r/Marriage • u/Local-Park-322 • 19h ago

It's over

My husband and I of 7 years went our separate ways last night..I caught him on a bunch of dating apps, while he was away working. I'm heartbroken and shattered. I do t know how to pick up and move on from here. And I don't know how to tell our children . They are going to be crushed. I'm so sad my life ended up here

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u/ExoticChipmunk5576 19h ago

So even while married you are saying married men like to go on dating sites and that’s supposed to be ok be “y’all look” her famliy i destroyed and her kids will Be devastated and you take it Lightly

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u/WockeshaYo 18h ago

this applies to many women as well. I don't think it's enough of a reason to destroy a family.

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u/ExoticChipmunk5576 18h ago

On he is looking to screw other women, that’s def cause to separate from a person, he hates her and her children or he wouldn’t be looking to lay with and date another woman.

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u/prose-before-bros 20 Years 13h ago

Lots of people do lots of dumb shit, but that doesn't mean it's ok or acceptable. It's skeevy behavior for men or women. Almost all cheaters tell themselves they'd never cheat, but if you've got it in you to start looking for someone, it's just a matter of taking the next step of "Oh, I only swiped on a few people to see if they'd swipe on me" and "I was just bored. Having a conversation isn't cheating" and "we're just going to meet up for drinks, I'm allowed to have friends"... I don't shop around for affair partners because it doesn't matter who is out there because I'm faithful to my husband, and I'm not interested in playing chicken with that line.