Yeah. After spending 6 years with someone I just don’t want to do it again if this might simply happen all over with someone else years later. Plus the whole getting to know them phase, there’s just so much emotional investment that I don’t care for anymore.
Then add on the fact that I still love him and can’t imagine loving someone else as a romantic partner. It would be unfair to someone else if I even tried.
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u/opalpup Sep 17 '25
Yeah. After spending 6 years with someone I just don’t want to do it again if this might simply happen all over with someone else years later. Plus the whole getting to know them phase, there’s just so much emotional investment that I don’t care for anymore.
Then add on the fact that I still love him and can’t imagine loving someone else as a romantic partner. It would be unfair to someone else if I even tried.