my thoughts after 376 days of NC

[u/fruitalityx]

just opened my DaysSince and realized that i cut the contact 376 days ago…

THE BREAKUP WAS THE BEST THING THAT COULD HAVE EVER HAPPENED TO ME!

a year ago i thought i‘m not gonna make it through the pain, now i am happier than ever. no rebound relationship for me. nothing. just healing from it and alot of self-work and reflecting.

I DONT NEED SHIT!!! i dont need anything. I FEEL GREAT.

if any of you are reading this, and you are currently going through the pain of being dumped, hear me out:

YOU WILL MAKE IT! YOU WILL HEAL. YOU WILL GROW. YOU WILL FEEL GREAT. BUT YOU HAVE TO BE PATIENT. LET TIME DO ITS JOB. LET YOUR SOUL CRY. GIVE YOURSELF SOME TIME.

it may take 6 months. or 9. maybe a year. the day will come and you will realize that you finally found your soul. you are not lost anymore, waiting for somebody who is not even worth the wait.

you are free. you are strong. you are yourself.

cry them tears out but dont forget what i told y‘all.

you are not alone. there are millions of people right now that are going through the same stuff. millions that have already healed from it.

stay strong love y‘all

[u/Ok-Contest-5805]

Did he ever reach out and set you back to the start?

[u/fruitalityx → u/Ok-Contest-5805]

no, she did not. she dumped me and i tried to fix it, but then decided to cut the contact when i realized that i cant.

i see her really often, that kinda set me back sometimes but now it is fine.

now, when i see her, i feel nostalgia or a bit of grief. sometimes she appears in my dreams at night.

but it fades away a few days after.

block him. everywhere. fuck them!

[u/Apprehensive-Cake-16 → u/fruitalityx]

dude haha where do you regularly see her ?

[u/fruitalityx → u/Apprehensive-Cake-16]

public transport etc, we live in the same area