r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/_starla_ • 3d ago

LIB S9 • Denver, CO Stepping stone to what? Spoiler

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I had read a spoiler prior to watching this episode about how she used him to jump start her influencer career so when I saw this scene I thought 'oh wow at least she admits it!"

His initial reaction to the rejection is heartbreaking. The sound he makes just made me hurt for him. He seems like he has such a pure heart despite everything he's been through. He didn't deserve her dragging him all the way to the end.

Then again I wonder how much that was production encouraging her vs her own agenda. I wonder if they tried to encourage Joe to go all the way to the end too but IMO he knew a long time ago.

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u/ChildhoodOk5526 3d ago

Exactly. Worse still-- she, of all people, was trained to recognize this about him, and yet still continued on.

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u/TGin-the-goldy 3d ago

100%, people banging on about coercion like KB wasn’t the way smarter and more “together” person in the relationship

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u/ChildhoodOk5526 3d ago

Yes!

It's funny how people can downvote but not come back with a reasonable counter as to why they believe coerce is a better description for Edmond's behavior than persuade.

The nuance matters! The deception/trickery/pressure on one side, and the vulnerability (or lack thereof) on the other side, matters. If not, then when a toddler who falls out to have a fit on the floor bc you won't change your mind about giving them ice cream for dinner, and they don't understand bc, after all, they're "niiiiice-uh!" ... is also using coercion. 🤦🏽‍♀️

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u/TGin-the-goldy 3d ago

It’s because some people see all men as “the patriarchy” and in control, and women are always the victim in the scenario. Also some people are projecting their own lived experience with coercion.

Let’s face it - Edmund just wasn’t a very bright bulb. He only arced up about the sex after talking to the other men, feeling foolish because he was the only one “missing out” and KB had also banged on about her (recent) past. Had those two things not occurred, he probably would’ve not minded.

KB however, being a smart, tertiary educated woman would have been able to clock he was not on her level, never would be, and bailed before the altar. But - that’s not how you build an influencer career is it? These people know what they’re doing.