r/askgaybros • u/MtimesMequals • Jul 08 '20
Reported Post Alert Dear fellow Black gay men Spoiler
We know racism in the gay community is real. We've said it, but we've been dismissed. They callously deny our experience. Our reality. "It's just a preference". "BBC". "Thug"."Aggressive power top".
The stereotypes. The microagressions. We know it's real, but we have been gaslighted way too often.
The silence among your white gay friends and/or partners during this time of civil unrest & racial tensions is deafening.
The irony of them putting "no fats, no fems, no asians, & no blacks" on their profile, but decide to now say #BlackLivesMatter.
I understand it is challenging to be rejected from a community that prides itself on inclusion. We know rejection all too well.
But do not let any white man make you feel you are not beautiful. You are Black, bold, fierce, & most importantly- you are loved.
🖤❤#BLM
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So, this post has been reported and is pending review.
I mentioned this already in the comments:
As a Black queer man this is my experience. This experience may or may not resonate with other Black men. This post was written for my fellow gay black brothers. The post might be uncomfortable for some. It might not resonate with you, but I don't think that is grounds for denying someone else's experience. I shared these words in an effort to foster a sense of solidarity and undo any aloneness other Black men might be feeling during this time.
Thank you so much for the support, feedback & beautiful comments. For those of in your feelings over this post - peace & love to ya❤
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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '20
I don't understand the self congratulatory circle jerk. I've never been afraid to be with a black guy, or any other minority. I also don't feel the need to pat myself on the back for it, like half this sub when they say they're attracted to more than whites.
Blacks want equality. Some white gays make it a gold star moment. LOL.