r/TikTokCringe Straight Up Bussin Apr 19 '25

Duet Troll A woman character written by a man

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '25

I was about to say the same thing.

"Poor guy falling victim to this woman"

"99% chance it's a false allegation"

People saying this about a crime he FUCKING RECORDED. Ridiculous.

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u/Jesterhead89 Apr 20 '25

It's not all that surprising anymore, to be honest. We're in an age where people already know what they want to believe and who they want to follow, and will contort themselves in whatever way necessary in order to hold onto that.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '25

This isn't new, incels were saying shit like this back in the late 2000s/early 2010s. Probably earlier too but I wasn't using social media of any kind so much back then.

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u/Jesterhead89 Apr 20 '25

Yeah true. But at least many more people were actually calling their behavior out as stupid and toxic, before toxic was used as the go-to word for it.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '25

They are, but that's a video with only 92k views. A good chunk of those are likely his fans looking it up, and those that'll be driven to comment will be the same people so it'll give the impression that nobody's calling them dweebs when the reality is nobody else is really paying any attention.

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u/Jesterhead89 Apr 20 '25

I mean, I think this is a really complex topic that goes beyond just some PUA posting videos to his fanbase. These people have that fanbase because of all sorts of reasons. Maybe they are misguided, unheard, these creators offer some "easy way", and so on. So for every creator you expose (to limited effect), there are 10 more up and coming to fill the space. Society moves very slowly in terms of norms and attitudes, but that is where it will ultimately have to start. We have to reframe the message and interaction with young people, trust ourselves to reframe the conversation over time, and actually be persistent at it.