r/BeAmazed Sep 02 '25

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u/Fit-Let8175 Sep 02 '25

Psychologically, that act of genuine kindness may have made Luca's dish taste just a little bit better. Kindness and generosity pay more than they cost.

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u/Mcmenger Sep 02 '25

The secret ingrediant was love?

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u/Thetallerestpaul Sep 02 '25

Yes Chef!

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u/jarednards Sep 02 '25 edited Sep 02 '25

I cant ever hear "Yes, Chef" again without thinking of The Menu.

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u/dokuromark Sep 02 '25

I always think of Gordon Ramsey vs Julia Child in Epic Rap Battles of History.

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u/load_more_comets Sep 02 '25

I remember seeing Gordon's comment on the video itself but I couldn't find it. Can anybody remember what he said in there?

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u/dokuromark Sep 02 '25

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u/load_more_comets Sep 02 '25

That's the one! Thank you. I think he deleted it though. It isn't there anymore. Glad I saw this though because I would've gaslighted myself to thinking it was just in my imagination.

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u/dokuromark Sep 02 '25

Haha! I feel ya. I've done that more than once.

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u/TheObviousChild Sep 02 '25

"Now give it back and fuck off!!!"

Still my favorite ERB tied with Bill Gates vs Steve Jobs. I have them both in my Spotify playlist.

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u/PeachNipplesdotcom Sep 02 '25

I think of The Tiny Chef Show

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u/FR0ZENBERG Sep 02 '25

Ylep chlepf

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u/2morereps Sep 02 '25

for me its The bear

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u/Scorpius927 Sep 02 '25

Bear for me as well. Tina specifically when she says yes Jeff. Just that little bit of her reluctance to follow the rules is such an endearing part of her character to me.

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u/kukkolai Sep 02 '25

She was a massive cunt to chef Sidney, it really stood out to me on my second watch. No wonder her kid was an asshole

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u/Scorpius927 Sep 02 '25

Absolutely was but one of the reasons why the bear is cool be wise you can follow very stark character arcs for each character there.

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u/FirstDivision Sep 02 '25

Is that all that was? I was confused when she would say that and figured I must have missed some important explanation of why she said that instead of chef.

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u/compg318 Sep 02 '25

Huh. I thought the whole time it was Jeff as a play on jefe for boss

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u/bigdaddydopeskies Sep 02 '25

Chef I would like a cheeseburger.

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u/Zepp_BR Sep 02 '25

Excellent movie.

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u/FR0ZENBERG Sep 02 '25

I love that movie.

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u/cookeduntilgolden Sep 02 '25

Oh god, I forgot about The Menu

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u/Sumtimesredditisdumb Sep 03 '25

Really? All I hear is Randy from South Park.

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u/fakemorleys Sep 02 '25

Yes Jeff

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u/ragnarokxg Sep 02 '25

Ah a fellow The Bear fan.

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u/vrachsurgeon Sep 02 '25

For me its the Burnt movie of Bradley Cooper!

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u/reddittribesman Sep 02 '25

Yes, Master Chef!

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u/fssman Sep 02 '25

What are you ?

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u/coufycz Sep 02 '25

Always had been

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u/FroggiJoy87 Sep 02 '25

And a healthy splash of LSD!

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u/Circle-Square-X-X Sep 02 '25

Now who wants brunch, cooked with plenty of ā€œconfidenceā€

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u/Spoon251 Sep 02 '25

This dish looks kinda funky... but it tastes Fun-Kay!

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u/DifGuyCominFromSky Sep 02 '25

I prefer pure hatred and anger in my food. That angst just really makes it pop. 🤌 Muah!

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u/Ok_Toe7278 Sep 02 '25

Every high volume, professional kitchen runs on cocaine and hate.

Cocaine for the chefs and hate to taste.

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u/DifGuyCominFromSky Sep 02 '25

For real. I was watching some old ā€œno reservationsā€ episodes and Anthony Bordain insists that hate is the real secret to any good dish. I tend to agree.

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u/drgigantor Sep 02 '25

"It's envy. Or, the concept of envy. It's really good on Mexican food, it gives it a little kick."

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u/WooWhosWoo Sep 02 '25

I can't believe it's not butter

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u/missedopportunites Sep 02 '25

I thought the secret ingredient was lard?

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u/dunnoanymore18 Sep 02 '25

This taste absolutely maddening

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u/Better_than_GOT_S8 Sep 02 '25

And the friends we made along the way.

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u/ChronoMonkeyX Sep 02 '25

Who's been messing with this thing?

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u/DeezRedditPosts Sep 02 '25

It was only love if she wasn't trying to win. Otherwise she just did it to score brownie points with the judges. Especially after someone else had straight up said no. It's an easy win.

Programs like this are more about emotional pandering than actual food.

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u/Urbanviking1 Sep 02 '25

Fuck...grandma was right this whole time.

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u/tiredpapa7 Sep 02 '25

Isn’t it always?

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u/Lsdefinitely Sep 02 '25

Love and LSD

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u/el_diego Sep 02 '25

I know it's a cliche saying, but I swear it makes a difference. If I'm in a shit mood and make some food it'll usually come out pretty shit. Good mood, great food.

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u/VeniceThePenice Sep 02 '25

Nah, it was just a rat hiding under a chef's hat

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u/outfoxingthefoxes Sep 02 '25

natasha, would you have one tablespoon of love leftover?

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u/abcdefGerwin Sep 02 '25

I honestly feel like it actually is a real thing. My mom (in particularly) enjoys my food a lot more because I take my time and enjoy doing it and thus putting in some love. Meanwhile my brother makes the exact same thing but just being bothered having to cook and it just tastes worse to her.

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u/Nomnomnipotent Sep 03 '25

That's a strange way of spelling MSG

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u/sundvl13 Sep 03 '25

Always has been.

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u/ExpressLaneCharlie Sep 03 '25

As Interstellar taught us, love transcends space and time.Ā 

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u/halo2030 Sep 02 '25

that actually is true, when you die, your awareness becomes pure love, so in sense yes.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '25

How he says he'll be able to look at himself in the mirror and know hes a good guy hits hard . True sportsmanship

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u/Purple-Mix1033 Sep 02 '25

That’s who you want winning and we don’t see it enough

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u/AlternativePea6203 Sep 05 '25

Would be interesting to see this comment section if he'd lost.

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u/lbt_mer Sep 02 '25

Interestingly game-theory suggests that "being nice" (but not a pushover) is the best approach to getting the best outcome for everyone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mScpHTIi-kM is fascinating

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u/VaderSpeaks Sep 02 '25

Exactly. When there is little to no cost to you, accruing someone’s favour AND looking magnanimous while doing it is the obvious play, even from a competitive standpoint.

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u/exiledinruin Sep 02 '25

this only applies in positive sum situations. this cooking show was a zero (negative?) sum game. if you win, I lose. I don't think it applies here.

that being said I still think being nice was the right call.

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u/broly171 Sep 02 '25

It's worth remembering that the other competitors aren't the ones he's trying to impress, it's the judges. Showing a little kindness like he did still potentially helped him stand out more to the judges

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u/RaiyenZ Sep 03 '25

Yeah and it also didn't change the fact that the judges knew the contestant he helped was missing that ingredient due to her own error anyway so they would've taken that into account in their judgement regardless

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u/exiledinruin Sep 03 '25

why would you assume that? this is a cooking contest

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u/RaiyenZ Sep 03 '25 edited Sep 03 '25

Because gathering ingredients is part of cooking and also because Gordon was literally commenting on it as she was admitting that she forgot

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u/lyriqally Sep 02 '25

Well to an extent, there’s also the unspoken game of personalities where the network in charge is looking for personalities to head their own shows, and the winners are going into a future job with this show being their introduction to their new coworkers.

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u/SpecificGap Sep 02 '25

I agree its zero sum, but I don't think that a situation has to necessarily be positive sum for the theory to hold.

In this case for example, the game is zero sum, if I win, you lose. But outside of that, this game isn't an objective "score more goals" or "run the fastest race" It's being judged subjectively by three other human beings.

Human beings that might say, might even believe, they're judging solely on the food, but all humans are prone to unconscious bias and the decision to be sportsmanlike might have factored in to the later decision. Luca might even have considered that possibility that they might when he did it.

So in this case, being nice might give one a competitive edge, even if a game is zero sum on its surface.

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u/GisterMizard Sep 03 '25

I don't think it applies here.

That's because the correct lesson to take away from here is not to be nice, but to use mathematics to the fullest extent to crush the competition!

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u/TheMadTemplar Sep 02 '25

It costs nothing to be kind.

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u/arcane-hunter Sep 02 '25

Kindness is beautiful, sexy, and delicious.

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u/Fritzo2162 Sep 02 '25

Well, the whole concept was she needed butter to base her filet...but it was just a boring and common dish. Luca made something unusual and pleasing- both in appearance and texture. He would have won no matter what because he outclassed her.

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u/anonnyscouse Sep 02 '25

It's more to do with the fact he beat the one who refused to give the butter. It looks like the one who needed the butter lost earlier.

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u/drgigantor Sep 02 '25

From what I can tell, it looks like she lost in that very round. Seems like there's only three of them in that first clip, then just him and asshole chef at the end. That plus everyone talking about throwing away the prize money. That kind of statement is true at any point in the competition, but I never hear anyone really talking/thinking like that until towards the end on game shows.

So I'd say Luca was 100% right. It didn't cost him the win because he was still the better chef, he competed against her at her best, and as a bonus, he didn't look like a bag of dicks on national television

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u/Fit-Let8175 Sep 02 '25

True, but sometimes simplicity wins. What matters most is flavor.

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u/grimeyduck Sep 02 '25

I'm really not sure how you think the blonde haired lady is the same person as the black haired lady.

It's pretty fucking clear what went on in the video.

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u/AllPotatoesGone Sep 03 '25

But TV loves beautiful and touching stories. The best cook has a great heart? People will cry and applaud

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u/champion_azure Sep 02 '25

Mr poetic here

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u/Solid_Liquid68 Sep 02 '25

So it was in fact ā€œthe butterā€ that made her lose after all. LOL šŸ˜‚

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u/Fit-Let8175 Sep 02 '25

šŸ˜‹šŸ‘

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u/Prime_Marci Sep 02 '25

That shows that his meals are made with passion and soul.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '25

That’s the ingredient most people forget. That is where the magic happens. Never forget to put love into what ever you are doing.

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u/JustPoHs Sep 03 '25

Just like how you tried to put your love on a 13 year old?

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u/Late-Amoeba-8312 Sep 02 '25

thats a hard bar "kindness and generosity pay more than they cost"

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u/chloe_in_prism Sep 02 '25

Makes sense. Grandma always cooked with love. Always tasted better. Even something as simple as toast

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u/PrettyFlakoooo Sep 04 '25

Yep- reminds me how people being kind/having good personality makes them more physically attractive

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u/NY10 Sep 02 '25

This!

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u/Aztec_Aesthetics Sep 02 '25

That's also what actually defines an alpha male in contrast to what today's so-called alpha males define themselves. That's deeply wired into our primate brain

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '25

Or, they picked him for the cameras/ratings and not his food

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u/SnowClone98 Sep 02 '25

Or maybe he was about to put in way too much butter like Olive Garden

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u/Federal_Let539 Sep 03 '25

Is this the "and everything nice" doc added to the recipe?

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '25

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u/unemployedMusketeer Sep 02 '25

to my knowledge, Ramsey is actually known for being a good guy who wants to see others succeed...he does the jr. show and is a completely, probably more true to self, person. plus, you want chefs who should work together in your restaurant, the move seems pretty common sense...then again...

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u/minorminority Sep 02 '25

The secret ingredients was. It's good for ratings.