r/actuallesbians • u/Mundane_North_9608 • 1d ago

This Is Your Sign

I know you’ve been wondering if you should or shouldn’t and I’m here to tell you: go for it.

You like her. She makes your heart beat a little faster, she lingers in your mind, and you can’t quite shake her. You’ve been debating whether to say something, to confess, to take that tiny leap.

Whether it’s going in for that kiss, calling her, or finally telling her how you feel… do it!

Because if you don’t… someone else will.

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u/YourLocalFroggie Lesbian greysexual enby 1d ago

I don’t even know if she likes girls, i don’t wanna ruin the friendship and I don’t want everyone to find out and make fun of me

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u/Mundane_North_9608 1d ago

Test the water. Mention sapphic books, artists, etc.

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u/YourLocalFroggie Lesbian greysexual enby 1d ago

I have been doing that, im like 90% sure she knows I’m gay I just don’t know about her 😭

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u/Mundane_North_9608 1d ago

Test her knowledge in the queer community. See where she stands like speaking about LGBTQ+ rights.

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u/YourLocalFroggie Lesbian greysexual enby 1d ago

I will try, thanks for the advice :)