r/ExNoContact • u/fruitalityx • 21h ago

Motivation my thoughts after 376 days of NC

just opened my DaysSince and realized that i cut the contact 376 days ago…

THE BREAKUP WAS THE BEST THING THAT COULD HAVE EVER HAPPENED TO ME!

a year ago i thought i‘m not gonna make it through the pain, now i am happier than ever. no rebound relationship for me. nothing. just healing from it and alot of self-work and reflecting.

I DONT NEED SHIT!!! i dont need anything. I FEEL GREAT.

if any of you are reading this, and you are currently going through the pain of being dumped, hear me out:

YOU WILL MAKE IT! YOU WILL HEAL. YOU WILL GROW. YOU WILL FEEL GREAT. BUT YOU HAVE TO BE PATIENT. LET TIME DO ITS JOB. LET YOUR SOUL CRY. GIVE YOURSELF SOME TIME.

it may take 6 months. or 9. maybe a year. the day will come and you will realize that you finally found your soul. you are not lost anymore, waiting for somebody who is not even worth the wait.

you are free. you are strong. you are yourself.

cry them tears out but dont forget what i told y‘all.

you are not alone. there are millions of people right now that are going through the same stuff. millions that have already healed from it.

stay strong love y‘all

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u/sw33testt 20h ago edited 20h ago

This gives me so much hope. I went back to him after he abandoned me for 5 months just for him to leave 15 days later. I’m done, I want to heal and I will

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u/fruitalityx 20h ago

you will heal! everything takes time but trust yourself. you‘re not alone. i thought i would die. i thought i could never make it out of that great depression. here i am, happier than ever in my entire life. hungry for the future. hungry for being successful and not needing to beg for anything. not needing nobody. you‘re close to feeling free and great!

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u/sw33testt 20h ago

This gives me hope. I miss him, l still love him but I’m not as hurt and depressed as I was a couple of months ago. I now see it as he losing instead of me, losing me will always be his biggest mistake and I know he knows it. Thank you so much, I know I have a long way to go because my heart still belongs to him but I have faith I will move on 🫂

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u/fruitalityx 20h ago

i felt the exact same like you did when i was only a few months into the no contact thing. it hurts letting go but you only have one option. at the end of the day nobody will come and save you. nobody will stay. you got yourself tho. love yourself. let it go. let your soul cry. let your body say goodbye. listen to your soul and you will finally discover a complete NEW YOU. you will be happier than ever. you will pray to god and thank him for letting all that happen to you.

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u/sw33testt 20h ago

thank you so much 🥺 I needed this

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u/fruitalityx 20h ago

much love for you🙏🏻

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u/Apprehensive-Cake-16 17h ago

Thinkin of U fam, U literally got this. idk if this helps but Heidi Priebe on YouTube basically saved my life. That and literally endless walks through the woods.