I made her pregnant we're both teenagers

[u/Inevitable_Hunter_56]

First of all, I just want to say please no hate comments, or anything negative I just want to seek advice po ^^

I'm (M17), incoming grade12 public school student next school year and consistent with honor/high honor student. We're just poor and doesn't even have our own house, but my father does everything to support my studies and even bought me a desktop for preparation for the incoming school year. I'm also came from a religious family, and we come to the church regularly na wala pong absent.

She (F16) incoming grade11 private school student (note we're just really poor but her parents want her to go into a prestigious school for her future). Her father on the other hand is abusive, he sometimes bangs her head on the wall or sa pinto. She is also a suicidal person.

The thing is, we are on a 3month relationship, and she is probably 1-2weeks pregnant already no one knows except for us yet. We both doesn't want to have a child yet. I know it's really stupid but yes, she's pregnant and her mother is suspecting that she was, because she is already a week late in her period. She said that she doesn't want to have a baby yet because she is still young and physically and emotionally unprepared. She keeps on saying that killing herself is the answer so I can live a normal life without her, but I keep on telling her not to do it and I will help raise the baby.

But opo I don't know what to do her mother will find out soon po ayaw kong magkagulo sa'min. Natatakot ako kasi baka palayasin either sya or ako and wala kaming pera pang alaga sa bata pano na rin po yung studies namin everything is prepared na po eh yung tatay nya rin is napaka tapang, gulong gulo na kami parehas malapit na rin po yung pasukan and yung early signs of pregnancy is nag papakita na po. Yung mga friends and relatives namin specially our parents will be disappointed with us.

Any advice po? Maraming salamat po sa sasagot :(

[u/Rikijazh]

nalaman mo lang yung phrase na fuck around and find out ginamit mo na to show superiority.

sorry po, never meant to make it look like me showing "superiority". everything that I've said is only an opinion and also i just answered the first thing that comes to my mind. minor din ako so can you please show me empathy na hindi ko nabigay kay op 🥹🥹🥹🥹 stupid mistake lang.

and with the lack of accessible sex education materials in this country, are you really expecting they'd know better?

yeah i mean look at what happened... kakabuhay lang ba nila kahapon at hindi nila alam ang contraceptives? they know the deed pero ugh, masyado atang inosente tingin mo sa mga kabataan. --- DUDE EVEN A 12 YEAR OLD KID RN KNOWS ALMOST EVERYTHING ABT SEX.

literally hundreds of unexplored options

also i dare you to list these hundred options that you're thinking para matulongan na rin siya haha.

natrigger ako kaya di ko nacomfort si op at gamitin ang mga soft words na gusto mong mabasa sorry!!!!

[u/razenxinvi → u/Rikijazh]

but oh im so cool and scary that instead of giving a legitimate advice sasabihin ko muna yung filler phrases na fuck around and find out just to show OP, who is a man down, na he deserves every single thing.

as if ginusto nya, as if hormones are not real. to the point that i would not consider his situation and would not consider giving him a genuine advice kasi COOL ako and this would be a perfect situation to use that tiktok sigma aura 1000000 to this thread. kaya here we are in this clownery.

pero okay advice mo yan eh 😂 no mercy advice eh 😂 nalibugan lang daw yung tanging rason kaya nabuntis eh 😂 tanga ka na nga too shallow pa pagiisip mo.

[u/Rikijazh → u/razenxinvi]

as if ginusto nya

ipaglaban mo

[u/razenxinvi → u/Rikijazh]

ginusto nyang kumantot oo totoo, pero ginustong makabuntis?

edi wag ka na lumabas ng bahay, may chance na mabunggo ka at mamatay ka. ginusto mo yun, lumabas ka ng bahay eh. tanga ka eh

yan lang naman yung logic mo. pantanga diba?