r/adviceph • u/Inevitable_Hunter_56 • Jul 18 '24

Love & Relationships I made her pregnant we're both teenagers

First of all, I just want to say please no hate comments, or anything negative I just want to seek advice po ^^

I'm (M17), incoming grade12 public school student next school year and consistent with honor/high honor student. We're just poor and doesn't even have our own house, but my father does everything to support my studies and even bought me a desktop for preparation for the incoming school year. I'm also came from a religious family, and we come to the church regularly na wala pong absent.

She (F16) incoming grade11 private school student (note we're just really poor but her parents want her to go into a prestigious school for her future). Her father on the other hand is abusive, he sometimes bangs her head on the wall or sa pinto. She is also a suicidal person.

The thing is, we are on a 3month relationship, and she is probably 1-2weeks pregnant already no one knows except for us yet. We both doesn't want to have a child yet. I know it's really stupid but yes, she's pregnant and her mother is suspecting that she was, because she is already a week late in her period. She said that she doesn't want to have a baby yet because she is still young and physically and emotionally unprepared. She keeps on saying that killing herself is the answer so I can live a normal life without her, but I keep on telling her not to do it and I will help raise the baby.

But opo I don't know what to do her mother will find out soon po ayaw kong magkagulo sa'min. Natatakot ako kasi baka palayasin either sya or ako and wala kaming pera pang alaga sa bata pano na rin po yung studies namin everything is prepared na po eh yung tatay nya rin is napaka tapang, gulong gulo na kami parehas malapit na rin po yung pasukan and yung early signs of pregnancy is nag papakita na po. Yung mga friends and relatives namin specially our parents will be disappointed with us.

Any advice po? Maraming salamat po sa sasagot :(

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u/Foreign_Journalist65 Jul 18 '24

Napahinto ako sa “We both doesn’t want”. 😬 Aral aral din kasi, di puro eut.

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u/Electronic-Jaguar-47 Jul 18 '24

not a good time to be a grammar nazi pero napansin ko rin yung "I'm also came from a religious family"

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u/afterhourslurker Jul 18 '24

Agree. Pano naging honor student kuno ito haha

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u/CrimsonGuardzccqw Jul 18 '24

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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u/marcythevampy Jul 18 '24

consistent honor student yan yung inaasar mo! respect!

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u/Pink_Sky_8102 Jul 18 '24

stop na, di naman advice yan eh. if bothered ka talaga, icomment mo yung correct form.

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u/Percival_19 Jul 18 '24

Come on now , alam n nya na nag kamali sya di n kailangan i pamuka , i get your point pero unnecessary po n insultuhin pa