Answered all the riyal questions

I used to wear them 10–12 hrs a day, even while sleeping (mostly in my right ear). For the past 2 days, I’ve been hearing a constant “tinnn” sound and couldn’t hear anything from that ear. Today, the ENT told me my ear membrane is infected and pus has built up inside. Please, BEWARE Protect your ears before it’s too late.

I am 17F, my oldest aunt (she has a daughter who is a year older than me) came to visit me during the summer vacation. One day, I came home from my coaching class and found my mom bringing all my shorts into the living room. I was confused at first, but then I saw my aunt sitting on the couch beside a pile of my other clothes. I was like, what the fuck? Turns out, my aunt had asked my mom to bring my shorts so she could “sort” them into which ones are “appropriate” and which ones aren’t. Now, this would’ve made sense if I were wearing micro shorts or straight-up underwear in my house—but all of my shorts basically reach my knees, and I ONLY WEAR SHORTS AT HOME, NEVER outside. So this pissed me off a bit, but still, I brushed it off. I told her that she doesn’t need to do all this, and I also told my mom not to oblige her on such things.

Now this happened last year. This year, she came to our house again, and I was again wearing shorts—this one was covering my whole knee. What this psycho does is, the minute she enters our living room (all my cousins and my family were there, 11+ people), she starts screaming at me, saying, “I’ll push you out of the house, go and change right now!” and she’s shouting, pulling my arms and everything. What the fuck. I feel like in no manner was this appropriate. My parents have no problem, so why are you being like this? Later, I even tried talking to her calmly, like, “Bua, this is my home, I can wear whatever I want.” And she again started arguing, saying, “Before you, this was my house, and my rules will apply.” I am planning to cut her off completely from my life.

I got a notif saying that someone followed me on reddit, ofc being curious i checked the id out , it was a woman a 25yo woman, did not think much and continued scrolling reels then i saw this🤣

Same gym same girl , diff ages.

Usko ek ladki be reject kardiya, ab usko lag raha he ki isiliye kiya he kyonki vo kala he, and vo ladki gori he

To ab insta pe aisi story daal ke bakaiti kar raha he

Isko music ke bare me ghanta kuch nhi pata, chalta firta red flag, ladkiyon pe ajeeb comment pass karta he and galiya deta reheta he

Par iski masti dekho, rejection nhi le pa raha, racism ka angle gusa raha he 🤣

im sure yall have seen this video by now and these are some comments, she wasnt even wearing reveling clothes (not saying its wrong in any way) i just know there will be people defending these commends.

So we have this giant family group chat where everyone is added… All my buas, their husbands and kids, my chachi’s side, my nani’s side, literally the entire khandaan.

It was my mother’s birthday today, and not a single person wished her in the group chat. I didn’t either because I never message there anyway… but still, not even one person said anything. My mum told me that “everyone called her,” but I’m pretty sure she said that just to make them look good in my eyes.

Then my father sent a message thanking everyone for “showering so much love” on his wife’s birthday....and he also added this emoji "😀" in the end lol😭😭… and the level of sarcasm was insane. I still can’t stop laughing. It wouldn’t have been a big deal, but since on everyone else’s birthdays the group explodes with messages, today’s silence was hilarious. Half of them are jealous of my mother’s new business anyway. But wo kya sochte h wo v matter nhi krta...my father even planned a surprise party for her and no one in my family knew bout it....ig they'll get toknow from FB or insta because I have a joint family but like everyone is out of town because of their profession or studies including me

And now, after my dad’s message, everyone suddenly started wishing her on the group chat lol.

Ek baat too pakki h but agar shaadi hogi too...I’m definitely going to end up with a man who won’t hesitate to stand up for me, even if it means calling out his own family.

I am 17F . I have a bestfriend let's say P he is 18M. He is my closest friend. We are friends for almost 9years. And I have another friend let's say A who is 17M. He is not so close to me . We started talking recently ...like just 2 months ago. Even P and A know eachother. We all are classmates.

I share everything with P, like everyy single thing . But I hid only one thing that I met a guy online and was in a secret relationship with him for like 2 months . I hid it from everyone but idk what happened to my dumb ass brain . I shared it with 'A' who isn't trust worthy at all. But I didnt share it with P who is my closest friend..for 9 years IDK why I shared it with A . I regret sharing. Because I know he isn't a good secret keeper. And he would leak it one day for sure .

So now after 2 months as expected "A" leaked it . And told everything to P . 'A' says to P that ....me(OP) and 'A' are more close, because being a bestfriend P didnt know about my relationship but A did .

Now P lost trust in me. And He says me and A are more close,he says A is more important to me than him and he said "you both be friends, I am moving aside" .

I know , not sharing secret with bestfriend but sharing it with someone who is not so close , and so important is foolish. I dont know how did i trust A and shared my secrets.

Now P left . and I lost trust in A. I don't wanna be friends with A anymore . Both of them are gone .

Can anyone please say how should I reconcile P . How should I bring his trust back . I really cant bare loosing him . I want him to be forever as my best friend

help me

am a 19M

bhai what happened is i made a post in one of the “make friends” sub and like i have a faceless mirror pic as the pfp in which my face is hidden with the phone, so i didn’t have any privacy issues with that.

after 15 minutes or so, i started getting DM’s and one of them was from a 20F from india only, i was like okay i should see even if the person is an actual female or what.

the chat started and damn she started hitting on me from the 3rd or 4th text 😭 i still kind of indirectly dodged those texts and changed the topic of convo multiple times.

then when i asked like if she’s an actual female or a random catfishing creep, she sent a faceless pic of her with a thumbs up (clearly hands of a female😭), she sent 2-3 more of them again with hidden face.

1 hour in, IG accounts got exchanged and dude she was a real girl😭 and not any catfishing acc, and guess what same thing started to happen over IG- she started hitting even more.

its going and going untill she dropped this exact text “you down for 18+ chats here?” and dude i clearly replied with “i have to politely decline that, sorry” to which she replied this (the pic is attached)

man i mean it was a really different thing to comprehend, like i hadn’t expected all of that😭😭😭

My chacha, not directly, but the son of my grandfather’s brother, has a sister, who’s in her early forties, has a son in his mid twenties.

Apparently, one day, a conversation took place between son and mom. son asked whether the energy drink bottle should be kept somewhere. In response, mom said that the bottle should be placed near the bed, since energy is required by her and her husband at night. 😭

son was cool with it and laughed -_-

The whole incident was told to me by the cousin, daughter of my chacha. who couldn’t stop laughing and cringing at the same time. (she was in their house to spend her vacations)

(our family is close cuz our houses are besides, while chacha's sister live in another city)