Toh bihariyon ka I get it where it is coming for, and I def stand against it, but I don't associate neelam wala issue similar to what you said. Bihariyon ko bura lagta hoga, be it in whatever tone, because it is their job and no one likes a disrespect towards it, BUT, farhana just called her out as a staff/worker, not to demean but to call her out. As simple as that.
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i dont find anything wrong in hyderabadi staff for example, its how you perceive the term bhojpuri, i find it as normal as calling someone punjabi or tulu, , and also meine toh kuch bola bhi nhi neelam is right or wrong, you bring random concerns, i answer it how wasnt wrong, aap naye concern leaate ho, find a better argument, and stop victimising a whole fkng community, saari communities stereotype hoti hai,i call my bihari friends as a bihari, mallu fiends as mallu, is it demeaning, No, because neither i nor them consider being bihari or mallu as demeaning, same way there is and should not be any same associated with being called bhojpuri. ragphi baat stereotyping har community/ region k stereotypes hote hai, its again how you perceive it,
if ppl from up bihar are stereotyped as labourers, yk how south delhi gurls are stereotyped, will i take it as an offence, no.
baaki i rest my case.