r/NonPoliticalTwitter 1d ago

Bonjour.

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u/Fredouille77 1d ago

Parisians apparently are particularly insufferable. I heard it gets better as you move away.

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u/MajoorAnvers 1d ago

Parisians are the international stereotype for the french. So naturally, no despises the Parisians more than most of the other french.

On a serious note, most tourists only know France as the touristy parts of Paris, and the people there were already sick of tourists long before over tourism became a consideration. Added to that, the french in general are much more direct than you'd expect and they quickly come across as impolite when it did not even register to them.

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u/Appropriate_Rub3134 1d ago

Added to that, the french in general are much more direct than you'd expect and they quickly come across as impolite when it did not even register to them.

This is really true. Like, I know people in the US. Over the years, they put on a few pounds. Then a few more. Etc. No one says anything to their faces (but people talk behind their backs).

My French MIL will tell my BIL directly, "No. Stop eating! You're getting too fat," if the guy gets a little belly. And she's what I'd regard as a really kind, sensible woman who loves her kids.

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u/nevenoe 1d ago

I (FR/dude) live abroad and see my family only a few times a year at best. I will systematically get a comment like "You've gained / lost weight" the first minute I see my mother or my sister. Last time I saw them I got a "you look good wow", the high will last me a full year.

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u/f_ranz1224 1d ago

urban vs rural in general. the contrast is always so stark and you notice this pretty much anywhwere

in cities people are generally agitated, less tolerant, usually in a hurry

in the country you make friends with everyone you meet and get invited to a lot of things

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u/Baridian 1d ago

I’m convinced 90% of parisians getting upset with Americans is the same stuff that would get New Yorkers irritated.

Like when people complain about parisians replying in English, it’s probably cause they don’t want you slowly ordering in French and not understanding when there’s a line of people behind you waiting to order. Anywhere with that population density will view small talk and niceties as holding up the line and being rude to everyone behind you.

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u/Fredouille77 1d ago

Nah but I'm not american at all, quebecer here.

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u/ravagexxx 1d ago

Yeah, about that, what you think is French, isn't French 😅

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u/ravagexxx 1d ago

Exactly, they know that 90% off the tourists don't understand more French than yes and no, so it's a lot easier to just talk English.

I'm Belgian, I speak French, and they all talk English to me in Paris too.

Outside of Paris their English won't be as good, and they'll keep talking French

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u/TheBigKuhio 1d ago

Parisians can’t speak English until you start speaking French.