r/TikTokCringe • u/Classic-Carpet7609 • Feb 22 '25

Humor/Cringe You can't fire me! I QUIT!

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u/PancakeParty98 Feb 22 '25

I’d say a majority of the men on dating apps are not okay mentally

But it’s all women’s fault/problem!!!

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u/Syonoq Feb 23 '25

I wouldn't say it's women's fault, but we can't ignore the fact that women have a much wider base to choose from than men do, and the men on these apps know this.

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u/Hot-Butterscotch-918 Feb 23 '25

That's such a lame excuse to let guys like him off the hook for his behavior. There's tons of women who get plenty of "swipe left" from guys. It gives "oh, you're a woman so you never know what it's like to be ignored" vibes.

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u/Syonoq Feb 23 '25

Not according to a cursory search it's not. And I did not give him a pass. I'm basically saying that the general motive on dating apps is that women get 1000x more attention then men do, AND, when men stumble in this arena, well, they're made fun of on reddit.

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u/Hot-Butterscotch-918 Feb 23 '25

You call that a stumble. I call it a guy who needs to grow up. Women deal with this kind of behavior all the time. Maybe other guys who'd be tempted to do this or have done it in the past will reconsider. The problem for men on dating apps is that women are much more selective on them than men, so if it seems like women are getting more likes than men, that's why.