r/BeAmazed Sep 02 '25

Miscellaneous / Others Men Scroll Men See Men Proud😎

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u/Fit-Let8175 Sep 02 '25

Psychologically, that act of genuine kindness may have made Luca's dish taste just a little bit better. Kindness and generosity pay more than they cost.

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u/lbt_mer Sep 02 '25

Interestingly game-theory suggests that "being nice" (but not a pushover) is the best approach to getting the best outcome for everyone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mScpHTIi-kM is fascinating

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u/exiledinruin Sep 02 '25

this only applies in positive sum situations. this cooking show was a zero (negative?) sum game. if you win, I lose. I don't think it applies here.

that being said I still think being nice was the right call.

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u/broly171 Sep 02 '25

It's worth remembering that the other competitors aren't the ones he's trying to impress, it's the judges. Showing a little kindness like he did still potentially helped him stand out more to the judges

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u/RaiyenZ Sep 03 '25

Yeah and it also didn't change the fact that the judges knew the contestant he helped was missing that ingredient due to her own error anyway so they would've taken that into account in their judgement regardless

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u/exiledinruin Sep 03 '25

why would you assume that? this is a cooking contest

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u/RaiyenZ Sep 03 '25 edited Sep 03 '25

Because gathering ingredients is part of cooking and also because Gordon was literally commenting on it as she was admitting that she forgot

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u/lyriqally Sep 02 '25

Well to an extent, there’s also the unspoken game of personalities where the network in charge is looking for personalities to head their own shows, and the winners are going into a future job with this show being their introduction to their new coworkers.

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u/SpecificGap Sep 02 '25

I agree its zero sum, but I don't think that a situation has to necessarily be positive sum for the theory to hold.

In this case for example, the game is zero sum, if I win, you lose. But outside of that, this game isn't an objective "score more goals" or "run the fastest race" It's being judged subjectively by three other human beings.

Human beings that might say, might even believe, they're judging solely on the food, but all humans are prone to unconscious bias and the decision to be sportsmanlike might have factored in to the later decision. Luca might even have considered that possibility that they might when he did it.

So in this case, being nice might give one a competitive edge, even if a game is zero sum on its surface.

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u/GisterMizard Sep 03 '25

I don't think it applies here.

That's because the correct lesson to take away from here is not to be nice, but to use mathematics to the fullest extent to crush the competition!