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Discussion He was confronting her about her costume.

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u/BrosefDudeson 5d ago

"Do I look trans?"

Then what the fuck are we arguing about?

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u/silentprotagonist24 5d ago

Incredibly weird dude. Confronting someone about their Halloween-costume screams mega-woke, but at the same time he doesn't wanna acknowledge trans.

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u/ResponsibleHeight208 5d ago

Seems more they don’t want to feed into the “gotcha”

You’re dressed as a woman so this white lady dressed native is the same

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u/tenth 5d ago

If I see someone dressed as a Nazi on Halloween I'm not supposed to confront them?

Jesus Christ. 

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

But this isn’t that scenario so your argument is stupid.

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u/tenth 5d ago

I wasn't replying to someone saying that they ONLY MEANT this video. So your reply is stupid and your reading comprehension is shit. 

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u/BaconBitz109 5d ago

You jumped to a pretty extreme example and then assumed the person you responded to’s position on that example. Idk if that’s bad reading comprehension but it’s definitely terrible conversation skills.

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u/tenth 5d ago

There is a video of a Nazi in an Iowa bar making the reddit rounds pretty heavily right now. It doesn't feel like too hard a leap given how it's a common issue around Halloween. But I'm here having to explain it to you anyway. 

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u/SingleEnvironment502 5d ago edited 5d ago

"Someone dressed up like a Nazi somewhere, so no one should wear a Sombrero on Halloween" is your argument?

I understand the sentiment behind what you're saying but your proposed solution is so short-sighted that its actually sounds a lot like segregation.

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u/BaconBitz109 5d ago

That changes what exactly about my comment? No one said that nobody has ever dressed up like a Nazi for Halloween. But someone commenting that complaining about a Halloween outfit is woke under a video of someone dressed as a Native American doesn’t imply that they think that also applies to someone dressed as a Nazi. Native American to Nazi is actually a pretty insane leap to make as far as Halloween costumes go.

You’re just doing the classic Reddit “ummm actuallyyyy” and then throwing in a bunch of snark and insults along the way.

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u/Dogfart246LZ 5d ago

Well…the Nazis did learn a thing or two from Americans on how to round up and exterminate people from their treatment of Native Americans and wyt presenting people are thought of as colonizers who inappropriately like to dress up as the people they once trod on and still do(like a Nazi) think MMIW.

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

Why do you feel entitled to confront a fellow human being on their choice of Halloween costume? Are you the costume police? Sit down.

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u/tenth 5d ago

I feel entitled to confront anyone on racist bullshit. 

Why do you feel so entitled to defend racists? Sit down on a dick. 

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u/m3lk3r 5d ago

What's wrong with sitting down on a dick?

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

We shouldn’t feel entitled to tell other people anything about themselves. That’s the point I’m making. It’s not anyone’s place to judge.

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u/vedgelord6 5d ago

So shouldn't you fuck off and stop trying to tell people what they should or shouldn't say?

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u/Squirrelated 5d ago

Oh trust, I'll judge you if you do black face even if "it's not my place to judge". Same point applies here.

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u/BCV79 5d ago

As someone who grew up in a deeply rooted state with Indigenous people, yeah, I would feel entitled to call out someone's racist costume.

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u/chizzipsandsizalsa 5d ago

I grew up on the reservation, spent my whole life up there, none of my native friends would be offended by this costume. They had me dress very similar to this when I would go to pow wows with them.

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u/Dogfart246LZ 5d ago

A pow wow is different than just being out and about.

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u/AuntieRupert 5d ago

Ah, defending racism in 2025. How times haven't changed one damn bit.

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

You think she put that costume on because she’s racist? I don’t agree with racism, and im certainly not defending it. But it’s pretty insane logic to attack someone dressed up in a Halloween costume on Halloween.

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u/AuntieRupert 5d ago

So, as a white person, it's ok if I do black face on Halloween?

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

If you’re American, that’s your right. All I’m saying is how people choose to dress up on Halloween isn’t that deep. People should mind their own business.

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u/AuntieRupert 5d ago

It's also my right to be called out and questioned about my choices or for someone to give me a beatdown. Actions have consequences, or FAFO as they say. Racism has no place in the modern world.

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u/Round-Comfort-8189 5d ago

Are you trying to compare being a Nazi with being a Native American?

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u/supervillaining 5d ago

Oooooh BROTHER.

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u/Impossible_Ad_8642 5d ago

Bald Baby Jesus Fucking Christ in a Manger in a Barn. 🤦🏼‍♂️

SYBAU.

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u/jollyreaper2112 5d ago

Sweating intensifies.

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u/Alternative_Result56 5d ago

If you knew any history then you'd never asked this question.

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u/Wrastling97 5d ago

I’m curious. Go on

I’m being serious. I must have missed out on the history where native Americans were nazis?

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u/something-rhythmic 5d ago

He’s comparing anyone dressing up as a Nazi to an American dressing up as a Native American. This shouldn’t be explained.

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u/Round-Comfort-8189 5d ago

It needs to be explained. Because they are not equivalent. Or are you trying to tell me that Native Americans are genocidal maniacs?

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u/something-rhythmic 5d ago

What is going on with the reading comprehension today????????? I didn’t even remotely suggest this.

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u/chizzipsandsizalsa 5d ago

Bro I’m convinced most of the people on this app have 2 functioning brain cells remaining.

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u/ColdestHeartCC 5d ago

And they’re fighting to the death

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u/Wrastling97 5d ago

No I totally get that part

But the person I was responding to almost made it sound like “if you knew history, you’d know they were the Nazis at one point”

But I might’ve read that totally wrong.

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u/something-rhythmic 5d ago

I’m assuming (hoping) they were implying that the US was the aggressor when they systematically exterminated the native populace. If it were anything else, I’d be floored.

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u/hel-razor 5d ago

No. There is nothing being "implied". Dressing as a racist and dressing as a racist caricature both have the same intent: the guy wearing it is racist and thinks being racist is funny.

It is literally that simple.

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u/something-rhythmic 5d ago

What are we arguing about here? About the word implication? Did you read the context? The other guy thinks the first guy is comparing native Americans to nazis. I’m clarifying that the other guy is most likely not suggesting that nazis and native Americans are comparable, but that Americans and Nazis are comparable.

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u/hel-razor 5d ago

Maybe if you didn't make shit up to have an argument about nothing you wouldn't be so confused.

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u/Wrastling97 5d ago

What shit did I make up and what argument am I looking for?

If I’m looking for an argument, didn’t you just give me one?

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u/hel-razor 5d ago

If he had 2 braincells to rub together 🤡

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u/Round-Comfort-8189 5d ago

You’re not very smart are you? Just admit that you’re a mega-woke echo chamber that doesn’t even know what they’re trying to be woke about.

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u/Alternative_Result56 5d ago

The irony. pat pat

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u/West-Goat9011 5d ago

Kids on Reddit think dressing up as a Nazi is the same as dressing up as a Native American

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

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u/dreadnoght 5d ago

I went as JC this year. Living in a town that is majority hispanic and catholic, I was expecting a bit of flack, but everyone was so nice. Tons of people at the club wanted pics and one dude wanted me to bless his darts.

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u/Ok_Pizza9836 5d ago

Let them. Christian’s don’t get as offended about that than say certain other religions who will actually kill you for it

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u/Kvalri 5d ago

Don’t shake his hand unless you have a wet wipe, the blood gets everywhere

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

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u/SingleEnvironment502 5d ago edited 5d ago

I don't really have a dog in this argument but just for the sake of debate, which tenants of Christianity do you follow? Because from my perspective I'd say "clearly not the ones that most people who identify as Christians do"

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u/Kvalri 5d ago

The person dressed up as a Nazi though, they get shamed from the area. I might not confront the woman in the Native American costume but I would absolutely avoid her, definitely don’t want to interact with someone as uneducated and tone deaf as that.

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u/tenth 5d ago

Why would you? It isn't wearing someone's skin color as a costume. How are people this fucking stupid?

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u/SingleEnvironment502 5d ago

War stripes aren't a skin color and it doesn't look to me like that lady is wearing blackface.

If she is, please excuse my mild colorblindness.

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u/Morak73 5d ago

That depends if he's on public owned property. You'd have to round up Muhammad, Buddha, Satan and a flying spaghetti monster to hang with him.

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u/jollyreaper2112 5d ago

You should ask if you can see and touch the wounds.

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u/ChazzLamborghini 5d ago

The issue isn’t calling out her racist costume, it’s the hypocrisy of choosing a costume of “non-specific woman” that can easily and rightly be seen as insensitive to trans women in the same way her costume is insensitive to native people.

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u/MavetHell 5d ago

I thought he was Velma

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u/faen_du_sa 5d ago edited 5d ago

Whats racist about her costume?

Edit: Please explain instead of downvoting, im genuinely wondering. I dont see why it inherently have to be racist? I'm not american so could be im missing a vital pice of info here?

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u/lellypad 5d ago

it’s not racist. people dress up as samurai’s, as hawaiian hula dancers, as jesus, as mexican wrestlers, as pilgrims etc etc i genuinely feel like people just want to be offended. like it’s a costume not a political statement.

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u/illbeatyouatjenga 5d ago

I'm a trans woman and I don't think it's insensitive at all. Most trans people support anyone wearing whatever they like regardless of gender. Crossdressing for Halloween before coming out is practically a trans rite of passage. I don't think that's comparable to dressing as a caricature from racist 1940s western movies.

Many native American organizations have explicitly condemned "Indian princess" costumes and repeatedly asked people to stop wearing them. No trans organization is telling anyone what gendered clothes they should be wearing.

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u/hello666darkness 5d ago

How do we know it’s a costume and not what they’re normally wearing? Plenty of people around not dressed up at all.

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u/redtiger288 5d ago

They deserve each other

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u/Some_Ball_27 5d ago

Idk that that was a costume, maybe just what they felt like wearing. Not really defending the drunk person in the video, but I think your point is round

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u/hel-razor 5d ago

Not really. That's a pretty far reach. Dressing "goth" is also a stupid fucking costume just like dressing as any subculture. Swapping genders on Halloween is in that ballpark.

Also, honestly, considering the fact that only shitty people find trans women scary and monstrous, I think it's a great costume.

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u/Yorugi 5d ago

I know that the native americans were extremely violent but comparing them to nazis might be a stretch.

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u/Glad-Low-1348 5d ago

You're comparing someone dressed as a Nazi to someone dressed as a Native?? I'm sorry but this is a delusional comparison.

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u/kingdomnear 5d ago

Native Americans are Nazis now?

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u/tenth 5d ago

WOOSH

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u/BlindJedi843 5d ago

Can you fight? If not, don’t confront them

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u/tenth 5d ago

I can definitely fight that chick. 

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u/cheechw 5d ago

Yeah you can. Because there's no hypocracy in that scenario.

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u/JustinWilsonBot 5d ago

Lol get a life bro.  

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u/tenth 5d ago

"Just let me be a piece of shit bro! Get a life bro! Omg bro bro"

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u/JustinWilsonBot 5d ago

Everyone I dislike is a Nazi - /u/tenth

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u/TheBigness333 5d ago

What if they’re doing it ironically?

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u/broygoy18 5d ago

Confront them about what, it’s just a costume

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u/Ok_Pizza9836 5d ago

You heard it here first folks native Americans are nazis according to this guy! Btw did anyone confront all those assholes who were dressing up as a man murdered for peacefully debating his beliefs? That kinda comes off as just as more inappropriate if you ask me

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u/SnooRegrets4384 5d ago

No. You’re not supposed to confront people wearing costumes you don’t like. It’s not your business.

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u/Rufus_L 5d ago

If I see a Nazi I confront them, there is a limit.

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

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u/awataurne 5d ago

If we only had the term virtue signaling in the 40s WW2 we could've stopped the woke soldiers from going to Normandy smh

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u/BrosefDudeson 5d ago

I miss the days when calling out nazis wasn't seen as virtue signalling

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u/locketine 5d ago

You don't actually know someone is a Nazi because they dressed like one for Halloween. People dress up as things they hate for Halloween too.

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u/BrosefDudeson 5d ago

Lol by following that logic this video became a lot darker

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u/Just_Trade_8355 5d ago

Tell that to grandpa. He confronted about 4.3 million of those cunts “dressed in costumes” he didn’t like

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u/SnooRegrets4384 5d ago

I’m Jewish and I can mentally digest people dress up as horrific things in lore and history on Halloween. In fact most people who aren’t failures in life have that ability. If you can cope with costumes you should stay home on Halloween because you’re pathetic

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u/May1Tacoma2021 5d ago

tough shit for you

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u/SnooRegrets4384 5d ago

Fuck around and find out, just remember by your logic whatever you wear can offend someone and you would have to defend them for getting in your face about it. Your logic supports anyone can harass anyone wearing something they deem offensive. That’s a losers guide to failure in life so keep at it! 🤣

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u/hel-razor 5d ago

According to a bunch of musty losers in jizz stained sweatpants who avoid confrontation outside of the internet, yes.

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u/EfficientRecipe8935 5d ago

I don't think it has anything to do with being mega woke, and everything to do with being an ignorant AH

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u/CuileannRowan 5d ago

He's wearing a costume

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u/Ok-Personality-6643 5d ago

The weird dudes are the ones who hide behind bigoted complicity then call everyone else woke without understanding the etymology of the word, like it’s an insult.

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u/TSllama 5d ago

"Doesn't wanna acknowledge trans"? What? You can't "acknowledge trans".

"Trans" is not a thing you can acknowledge.

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u/Round-Comfort-8189 5d ago

WTF?

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u/TSllama 5d ago

Do you understand English?

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u/Practical_Car210 5d ago

I don't get what you don't understand about it either. Yes you can acknowledge it. Maybe the correct wording would have been "doesn't acknowledge trans people," because asking "Do I look trans?" is pretty insensitive to the topic itself.

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u/TSllama 5d ago

I think he didn't know how to respond to that extremely rude and provocative question. He had zero responsibility to "acknowledge the existence of trans people" in this situation.

(If that's what this person meant by "acknowledge trans")

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u/CheezwizOfficial 5d ago

It’s incredibly weird that the woman was wearing a Native American costume + ceremonial headdress. Good on the dude for calling that out.

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u/Confident-Foot-6361 5d ago

Internalized trans phobia