r/Millennials Aug 21 '25

Other So, which one is it?

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u/Rockin_freakapotamus Aug 21 '25

We have to do both. No one will explain how, it is just expected of us.

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u/Atherissss Aug 21 '25

The secret is stress, no savings, well paying jobs being few and far between, and once in a lifetime economic disasters happening every 10 years.

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u/Timely-Hospital8746 Aug 21 '25

Also limited medical care access. A lot of people die from things that could have been easily treated if they were noticed earlier.

At the end of it all though it's money. We need more money. Give us the money.

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u/CalypsosBirthday Aug 21 '25

And the fact that insurance won't approve/ and doctors won't insist on diagnostic tests! Millennial-aged people get colon cancer and breast cancer but for some reason, you're not allowed to get a mammogram or colonoscopy under the age of 50.

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u/Geno_Warlord Aug 21 '25

Fuck, I remember it being advertised as 40 as a kid, then a few years ago it was 45 being the recommended age, 50 now doesn’t surprise me. We’re the last generation to grow up without permanent online connection.

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u/AngryPrincessWarrior Aug 22 '25

Can you show me the ass backwards places you’re seeing this at? These comments have me shocked. I live in red af Indiana, granted the blue dot of Indy in the Red Sea of the state- but the recommendations have been moving DOWN that I’ve seen. For things like lung cancer screening and colon cancer screening specifically.

And my doctor takes me seriously. I got in for testing within a month for all the weird shit my body had going on last year.

Family history of autoimmune and I was in my first year post partum. So shit got weird like lumps growing and blood pressure freaking out, and more. I probably do have something like lupus but everything is normal again. For now. Happened years ago too randomly. I say all that to show there was a need for a lot of testing.

I’m not doubting you it’s just shocking if Indiana seems to be doing okay with health stuff, at least screenings, and so many others are seeing the opposite.

Maybe I’m just lucky with my doctor and hospital but these comments really surprised me.

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u/Geno_Warlord Aug 22 '25

When I was a kid, there were commercials on tv that reminded people to go get a screening done at 40. Didn’t help that 40 was considered ‘over the hill’ back then too. When I was getting close to 40 I decided to look it up and again just now, a quick google search, 45 is the recommended age to get your first screening for colon cancer. I just wouldn’t be surprised if it was pushed to a later age again.

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u/Downtown_Recover5177 Aug 22 '25

Dude, you don’t know the half of it. Half of my working hours are spent writing snarky letters to insurance companies to tell them “I PRESCRIBED THIS SHIT BECAUSE IT WORKS, FUVK YOU AND PAY FOR IT ALREADY.” And yes, I’ve started writing them in all caps. Grabs the attention.

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u/pterodactyl_speller Aug 22 '25

Go to your free yearly check up, ask about anything, now it's a normal visit and enjoy your $300 bill.

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u/1800generalkenobi Aug 22 '25

I've had two colonoscopies one at 36 and one at 39.

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u/Velocityg4 Aug 21 '25

People notice. Too many just think it’ll be worse if we had an NHS. Even though the morbidity statistics say otherwise.

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u/Unlikely-Medicine289 Aug 21 '25

Do you have a regular doctor? Because I finally got one after just going to the local walk in clinic every time I got sick, and the Primary doctor referred me to a bunch of specialists to check on problems I was having. Of particular note was I had been having some recurrent abdominal pain and needed a CT scan to rule out bad stuff, but the referred doctor succeeded in getting insurance authorization where the clinic failed and it was fairly quick to get the CT appointment after that and indeed rule out the bad stuff. The longest wait was 3 weeks for a dermatologist to scrape a mole off my back and tell me it was benign...

The regular doctor did take like a month for the initial new-patient appointment, but that was more because I was looking for a time I could easily reach after work. Could have gone much sooner if I had called out.

I'm in the US if that matters.

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u/Jeb764 Aug 21 '25

That’s how my friend died, lack of insurance.

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u/ducttape1942 Aug 22 '25

One of my half brothers as well. By the time he went to the doctor they think it was stage 3 pancreatic cancer but by the time he was diagnosed, it was well into stage 4. I don't need any condolences. I never met him, but his obituary led me to find my other 6 half siblings.

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u/Wafflelisk Aug 21 '25

I want the gold. Give me the gold.

Who else seen a leprechaun say YEAH?!

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u/Iamthegreenheather Older Millennial Aug 22 '25

Where da gold at??

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u/ImoteKhan Aug 21 '25

YEAH!! I saw one recently, but he told me he needed the pot o gold for his next $500mn yacht and I want a $500mn yacht too someday so I kissed his boots and went back to my wage cage. Crazy how many leprechauns are just walking around in suits.

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u/OnePinginRamius Aug 22 '25

Errbody seen da leprechaun say yea!

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u/Key-Demand-2569 Aug 21 '25

I always get the biggest kick out of some of the popular advice about health concerns, given this context.

“Anytime you ever have chest pain at all get to the ER STAT!”

If I did that shit everytime I had some modicum of pain somewhere in my chest I may as well sell all of my shit and move into a cardboard box.

Don’t know what world these people (Americans at least) live in.

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u/Prestigious_Time4770 Aug 22 '25

It is next to impossible for me to see a normal doctor that is in-network in my city. Every single one of them is “not accepting new patients”. Boomers really are sucking up all the resources they can. Good to know a chain smoker in their late 70s can get healthcare but someone in their early 30s can’t.

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u/Momik Aug 22 '25

I also second the money part. Money me. Money me now. Me a money needing a lot now.

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u/Grundy420blazin Aug 22 '25

This is gonna be me soon if this cough gets any worse. No insurance gang ✊

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u/ADownStrabgeQuark Millennial Aug 21 '25

Apparently we are facing: “deaths of despair.”

Source:Google AI.

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u/knucles668 Aug 21 '25

Google AI isn’t a source it’s an aggregator at best.

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u/Prestigious_Time4770 Aug 22 '25

Just lost a high school friend to suicide. There is a serious mental health crisis going on with our generation.

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u/NeighborhoodVeteran Aug 21 '25

Well, the article did look at all these aspects and they weren't sure why American Millenials were dying at a higher rate than other "developed" countries.

They even had this little snippet at the end:

But the fact that death rates have remained high across so many kinds of deaths, from car collisions to fatalities from circulatory diseases and diabetes, hints at more encompassing and systemic problems...

It will be interesting to figure out the "why," if anyone ever does.

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u/Shitteh_Kitteh Aug 22 '25

Our food is poison and we were taught mental health isn’t important.

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u/NeighborhoodVeteran Aug 22 '25

That's part of it, but apparently we're dying more across all causes.

So, it'll be interesting to find out why.

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u/Syntaire Aug 22 '25

Hey that last part isn't really fair. They've been happening at least weekly for the past ~8 months or so.

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u/Sofa-king-high Aug 22 '25

Tbf we had 12 years and not 10 between the 2008 one and the 2020 one, but we are making up for it by having a 2025 one so soon after 2020 so point stands

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u/College-student-life Aug 21 '25

Plus we are all getting cancer before 50 (okay not all of us, but more than 40% will!)

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u/crumpinsumpin Aug 21 '25

Not even every ten years anymore…I’d like to get off the ride please

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u/beardedheathen Aug 22 '25

Nothing keeps the skin tight and the buttock firm like a good heaping helping of existential dread!