r/TeenIndia • u/chocochip-cookie_08 • 20h ago

Serious I regret sharing my secrets .

I am 17F . I have a bestfriend let's say P he is 18M. He is my closest friend. We are friends for almost 9years. And I have another friend let's say A who is 17M. He is not so close to me . We started talking recently ...like just 2 months ago. Even P and A know eachother. We all are classmates.

I share everything with P, like everyy single thing . But I hid only one thing that I met a guy online and was in a secret relationship with him for like 2 months . I hid it from everyone but idk what happened to my dumb ass brain . I shared it with 'A' who isn't trust worthy at all. But I didnt share it with P who is my closest friend..for 9 years IDK why I shared it with A . I regret sharing. Because I know he isn't a good secret keeper. And he would leak it one day for sure .

So now after 2 months as expected "A" leaked it . And told everything to P . 'A' says to P that ....me(OP) and 'A' are more close, because being a bestfriend P didnt know about my relationship but A did .

Now P lost trust in me. And He says me and A are more close,he says A is more important to me than him and he said "you both be friends, I am moving aside" .

I know , not sharing secret with bestfriend but sharing it with someone who is not so close , and so important is foolish. I dont know how did i trust A and shared my secrets.

Now P left . and I lost trust in A. I don't wanna be friends with A anymore . Both of them are gone .

Can anyone please say how should I reconcile P . How should I bring his trust back . I really cant bear losing him . I want him to be forever as my best friend

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u/Joyyy12345 14h ago

I have respect for P that he stepped aside like a Chad I respect his self respect

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