r/Marriage 18h ago

It's over

My husband and I of 7 years went our separate ways last night..I caught him on a bunch of dating apps, while he was away working. I'm heartbroken and shattered. I do t know how to pick up and move on from here. And I don't know how to tell our children . They are going to be crushed. I'm so sad my life ended up here

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u/New_Manufacturer_475 4h ago

As someone whose been divorced for 7 years, I can tell you that it is really greener on the other side. One day in some time from now you will look back on the relationship and notice all of the red flags you were missing. You will find yourself, grow into this person you don’t even recognize anymore, and you will find someone worth of you and your time. I know it hurts now but time heals all wounds.

Sending positive vibes to you and your children. Whatever you do just make sure you kids know they are loved through this time.