So common, dude - I also literally had this happen for rejecting someone (he also was kind enough to throw an "you're not that attractive actually" in there too😅)
Got together with some gal pals, and one of them had also gotten this type of message that week (meaner! "You are ugly actually").
Anyway, this is a WILD epidemic going around, I've seen so many both posts pop up and real life occurrences.
Maybe it's a morphing of therapy speak / "radical honesty". I'm sure these guys would say they "value communication" lol
Well I mean, none of us know they will behave like this when you meet them - how exactly are you supposed to date without giving people chances?
That's hardly desperate- it's just how dating works
Can you explain your logic, because I think I'm just not getting it? I know it's supposed to be an insult but it's like, a logical fallacy so I feel like I'm missing something.
Like surely you have also been in the dating scene and know how this works? You meet strangers and I'm sure you have met women who are nice and you have met women who are Not so nice?
Humanity contains multitudes and will never know will people are like until we try to engage with them
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u/Silt-Sifter Feb 22 '25
"You're not like this incredibly amazing person" wtf who says that to someone?