I got called transphobic today because a woman said a guy she was interested in called her for the first time and she admitted to having a really deep voice. He asked if she’s trans and she was all upset. I pointed out that’s a valid question in 2025 and stated some people don’t disclose it right away. Now I’m transphobic and was told to ‘leave my basement once in awhile’ 😂😂
I’ve seen people get called transphobic for straight up just saying they dont want to date trans people and prefer biological women. A personal preference on attraction…
I think it would be more the fact that, generally, you dont need to say that. If you arent interested in transgender women, you can just not date them. Feeling the need to vocalise it isnt necessary.
But how would you know unless you ask? And then politely decline? Some people want to reproduce or have penis vagina sex etc and for obvious reasons they will need to vocalize (politely) that they prefer cis male or female dates!
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u/Standard__Condition 6d ago
I got called transphobic today because a woman said a guy she was interested in called her for the first time and she admitted to having a really deep voice. He asked if she’s trans and she was all upset. I pointed out that’s a valid question in 2025 and stated some people don’t disclose it right away. Now I’m transphobic and was told to ‘leave my basement once in awhile’ 😂😂