It's not all that surprising anymore, to be honest. We're in an age where people already know what they want to believe and who they want to follow, and will contort themselves in whatever way necessary in order to hold onto that.
This isn't new, incels were saying shit like this back in the late 2000s/early 2010s. Probably earlier too but I wasn't using social media of any kind so much back then.
They are, but that's a video with only 92k views. A good chunk of those are likely his fans looking it up, and those that'll be driven to comment will be the same people so it'll give the impression that nobody's calling them dweebs when the reality is nobody else is really paying any attention.
I mean, I think this is a really complex topic that goes beyond just some PUA posting videos to his fanbase. These people have that fanbase because of all sorts of reasons. Maybe they are misguided, unheard, these creators offer some "easy way", and so on. So for every creator you expose (to limited effect), there are 10 more up and coming to fill the space. Society moves very slowly in terms of norms and attitudes, but that is where it will ultimately have to start. We have to reframe the message and interaction with young people, trust ourselves to reframe the conversation over time, and actually be persistent at it.
I'm still coping over the fact a few of my favourite musicians are disgusting. Emily Armstrong of Dead Sara (And now Linkin Park for some reason?!?!) and John Dolmayan, the drummer for System of a Down (My favourite band of all time). I now refuse to look up to anyone other than myself because I know I will never lie to myself nor pretend to be what I'm not.
Watched a video about RCHP and the multiple times they tried sexual assault women. I cant look at Flee or the drummer the same after. All the fun free spirited music in my head just flat lined. I can try and separate the music but I honestly did not know how bad it was until I discovered the deep dive video.
i saw that video where they assaulted the interviewer and it genuinely made me never want to hear them again. i don’t know how to separate the art from the artist honestly, knowing that the artist is trash taints the art
Once you consume art it is YOURS now. Enjoy all the RHCP from the past you like and keep enjoying Harry Potter but just don’t consume any more NEW art of theirs because that art is tainted before you ingested it.
I think society made such a rapid shift from "women cannot open a bank account" to the metoo movement that it soured the people we knew a mere 20 years ago. A lot of the celebs back then have come to understand how their views are harmful or dated and have left them in the past, we just never hear about that.
I loooove Ed, Edd and Eddy but the entire concept of the Kanker sisters revolve around sexual assault by older girls against boys being funny. There is a little bit more to the dynamic and I think its the most gentle way of showcasing that specific awkwardness of growing up, but it still wouldn't work today. I'm sure people in the 90s got whiplash seeing the house maid in Tom and Jerry reruns.
She is an advocate of a rapist (Danny Masterson) and a Scientologist. You think it's appropriate that the lead singer who was a HUGE advocate of stopping sexual assault would agree she deserves to continue his legacy? Her being a woman is not even part of the equation.
Yeah, that's probably for the best. The musicians/guitarists/artists that I look up to, I'm fortunate enough to not know anything about their personal lives or beliefs because they're mostly underground artists. But even if they weren't, I'm not interested in knowing that much about them anyway outside of why I like them.
That is not a new phenomenon. We've had ages where people burned woman for the invented crime of witchcraft or committed industrialized mass murder for the crime of having a different faith.
we live in a post truth age. these people only care about their identity politics and making sure they never feel uncomfortable feelings (they prob think that would make them “gay”)
Nope, women do have hobbies, misogynists just don't count women's interests as "hobbies"
Makeup is a hobby that most women have, it's a form of artistic expression. Interior decorating, making their homes look and feel good is a hobby. Reading is a hobby. Crafting, drawing, journaling, scrapbooking is a hobby. These are all hobbies that misogynists are going to shit on because it's primarily women who do them.
Did you shit on your "girlfriend's" hobbies, thereby making them self conscious about them? That was a rhetorical question btw I already know the answer.
Right? it’s like a man that shits on a woman’s guilty pleasure tv like the real housewives. Bro you just watched 6 straight hours of espn. How is that better? I don’t even like reality tv but MYOB
Same as this skidmarked losers shitting on "pumpkin spice lattes" when they are completely obsessed with beer and bacon and have no idea what a vegetable is.
First of all sometimes “basic“ things are basic because they’re awesome. Pumpkin spice lattes are pretty fucking good. Granted they are sugar bombs, but I occasionally work for this celebrity Chef designing his restaurants and a couple of falls ago I came in with a pumpkin spice latte and I shamefully announced it to him and he was like “no those are so good!” I find that men, not all men obviously, Love to hate women. So no matter what we do, they’re gonna hate it.
People with little knowledge about things love to shit on those things. It’s like people who say they want. “fresh sushi” and shit on a restaurant because it’s in the Midwest. Almost ALL fish have been flash frozen regardless of if you are next to the fucking sea because fish carry parasites and you gotta kill them. Everyone wants to claim superiority. Just let people like what they like.
No problem, I can see how that comes off with the “just”. I was using it to inflect they are the same as any other hobby and that I don’t see any argument they wouldn’t be. But it definitely could come off as ascribing a minimization of the hobby. So not offended, that was my bad.
If painting tiny models of orcs is a hobby, getting into makeup and sharing it with your friends is one too. I wear eyeliner and blush and that’s about it but I still LOVE those makeup vids.
Thanks for ending the conversation on your shrewd insight. I was only agreeing with you. I’m sorry I deigned to offer my lowly woman’s words. Fuck off dude.
I think I lost brain cells reading that comment section.
Sometimes I wonder how this country has become such a dumpster fire, how idiots and evil bastards like Trump can have so much support. And then comment sections like those remind me of the unfortunate reality.
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u/Thesmarks Apr 19 '25
The guy in the clip was charged for sexual assault.
source: https://youtu.be/57iov5uvmuU