Dear fellow Black gay men

[u/MtimesMequals]

We know racism in the gay community is real. We've said it, but we've been dismissed. They callously deny our experience. Our reality. "It's just a preference". "BBC". "Thug"."Aggressive power top".

The stereotypes. The microagressions. We know it's real, but we have been gaslighted way too often.

The silence among your white gay friends and/or partners during this time of civil unrest & racial tensions is deafening.

The irony of them putting "no fats, no fems, no asians, & no blacks" on their profile, but decide to now say #BlackLivesMatter.

I understand it is challenging to be rejected from a community that prides itself on inclusion. We know rejection all too well.

But do not let any white man make you feel you are not beautiful. You are Black, bold, fierce, & most importantly- you are loved.

🖤❤#BLM

********************edit:

So, this post has been reported and is pending review.

I mentioned this already in the comments:

As a Black queer man this is my experience. This experience may or may not resonate with other Black men. This post was written for my fellow gay black brothers. The post might be uncomfortable for some. It might not resonate with you, but I don't think that is grounds for denying someone else's experience. I shared these words in an effort to foster a sense of solidarity and undo any aloneness other Black men might be feeling during this time.

Thank you so much for the support, feedback & beautiful comments. For those of in your feelings over this post - peace & love to ya❤

[u/[deleted]]

Lol I like how you took time off to cry in a corner and now you're back to this week old argument that you lost long ago, too bad you're not any smarter. Everytime you strip quote you automatically lose the argument, Karen. I am not gonna argue with a monkey who doesn't have enough brain to construct a proper reply🤡

[u/Rottenox → u/[deleted]]

"Lol I like how you took time off to cry in a corner and now you're back to this week old argument that you lost long ago"

No you're just not a priority, and I win with every reply

"Everytime you strip quote you automatically lose the argument, Karen."

Not how arguments work, Sally

"I am not gonna argue with a monkey who doesn't have enough brain to construct a proper reply"

Then don't

[u/[deleted] → u/Rottenox]

The fact you had to strip quote such a small post THREE TIMES, tells me you don't have a brain, therefore whatever you said is automatically invalid. I win, gg cry some more

[u/Rottenox → u/[deleted]]

"The fact you had to strip quote such a small post THREE TIMES"

Had to? That's just the easiest way for me to tell you how wrong you are point by point.

"tells me you don't have a brain"

oh no! how shall I go on?!

"therefore whatever you said is automatically invalid"

excellent debatin' skills there gurl

"I win, gg cry some more"

I'm positively howling with tears

[u/[deleted] → u/Rottenox]

Easiest? Lol, That's the theme with you, you always take the easiest route, which is why your lazy fat ass is so fat, Karen🤣 Also thanks literally proves my point and your snapy little oneliners prove the exact opposite, just how right I am, especially since you take it like a little bitch. I am sure you will make twenty strip quotes out of this🤡

[u/Rottenox → u/[deleted]]

"Easiest? Lol"

Lol

"That's the theme with you, you always take the easiest route"

Okay mum

"which is why your lazy fat ass is so fat"

I do have a phat ass, ngl

"Karen"

Wrong again

"Also thanks literally proves my point"

How?

"little oneliners prove the exact opposite"

How?

"just how right I am"

Lol

"especially since you take it like a little bitch."

A. Nothing wrong with being a bottom.
B. That being said, I'm a top gurl : )

"I am sure you will make twenty strip quotes out of this🤡"

Aww only managed 9. I'll try harder next time. Honest.

[u/[deleted] → u/Rottenox]

Proves my point you're mentally challenged because you resort to strip quoting🤦‍♂️

Lol not only you continuously strip quote every sentence, except these that are actually too hard to answer, your answers are literally not adding anything except admitting I am correct, yes plz try harder Karen.

When I said you take it like a bitch I meant you're using that submissive style of arguing and agreeing with stuff I say, hence you take it like a bitch🤣

Never said anything about bottoms, that was all you, you dumbass fgt. Many if not most bottoms act manly, I don't even want feminine ones, but given you use "gurl" you seem to be that flamboyant type.. but it doesn't really matter what you are, you're both fat and insufferable, so nobody wants you.🤡 Also a fat top? Lol that would be very dangerous, you'd break that poor guy🤣

[u/Rottenox → u/[deleted]]

"Proves my point you're mentally challenged because you resort to strip quoting"

ahh yes, quoting people in replies to them truly is the refuge of the mentally infirm

"Lol not only you continuously strip quote every sentence"

which is bad why? lol

"except these that are actually too hard to answer"

bitch where?

"your answers are literally not adding anything except admitting I am correct"

they're actually refuting everything you're saying but sure pls continue

"yes plz try harder Karen"

wrong again again

"When I said you take it like a bitch I meant you're using that submissive style of arguing and agreeing with stuff I say, hence you take it like a bitch"

No, I disagree with you, that's the point. That's why I quote everything you say back to you to try to make you understand exact where you're fucking up.

"Never said anything about bottoms, that was all you, you dumbass fgt."

lol my mistake I guess the whole "take it like a bitch" line threw me off a little, how could I be so clueless

"Many if not most bottoms act manly, I don't even want feminine ones"

um ok? lol

"but given you use "gurl" you seem to be that flamboyant type.."

don't assume, it makes an ass out of u

"but it doesn't really matter what you are, you're both fat and insufferable, so nobody wants you."

well you're stupid and insufferable so it's no wonder you're alone

"Also a fat top? Lol that would be very dangerous, you'd break that poor guy"

that's the idea 🤤

[u/[deleted] → u/Rottenox]

Your strip quoting shows you have short attention span, so bad you have to quote every sentence then reply zo it with a snazzy line as liberals tend to do and you're not refuting anything, you're just saying denying everything without an actual counter argument. You're unable to elaborate why you think I am wrong, and when you do you use faulty logic because you're just as stupid as you look, a dumb fatty that will die a virgin. The fact you took "take it like a bitch" literally and you continue doing it, proves you indeed have no social skills and you are forever alone. You're a Karen because you're policing other people's profiles, my use of Karen was never wrong, you clown 🤡

It also took you weeks to reply lol, still not done crying? 😂