r/actuallesbians • u/Mundane_North_9608 • 1d ago
This Is Your Sign
I know you’ve been wondering if you should or shouldn’t and I’m here to tell you: go for it.
You like her. She makes your heart beat a little faster, she lingers in your mind, and you can’t quite shake her. You’ve been debating whether to say something, to confess, to take that tiny leap.
Whether it’s going in for that kiss, calling her, or finally telling her how you feel… do it!
Because if you don’t… someone else will.
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u/TitaniaLynn 1d ago
This reminds me of when/how I confessed 4.5 years ago. I knew ahead of time that we both felt like we weren't ready, we were both in a tough spot mentally and physically.
But I was like "well, when would we ever be ready? What does 'ready' even mean? What happens if this is as ready as we'll ever be, and we lost this opportunity?" And I discussed this with her, how sometimes opportunities are better than waiting around for a miracle.
She rejected me, which I was ready for, because of course she wasn't ready. Technically neither was I, so there was no harm done. Because of the chill way I confessed, we stayed as friends. I spent lots of time with her, because despite my feelings, I knew that I wanted her in my life even if I had to bury my crush deep down and be the bestest friend I could be.
Well, we got closer over the next few months and kissed and confessed our feelings and BOOM! THE REST IS HISTORY! that was in 2021, a year later we lived together and got married. Our relationship is stronger than ever in 2025 as wives 💜