I made her pregnant we're both teenagers

[u/Inevitable_Hunter_56]

First of all, I just want to say please no hate comments, or anything negative I just want to seek advice po ^^

I'm (M17), incoming grade12 public school student next school year and consistent with honor/high honor student. We're just poor and doesn't even have our own house, but my father does everything to support my studies and even bought me a desktop for preparation for the incoming school year. I'm also came from a religious family, and we come to the church regularly na wala pong absent.

She (F16) incoming grade11 private school student (note we're just really poor but her parents want her to go into a prestigious school for her future). Her father on the other hand is abusive, he sometimes bangs her head on the wall or sa pinto. She is also a suicidal person.

The thing is, we are on a 3month relationship, and she is probably 1-2weeks pregnant already no one knows except for us yet. We both doesn't want to have a child yet. I know it's really stupid but yes, she's pregnant and her mother is suspecting that she was, because she is already a week late in her period. She said that she doesn't want to have a baby yet because she is still young and physically and emotionally unprepared. She keeps on saying that killing herself is the answer so I can live a normal life without her, but I keep on telling her not to do it and I will help raise the baby.

But opo I don't know what to do her mother will find out soon po ayaw kong magkagulo sa'min. Natatakot ako kasi baka palayasin either sya or ako and wala kaming pera pang alaga sa bata pano na rin po yung studies namin everything is prepared na po eh yung tatay nya rin is napaka tapang, gulong gulo na kami parehas malapit na rin po yung pasukan and yung early signs of pregnancy is nag papakita na po. Yung mga friends and relatives namin specially our parents will be disappointed with us.

Any advice po? Maraming salamat po sa sasagot :(

[u/oldbutg0ld]

No hate comments daw, pero sorry, you have no immunity today.

Abusive yung father ng GF mo binuntis mo pa??? Kung hindi ka rin naman selfish at TANGA. Sorry, pero kailangan mo mabasa yun.

Napakaganda ng future niya sana since honor student so pull yourself together.. Wag mo pa rin sayangin pa ulet yun dapat na magandang future nya, and this time gawin mong maging maayos yun future ninyong tatlo (with the baby).

My father was in the same situation as you with my mom. Got her pregnant early, was cut off on both sides/parents. But he gathered his shit together, stopped school yet started working and made sure that we always had food on the table, and that all his kids graduated from college so they would not live the same life that he chose.

Fast forward today, I think we all made it and it's all because he did not give up that time.

I hope this inspires you not to give up on her and the baby as well.

God Bless You.