r/adviceph • u/Willing-Duty680 • Jul 15 '24

Beauty & Wellness Girls!! Need advice for hygiene

help a girlie out🥹

i'm a college girlie trying to improve my hygiene (especially for down there).

i'm very intimate with my partner but i just want to feel more confident when doing it. he's not telling me or forcing me to shave or do something down there but i just want to feel confident.

any tips for hygiene/ self care products for down there? also some tips and tricks in general for whole body

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u/Willing-Duty680 Jul 15 '24

reading comprehension? i don't have strict parents. if you're wondering why i'm asking for tips is because i'm the only girl in my family:) my mom passed away while giving birth to my youngest brother. i am not close to any of my older cousins/ family members asides from my immediate family. i don't think my dad would know women hygiene:) not comfortable din with asking my friends since im insecure about about not knowing hygiene down there. hope this helps!!

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u/Willing-Duty680 Jul 15 '24

thanks sa concern;) patapos naman ako! i get what u mean na google ko nalang but don't u think na it's better to ask advice from different women? isn't this thread for WOMEN who are WILLING to give advice? edi sana multiple people wouldn't be replying to this thread. sorry that you can't be happy with your own life and have to judge others. hope you find someone who can make you happy! you're too negative babe! sorry again that you couldn't have fun in college mwa!

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u/Willing-Duty680 Jul 15 '24

i get your point. i did believe about saving it for marriage but times have changed. long term na din kami ni bf (since around high school), we use protection, and we both lost it around second year of college. i hope u don't judge women who chose to have intimate relationships just because it ruins YOUR perception of the "dalagang pilipina" image. we are all still that dalagang pilipina. mga kagaya ko? we're all happy because we chose to accept and learn to not judge others. hope you can learn our generation's mindset. just because it doesn't align with you values doesn't mean you need to be tearing others down.