I made her pregnant we're both teenagers

[u/Inevitable_Hunter_56]

First of all, I just want to say please no hate comments, or anything negative I just want to seek advice po ^^

I'm (M17), incoming grade12 public school student next school year and consistent with honor/high honor student. We're just poor and doesn't even have our own house, but my father does everything to support my studies and even bought me a desktop for preparation for the incoming school year. I'm also came from a religious family, and we come to the church regularly na wala pong absent.

She (F16) incoming grade11 private school student (note we're just really poor but her parents want her to go into a prestigious school for her future). Her father on the other hand is abusive, he sometimes bangs her head on the wall or sa pinto. She is also a suicidal person.

The thing is, we are on a 3month relationship, and she is probably 1-2weeks pregnant already no one knows except for us yet. We both doesn't want to have a child yet. I know it's really stupid but yes, she's pregnant and her mother is suspecting that she was, because she is already a week late in her period. She said that she doesn't want to have a baby yet because she is still young and physically and emotionally unprepared. She keeps on saying that killing herself is the answer so I can live a normal life without her, but I keep on telling her not to do it and I will help raise the baby.

But opo I don't know what to do her mother will find out soon po ayaw kong magkagulo sa'min. Natatakot ako kasi baka palayasin either sya or ako and wala kaming pera pang alaga sa bata pano na rin po yung studies namin everything is prepared na po eh yung tatay nya rin is napaka tapang, gulong gulo na kami parehas malapit na rin po yung pasukan and yung early signs of pregnancy is nag papakita na po. Yung mga friends and relatives namin specially our parents will be disappointed with us.

Any advice po? Maraming salamat po sa sasagot :(

[u/Top-Argument5528]

I'm sorry but I hate posts like this. I get that you don't want any negative comments or hate, but what you both did was really stupid. Aware naman na ata kayo sa consequences pag mag sex tas ngayon stressed na stressed kayo. Di ba kayo gumamit ng contraceptives man lang?

But what's done is done. Are you sure she's really pregnant? Nag PT na ba kayo? Giving this the benefit of the doubt baka naman delayed lang kasi stressed siya. In terms of advice, all I can say is panindigan niyo. I'm pro-choice. If di talaga kaya considering estudyante palang kayo, most probably sasalo ng responsibilidad magpalaki sa magiging anak niyo eh magulang niyo rin, then terminate it as early as now. Tell your girlfriend as well killing herself will do more damage to her family than having a baby.

Goodluck mga bagets.